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Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:19:39 AM   
masterwanted


Posts: 15
Joined: 6/16/2004
Status: offline 		I joined this site a week ago and was warmed by some really nice e mails. Yesterday I decided to update my profile to detail my needs and save alot of time-wasting for all concerned. Obviously my profile is pending.... this morning I happened on a profile of a Master and complimented him on it.....I have just logged on to find a very nasty message which basically states that as my profile is awaiting approval then How Dare I approach fellow members.

Im sorry did I miss the part on the joining process that stated I was not allowed to approach anyone? Can someone please point me to the clause in the Terms and conditions  which states that?

I really thought this was a good site in which to fulfil my quest.......Some of your members are letting you dowm.

xxxxxx
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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:22:00 AM   
bandit25


Posts: 3029
Joined: 6/18/2005
Status: offline 		Don't sweat it.  Just delete and move on.

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:23:16 AM   
Lucius


Posts: 80
Joined: 6/13/2004
Status: offline 		Some people are jerks. Forget Him and move on. He's surely forgotten you.

Lucius Alexander

House of the Palindromedary

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:23:26 AM   
childoftheshadow


Posts: 458
Joined: 8/2/2006
From: London UK
Status: offline 		Ignore it, they're obviously not worth your time.

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:23:27 AM   
tempest1961


Posts: 42
Joined: 3/11/2007
Status: offline 		Hehehehe, welcome to the online world... Sad, but true, there are jerks online, and some of them are even worse online because there are no real-world repurcussions to their horid behaviors... Three are nice folks around here, there are jerks around here, we all just have to take the good with the bad...

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:24:40 AM   
paulthesub


Posts: 59
Joined: 2/9/2007
From: Calgary
Status: offline 		First let me say welcome to the site.

You'll find this community is no different than any other group of people in that you have your normal, decent, understanding types as well as your high and mighty, jerk types and everything in between. I'm sorry that was one of your first impressions but don't take it personally. My advice is to just ignore emails like that and move on, they're really not worth your time or effort if they can't wait a few hours for your profile to get approved.


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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:27:37 AM   
masterwanted


Posts: 15
Joined: 6/16/2004
Status: offline 		Thank you Guys It warms my heart......

I know the scene we are in denotes a certain amount of abuse but thats one-to-one....This guy doesn't even know me......And is there a clause which states I can't approach or make comments or even say Hello! until my updates have been approved.....If there is I Am Very Sorry I broke The Rules

xxxxx

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:29:59 AM   
bandit25


Posts: 3029
Joined: 6/18/2005
Status: offline 		Nah, you didn't break any rules.  Just forget it.

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:30:00 AM   
childoftheshadow


Posts: 458
Joined: 8/2/2006
From: London UK
Status: offline 		There is no such rule, you just happened upon an idiot. If they don't want to converse with you, that's their loss.

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:31:46 AM   
childoftheshadow


Posts: 458
Joined: 8/2/2006
From: London UK
Status: offline 		Oh, and . . . Hi, welcome, it's nice to meet you.

Shadow

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:32:41 AM   
masterwanted


Posts: 15
Joined: 6/16/2004
Status: offline 		Thanks....nice to meet you all to

xxxx

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:45:09 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


Posts: 9259
Joined: 2/5/2004
Status: offline 		I wouldn't worry about it,hes just a dumb ass stuck in his own  ego self inflated little world,,welcome to collarme...bounty ...edited to add..don't judge us all by the actions of a few assholes...BH

< Message edited by BOUNTYHUNTER -- 4/15/2007 7:46:30 AM >

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 7:49:30 AM   
masterwanted


Posts: 15
Joined: 6/16/2004
Status: offline 		Thank you kind sir
x

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 11:38:28 AM   
CrimsonMoan


Posts: 2652
Joined: 10/31/2006
From: Portland, Me via Las Vegas Nv
Status: offline 		Yeah don't sweat it and welcome some people and some dommes just think thier shit don't stink  and that they an be snarky to anyone and everyone. Like everyone has said not all of us are bad but just like rl there are a sprinkling of assholes. ^_^ next time however give him a taste of his medicine -

"I am soooooo sorrry you HIGHNESS.  I didn't realize that I had offended your precious sensibilites and that my simple COMPLIMENT of your profile forced you to pull your head out of your butt to thank me with insults."

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 11:57:22 AM   
TigressFL


Posts: 239
Joined: 6/8/2006
Status: offline 		First, welcome to the forums. Second, you have gotten some great advice... delete then block little pissants like that lol

Good luck in your search!

Tigress~FL

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RE: Newbie abuse - 4/15/2007 1:26:06 PM   
novicesub2007


Posts: 1
Joined: 2/20/2007
Status: offline 		I think I've found my home! LOL! They are right, don't sweat the small stuff. Delete, block and move on.

I've gotten hate mail from men several states away. My guess is their insecurities come out when my profile states I don't want anything to do with men humiliating and hurting women in the name of BDSM... some count on that edge to do just that I'm afraid.  

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weird, isnt it? - 4/15/2007 4:49:34 PM   
m0rgan


Posts: 403
Joined: 3/19/2007
Status: offline 		some people completely ignore you, and don't respond at all!! some others are just nasty. maybe one just has to kiss a lot of frogs!!!

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