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malloves69 -> being fisted anally (4/15/2007 2:23:26 PM)

WOW  !! dont know why i like it as much as i do but i think its awesome to do with my mistress ...we first started out doing strapon ..gawd she looks great wearing one ...very sexy indeed ....first she had a 6 in one ...once i got used to that she went to a 8 in one ...then to a 10 in one which i love the most now ..smile ...yes i take at least 2 enemas to make sure im nice and clean for her to play with ..smile ..i figured it was my submissive duty to present myself as being clean for her which she loves that i am ...though sometimes she loves to administer the enema herself as kind of a foreplay type of thing which i love her doing but i feel its my responsibility ecspecially when she tells me she wants to play with my ass..smile ...anyways once im nice and loose for her to take ..out goes the 10 in strapon and in goes her fist ...we use crisco as a lube and yes she wears a glove when doing the honors ...but once she is inside of me i find it gives me such a rush when her fist pops in ...when i relax she trys to go a little deeper each time ...im now past her wrist ....usually i cum like crazy for her doing this to me and she loves to feed back my cum until i swallow it all ...i find this a great way to submit to her and her desires ..it really is a powerfull exchange of control i feel and i trust her completely while she does this to me ...when we are done and her fist comes out its like a lot of my stress comes out too cant believe how relaxed i am after she is done ...gawd knows she has my heart but once she is inside of me its almost like she touches my soul being that deep inside of me ..smile ...guess my questions are is how popular is this for you ladys ? do you enjoy doing it ? because man my mistress seems like she really gets into it and not in a sadistic way but more a loving caring way ...how special is this with me being a guy ? as far as im concerned my ass ...cock ...mouth ...tongue and anything else i have is hers to play with whenever we are together ...the 6in strapon seems like nothing now that im used to her fist is there any harm in doing this ?  we usually do this once a week i just love her inside of me and giving myself up to her this way ...we also do sounds too which i love also ...always thought that was a exit only hole a guy has but sounds once its in i think that does feel good seeing that sound sticking out of my cockhole is simply amazing to me ...love the vibrating sounds the best ...but it seems like she loves fisting me more then doing sounds on me which is fine to me because she says its actually her fist in me and not some instrument ...just thought i would share this ...will gladly bendover for her anytime she wants me too and yes she has had some of her friends over to show them how well i can do this for her ..never thought i would enjoy this as much as i do being a guy but i love when she fists me ...just thought i would share this ...have fun and enjoy ..smile ...mal




bobipanti -> RE: being fisted anally (4/15/2007 2:36:07 PM)

I enjoy the dildo, but anyone's fist would be too much for me.




Mysti -> RE: being fisted anally (4/15/2007 3:25:39 PM)

I had to read that twice before I figured out what your question was, but for me, I'm not really into fisting. 1. I'm not properly trained on how to do it, and 2. I personally dont find it too erotic shoving my hand up an arse.

Glad you've found something you and your Lady enjoy though. Cheers!




sting516 -> RE: being fisted anally (4/15/2007 5:11:48 PM)

i haven't been fisted in about 10 yrs...but really enjoyed to when it was done to me...it gave me the feeling that i was an extension of the Domme as she reached into my body...i'd love to feel that again some time...though the first time it was done, i had doubt about whether i'd ever close up again   lol




Elorin -> RE: being fisted anally (4/15/2007 9:25:48 PM)

Fisting my collared boy was one of the most awesome and intimate experiences we shared. I loved it and would be delighted to work with a sub who could handle it or wanted to make it a goal.
~E




MistressLorelei -> RE: being fisted anally (4/15/2007 10:14:51 PM)

Quite honestly, I was surprised at what a bonding experience fisting was.  It took gradual anal training and when the time came for the act to be complete, it was incredible for both of us.  Fisting is one of those times when you can cut sub space with a knife.... it's tangible and magical.  I see fisting as an incredibly bonding expression of dominance and submission.... an experience binding two together; one that so few people share in their relationships.  That's what makes it  erotic... and special even.




malloves69 -> RE: being fisted anally (4/16/2007 4:32:41 AM)

thanks for the replys so far ..and yes i think it is a special thing that we do ....it took us like almost 6 times to get her fist in me but once it popped in the feeling was something i have never experienced before and i love submitting and surrendering myself to her this way ...the bonding we have gone through to get this done was amazing ..smile..  i do trust her completely in whatever we do together have fun and enjoy ..mal ...




DianeB269 -> RE: being fisted anally (4/16/2007 9:35:11 AM)

I love fisting my subs. I have small hands so,  most of the time I can get half
my arm up a subs ass.


Diane




malloves69 -> RE: being fisted anally (4/16/2007 9:57:47 AM)

hi mistress diane ...thanks for the reply ....when fisting your subs can you get your entire fist inside of their intestine ? my mistress says inside of me there is like a ring when she gets to my intestine thats it does expand but getting that wide part of her fist to go further inside it does get tighter and smaller and its hard to get past that point ? she does have small hands and a skinny arm so once we get past that point she would be home free so to speak ..smile.. she has used a double headed dildo on me thats kinda skinny ..you know the 16 in kind ...and i can take a good 14 in of that without no trouble ...but she is kinda afraid to stretch out that part of my intestine opening for fear of causing me damage but i would love for her to go deeper to see what that would feel like once she really gets deep ...without doing damage to my insides of course ..smile ..dont want to start wearing depends yet heck i only turn 50 this year --lol ..she can get her 5 fingers in there  but the wide part of her fist is kind of holding us up if you know what i mean once she hits my intestine opening ...mal ...do i need to push down or relax more to get that to happen once she hits that spot ? hope i described it well enough and no im not a doctor --lol




DianeB269 -> RE: being fisted anally (4/16/2007 10:08:09 AM)

I always use a pretty good size strapon first. As soon as I take it out, I put my
hand in. I have no problem getting in up to the middle of my arm.
I do not think I could get in that far with out using a huge strapon first.
One of my ex-subs is a doctor and he said, When strapon and fisting is done
right there should be no problems later.

Slowly is the key!!!!!


Diane




Unrepentant1 -> RE: being fisted anally (4/16/2007 1:06:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

I always use a pretty good size strapon first. As soon as I take it out, I put my
hand in. I have no problem getting in up to the middle of my arm.
I do not think I could get in that far with out using a huge strapon first.
One of my ex-subs is a doctor and he said, When strapon and fisting is done
right there should be no problems later.

Slowly is the key!!!!!


Diane



I drool at the thought of you doing this to me, lol. If only!




Aswad -> RE: being fisted anally (4/16/2007 6:16:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: malloves69

...for fear of causing me damage but i would love for her to go deeper to see what that would feel like once she really gets deep ...without doing damage to my insides of course ..smile ..dont want to start wearing depends yet heck i only turn 50 this year --lol ..


Fecal incontinence is the least of your concerns. That's related to the sphincter muscle and stretching it too fast, too wide or for too long at a time, from the handballing sites I've read. And in most cases, it seems you can deal with it using a buttplug, which would be more appropriate than diapers or depends for those of us in the community, I should think. Surgery can also apparently correct some issues of this sort. Talk to your doctor about it, though.

At a certain depth (you should be safe up to about 15cm or so), you find the start of the sigmoid colon. The rectum itself is surrounded by muscle, and thus not quite as sensitive as the rest. However, the sigmoid colon bends (hence the name), and it is about as strong as a wet paper towel. This can make it complicated to move past it, and should probably only be done by someone with a lot of experience or significant anatomy skills. Perforating it is Bad(tm): very painful, and needs immediate intensive care.

Once you've moved past the sigmoid, you're moving to the side and upwards, past some very sensitive organs and a couple of nerve trunks. Then there's a bend below the diaphragm, a fairly straight path to the other side of the body, and then another bend before another fairly straight path back down. I remember reading someone saying that the nerve trunks can be stimulated in a fatal way if you're not careful.

There are people going as far in as their shoulder (bending their arm and effectively stretching the intestines a lot), but I certainly wouldn't recommend it to anyone who isn't an expert at these things.

Personally, I'd probably stick to the rectum, but your definition of "acceptable risk" may be different from mine. I'd talk to a doctor about it, though.

If he doesn't believe you, offer to have your mistress come along to demonstrate. He'll probably decline, but he'll also probably realize you're serious. If he doesn't decline, it's a perfect opportunity for some humiliation and getting your hands on medical-grade lube (exploration cream, I think they call it). [:D]

Instead of going deeper, how about wider? I'm a sucker for feet, perhaps she is too. [:D]




Elorin -> RE: being fisted anally (4/16/2007 6:21:44 PM)

I heartily recommend doing searches on fisting and handballing if your mistress wants to go deeper. Gay men's writing in particular!

~Elorin
(who skimmed this the first time and didn't therefore realize what all of the questions were)

Edited to add: the 2nd knuckle of the thumb is the killer for most people with fisting. It is the widest part of the hand. Vaginal or anal, that is where most people get stuck and where a lot of people just give up. Read Deborah Addingtons "A Hand in the Bush" for a description of what she calls the "duck hand" where the thumb is tucked into the fingers to minimize hand breadth. A quickie google search also comes up with "Trust, the Hand Book: A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing " on Amazon, and there are links on that book's page to other fisting books.
~E




Aswad -> RE: being fisted anally (4/17/2007 1:04:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Elorin

Gay men's writing in particular!


Yeah. The best info seems to be from the gay handballing community.

quote:

Read Deborah Addingtons "A Hand in the Bush" for a description of what she calls the "duck hand" where the thumb is tucked into the fingers to minimize hand breadth.


This is what I tried originally. Seems to be the best approach. Of course, being male, and having rather large knuckles, I have more trouble getting in than most women probably would.

Of course, as always, books and online texts give a better impression than porn. It's rather borderline irresponsible how they often give the impression that dropping the lube is always okay and that one can just force the hand into an inexperienced recipient. [:'(]





MistressLorelei -> RE: being fisted anally (4/17/2007 6:48:20 AM)

I got most of my research on this topic info from gay males across the world.  Their best advice:  Crisco.

I also found a bit of information written by medical clinics and such.  Prostate exams, etc.  Now, I suppose, I could write my own report on the topic.  lol




malloves69 -> RE: being fisted anally (4/17/2007 9:17:24 AM)

love to hear the ladys reports on this topic i guess because i love having it done as much as i do ..smile ...boy if my mistress ever kicked me to the curb i would have to put a ad out ....sub male looking to get fisted in michigan because i dont know if i can go without it being done since i discovered how much fun this can be to share with a lady in control ..have fun ..smile ..mal




solvr70 -> RE: being fisted anally (4/17/2007 9:48:54 AM)

being able to take a fist would certainly be a goal, but i can't imagine being able to take one. it took me sooooo long to be able to a 2 1/4" thick strapon.i have a reasonably small frame, but i suppose it could be possible with regular effort, working up to it slowly.

in my mind it would be a great way to totally give myself over to One, and be taken by Her as well.




Unrepentant1 -> RE: being fisted anally (4/17/2007 1:14:33 PM)

I love anal play, so fisting would be very interesting to me. I can take big toys so its a logical next step.




Aswad -> RE: being fisted anally (4/17/2007 1:33:16 PM)

solvr70,

Work your way up slowly. Anyone with a regular anatomy can work their way up to taking a hand, a foot or somesuch. Probably a lot more, as well.

Kind of like stretching any other muscle: push it slowly until it is a little bit painful / uncomfortable, but not so much it really hurts, hold for a little while, then release the tension slowly. The gay pages on this explain it fairly well most of the time. Better than I can do.

A word of caution: don't leave anything significantly wider than your wrist to stretch the sphincter for an extended period of time. This is, from what I've read, the usual reason why some people get fecal incontinence over time. Rough going is more associated with internal problems, prolapses, etc., although it can cause sphincter issues.

In case any maledoms or switches are listening in: for the more ambitious, and more experienced, there's an activity that appears more common among gay men, but which I've seen hetero couples do as well, in which a penis (strapons would work, too) is inserted together with the hand, and is masturbated inside the person. I've heard people talk about having done this with the hand in a different orifice than the one used for penetration as well, some claiming that is less unpleasant. Just a thought, and one to be very careful with, at that.





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