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hotkat -> finding a true mistress (4/23/2005 8:32:11 AM)
why cant i seem to find a true dominant mistress on this site that i s genuine?

mistoferin -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/23/2005 8:44:04 AM)
omg she used "true" and "genuine" in the same sentence....lol. Sorry hotkat but those words are kind of hot buttons here, another one you might want to skip is "real". I guess it really depends on what your personal definitions of those words are and what you are looking for....but I do know what you mean. I also think that there are many on this site who would fit your definitions.....patience is a virtue or so I am told. Not sure what you are looking for because your profile says you are owned. If that is no longer current, I would update that for starters and give some more information about who you are, that way people searching can get a good idea of what you are looking for. Welcome to the boards!

hotkat -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/23/2005 9:06:10 AM)
dear mistress mistoferin thanks for reply i am still trying to work out the controls for this! maybe we can talk later? love slave hotkatxx

siamsa24 -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/23/2005 9:10:43 AM)
Perhaps Erin's question to you was unclear (although I thought it was more then clear) so let me try asking again. What you are looking for? Your profile says that you are already owned. Have your circumstances changed? She also gave some very good advice (which is why I didn't post until now). Be patient and just get to know people and learn (the second little bit I just added in). You may want to be specific in your profile though if you are seeking, there are several threads on how to contact Dominant women, I can pull those threads if you would like.

mistoferin -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/23/2005 9:26:42 AM)
quote: dear mistress mistoferin I know it might be confusing because I posted on the Ask a Mistress board but I am not a Mistress...I am submissive. My sincerest of apologies for the confusion. mistress erin.....BAHAHAHA!!!!! Now that is the best laugh I have had in a month!

siamsa24 -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/23/2005 9:33:53 AM)
I caught that, but I figured I would let you make the correction [:D]

LdyAuburn -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/23/2005 2:58:20 PM)
Both previous posters have given excellent advice kat. You might want to consider that 'true' for you is a wannabe for another Just as a particular bugbear for me, giving random honorifics and intimacy can be quite annoying good luck with your endeavour

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/23/2005 7:13:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hotkat why cant i seem to find a true dominant mistress on this site that i s genuine? Not that it matters to me since I'm hetero, but am wondering why you are looking for a true one since your profile and journal say "this slut is now owned", is that your alter ego, or are you looking for additional play partners under direction from your owner. M

MstrssPassion -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/24/2005 8:38:43 AM)
Same old song & dance. Oh why can't I find someone real, true... blah blah blah This is not just the subs seeking... it goes for the doms as well. I found a quote a long time ago & it really rings loud for this thread. "People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within." ~Ramona L. Anderson One can't sit & cry the blues if they have not taken the time or effort to look deep inside & educate themselves about just who they are. How are we to effectively introduce ourselves if in fact we are clueless as to who we are & what we want? So hotkat... your profile says "this slut is now owned"... did you ever think that maybe by your own words you have turned away any "true & genuine" dominants? By your own words you have made it clear that you are owned. No respectful dominant will be contacting you. You have not put any effort into creating a profile that may catch the interest of someone seeking a sub/slave or slut, by your reference, in your area. Take a moment & rethink your complaint... why can't you find anyone true? Maybe try being true about yourself first. Sincerely & with Respect, MstrssPassion MstrssPassion

FelinePersuasion -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/25/2005 10:34:35 PM)
Well I really don't think hotkat was serious because long long after this post her profile still only says this slut is owned and after being shot down on her pass at erin has not botherd to post again.

MzBerlin -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/25/2005 10:53:29 PM)
Well, good thing you're here to pass out judgement.

MsMacComb -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/25/2005 11:11:37 PM)
Isnt pointing out that someone may be passing judgement a judgement call? Isnt my pointing that out also a matter of my own personal judgement? Essentially, there is no way once someone has passed judgement on anothers comments that this can end, judgementally speaking.

SweetDommes -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/25/2005 11:20:15 PM)
that made my head hurt ... (kinda) on topic, I'm inclined to believe that the person was just looking to stir up trouble - but I've been wrong before really on topic, hey, if you want a "real," "true," or "genuine" Dominant, having anything about being owned is not the way to go about it (but of course, others have already said that, so ... I'll quit being redundant).

MzBerlin -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/25/2005 11:38:59 PM)
I agree, the OP may be here to stir the pot, or may be unfamiliar with our forums and just ranting. Either way, I feel that we should try to answer them to the best of our ability if the subject interests us. B

LadyAngelika -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/26/2005 4:44:30 AM)
Berlin is so right. Now lets see if I can help hotkat... quote: ORIGINAL: hotkat why cant i seem to find a true dominant mistress on this site that i s genuine? Maybe you need help with search functions? Is this a technical issue? - LA

MadameDahlia -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/26/2005 12:43:47 PM)
Lovely LadyAngelika - You may have meant that in all seriousness... but I found it terribly humorous. By the by, since you've brought together much of information in the "How To Approach A Domina" threads on your website, would you mind terribly if I used the direct link to that page as an educational tool?

Spike1777 -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/26/2005 2:47:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadameDahlia Lovely LadyAngelika - You may have meant that in all seriousness... but I found it terribly humorous. By the by, since you've brought together much of information in the "How To Approach A Domina" threads on your website, would you mind terribly if I used the direct link to that page as an educational tool? Hi LadyAngelika I was wondering if i could visit your Web site. I am intrigued and would love to "check out" all of the great information. respectfully little spike

LadyAngelika -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/26/2005 3:40:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadameDahlia Lovely LadyAngelika - You may have meant that in all seriousness... but I found it terribly humorous. bats her eyelashes all innocently But of course I was being completely serious... quote: ORIGINAL: MadameDahlia By the by, since you've brought together much of information in the "How To Approach A Domina" threads on your website, would you mind terribly if I used the direct link to that page as an educational tool? You most certainly can! - LA

LadyAngelika -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/26/2005 3:41:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Spike1777 quote: ORIGINAL: MadameDahlia Lovely LadyAngelika - You may have meant that in all seriousness... but I found it terribly humorous. By the by, since you've brought together much of information in the "How To Approach A Domina" threads on your website, would you mind terribly if I used the direct link to that page as an educational tool? Hi LadyAngelika I was wondering if i could visit your Web site. I am intrigued and would love to "check out" all of the great information. respectfully little spike There isn't much info there yet. It's a work in progress. http://ca.geocities.com/krimsonangelika/ Enjoy! - LA

Spike1777 -> RE: finding a true mistress (4/26/2005 3:54:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: ORIGINAL: Spike1777 quote: ORIGINAL: MadameDahlia Lovely LadyAngelika - You may have meant that in all seriousness... but I found it terribly humorous. By the by, since you've brought together much of information in the "How To Approach A Domina" threads on your website, would you mind terribly if I used the direct link to that page as an educational tool? Hi LadyAngelika I was wondering if i could visit your Web site. I am intrigued and would love to "check out" all of the great information. respectfully little spike There isn't much info there yet. It's a work in progress. http://ca.geocities.com/krimsonangelika/ Enjoy! - LA Cool thanks, i can't wait to start reading. PS: i luv your feet..... little spike

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