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juliaoceania -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/16/2007 12:21:33 AM)
quote: does anyone stay with their first? Is it possible? I do not know if it is possible, I am not with my first. I will always have a special place in my heart for him, but it did not end well[:(].

Twicehappy2x -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/16/2007 3:46:36 AM)
I stayed with my first until he was killed. I stayed with my second until he passed away (33 years age difference) before i accepted my current collar i laid down the hard limit of either of them dying.

mixielicous -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/16/2007 5:35:58 AM)
fast reply, i am with my first, today is the one year collaring anniversary ;) teeeheee

mixielicous -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/16/2007 5:37:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x before i accepted my current collar i laid down the hard limit of either of them dying. [sm=flowers.gif] -xoxoxo-

sillygirl09 -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/16/2007 5:44:55 AM)
I am not with my first although I will always love him and we are friends now, some things are not meant to be forever.

Celeste43 -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/16/2007 5:45:33 AM)
Almost four years later and I'm still with him. But then the difference here is that he doesn't push me if I can't handle something. He just switches to something else that he's interested in rather than freak me out. Plus he goes slowly and watches my response. He would much rather end a good experience early instead of having something be too much that leaves me feeling gunshy.

Twicehappy2x -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/16/2007 5:45:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mixielicous fast reply, i am with my first, today is the one year collaring anniversary ;) teeeheee HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO YOU !!!!!!!

bowandserve -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/16/2007 10:09:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross It's rare for anyone to stay with their first anything in the long term. I'd focus more on why you keep repeating your pattern and how you can alter it to get the results you want. yes I agree and I would welcome any insight. Perhaps I over stated time and again, just a few. And they all came back so might be a combination of their confusion and my being demanding. Still, have realized the newness of their reactions are really what gets me going... sigh.

Kitte9 -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/21/2007 8:13:31 PM)
My first awakened the desire in me to be a sub, but we are not together now. We are still dear friends and occasionally more, but not in a relationship.

cinnfulhussy -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/21/2007 9:13:56 PM)
It is possible, not probable. I am still with my first Master, and we have been living happily in sin for going on 10 years. Its not all been pretty, it has been, and continues to truely be a labor of love.

arayofsunshine55 -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/21/2007 9:56:43 PM)
Well it's been over two years and counting. So yes.

adoracat -> RE: Did you stay with your first? (4/21/2007 10:12:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bowandserve Question is more directed to subs but maybe doms have some answers - does anyone stay with their first? Is it possible? my first true Master passed away in december. the one before Him, that introduced me to BDSM, the week before Lord Fallcon passed was 2 years since he died. i hate december. Sir....well i'd like to have Him be my last.

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