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CuriousLord -> How was your first time as a slave? (4/16/2007 2:58:57 AM)
For female slaves: How was your first time being a slave (or first part of the first time, if your first time's lasted for many years)? How old were you then? Why did you start slavery? What mistakes did you make at first? What would you have done differently? What do you know now that you wish you knew then? Anything you don't know now that you still wish you knew then? What other sorts of things do you believed would have helped you? Do you feel Masters should treat younger slaves with any special consideration? If so, how? I'm trying to understand younger female slaves, as I deal with them quite frequently. For anywhich I've acquired, it's been their first time. I feel as though understanding their prospective more clearly would assist, and that seeing other female slave prospectives could assist, due to the point of view being similar. To this end, I'm only looking for responses from female slaves, or, to some extent, submissives who ultimately became slaves. Personal thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and reflection are perferred over genearlizations. (I'd perfer to see numerous female slaves speak and be able to draw together my own conclusions instead of fumbling through interepting the conclusions of others. This is a large reason for looking for only female slave responses.) For those who can answer, thanks. I'd have a platter of cookies and cuplets of milk next to the collection box, if that was possible. Since it's not, I hope you're able to treat yourself. You deserve it. :) (Plus I ate all the cookies I had earlier.)

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: How was your first time as a slave? (4/16/2007 8:03:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousLord For female slaves: How was your first time being a slave (or first part of the first time, if your first time's lasted for many years)? Big. quote: How old were you then? 18 quote: Why did you start slavery? It was what felt right to me. quote: What mistakes did you make at first? Not getting all the facts, rushing in, denying myself what I didn't think I deserved quote: What would you have done differently? Not made a serious commitment quote: What do you know now that you wish you knew then? That I deserve everything I want and can get it. quote: Anything you don't know now that you still wish you knew then? How I could have let it go so far quote: What other sorts of things do you believed would have helped you? Not being stuck in the stereotype of "what a good slave is/does." quote: Do you feel Masters should treat younger slaves with any special consideration? If so, how? Nope, they are still adults. If they want to claim their adult fun, they must be accountable for the responsibilities. Edit to add: If someone really does want to get involved with someone younger than 25, they should understand what that means in terms of big life changes and accommodations. Each decade has its own general issues to deal with and you must accept all of those along with the person.

liljoy -> RE: How was your first time as a slave? (4/16/2007 8:37:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousLord For female slaves: How was your first time being a slave (or first part of the first time, if your first time's lasted for many years)? tough but so worth it How old were you then? i've identified as a submissive until just the last few months so 45 Why did you start slavery? i finally accepted that to be a slave is what i need to be to be fulfilled. What mistakes did you make at first? worrying too much What would you have done differently? Nothing, every struggle i've had has brought us closer What do you know now that you wish you knew then? i wish i had met Him sooner Anything you don't know now that you still wish you knew then? if i don't know it yet i can't answer this question. i'm very sure i still have a LOT to learn. What other sorts of things do you believed would have helped you? What has helped me is Master really listening to my concerns and being there for me every step of the way. Do you feel Masters should treat younger slaves with any special consideration? If so, how? no I'm trying to understand younger female slaves, as I deal with them quite frequently. For anywhich I've acquired, it's been their first time. I feel as though understanding their prospective more clearly would assist, and that seeing other female slave prospectives could assist, due to the point of view being similar. To this end, I'm only looking for responses from female slaves, or, to some extent, submissives who ultimately became slaves. Personal thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and reflection are perferred over genearlizations. (I'd perfer to see numerous female slaves speak and be able to draw together my own conclusions instead of fumbling through interepting the conclusions of others. This is a large reason for looking for only female slave responses.) For those who can answer, thanks. I'd have a platter of cookies and cuplets of milk next to the collection box, if that was possible. Since it's not, I hope you're able to treat yourself. You deserve it. :) (Plus I ate all the cookies I had earlier.)

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: How was your first time as a slave? (4/16/2007 5:59:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousLord For female slaves: How was your first time being a slave (or first part of the first time, if your first time's lasted for many years)? It was something I agreed to enter into and it is what made me finally feel fulfilled in many ways How old were you then? 24 Why did you start slavery? I had expressed desires to discover these desires for being a slave What mistakes did you make at first? not being trusting and soemtimes deceding what i thought was the right decision withoug discussing it with him first What would you have done differently? Nothing, life is about learning so I did. What do you know now that you wish you knew then? That most people that aren't a slave think they know what one is and say we are weak or not strong willed. Which is total crap. Doms, subs, slaves etc can be weak. Anything you don't know now that you still wish you knew then? No matter how long I have been in this lifestyle I am always learning, so no. What other sorts of things do you believed would have helped you? More support from other slaves. Do you feel Masters should treat younger slaves with any special consideration? If so, how? What does age have to do with it? Just a number. Everyone was new at one point no matter their age. (Plus I ate all the cookies I had earlier.)

Mercnbeth -> RE: How was your first time as a slave? (4/17/2007 5:34:14 AM)
quote: How was your first time being a slave (or first part of the first time, if your first time's lasted for many years)? Absolutely fabulous…and it still is after 4 years!!! quote: How old were you then? 36, but this slave has been familiar and comfortable with the concept of “ownership” since being a wee one. quote: Why did you start slavery? After failing miserably at vanilla relationships and deciding that perhaps this slave just wasn't cut out to be in a relationship with ANYONE...this slave stumbled across information that folks structure entire relationships on an M/s or D/s model and actually seek out others who compliment their proclivities for fun, dating or as life-partners. This slave was raised in a very strict, rural, isolated environment where obedience and service came first…and was taken care of until such time as a suitable husband/owner/Master came to claim her. Call it a function of living a sheltered life, but the only reference to BDSM this slave had ever been aware of prior was to see an occasional reference to “Dominatrix” as a Halloween Costume or as a profession. Seeing as how this slave was never interested in becoming a Dominatrix or serving one, she never pursued any other information and was unaware that folks label themselves as they do and then go about finding like-minded folks for fun and friendship…and only in her wildest dreams imagined that folks actually live this way, structure their intimate relationships this way and not just as in kinky sex in the bedroom, but 24/7. This slave did not self-identify as “slave” or seek out a Master. What this slave thought of as “submissive”, turned out to be what Master considered “slave”. This slave has accepted the use of the word to describe her---she used it often, before she knew the “lifestyle” connotation to describe the type of non-sexual service she provided for folks in her family and community. quote: What mistakes did you make at first? Assumed that: others similarly involved would be mostly friendly the only public dungeons are in Amsterdam this slave would take a few years getting to know folks and just being friendly before any serious relationship would form, IF EVER. quote: What would you have done differently? Nothing. quote: What do you know now that you wish you knew then? Can’t think of anything this slave wishes she knew from the beginning, as the journey to whatever knowledge she has now has been a most enjoyable one!!! quote: Anything you don't know now that you still wish you knew then? You can’t know what you don’t know…[:)] quote: What other sorts of things do you believed would have helped you? Nothing…this slave has no regrets or if only…. quote: Do you feel Masters should treat younger slaves with any special consideration? If so, how? Younger as in 18? Or Younger as in “new to all of this”? Either way, there should be the consideration that anyone, brand new to anything, might decide a short way down the path that this is not the journey they want to be on. Younger as in 18 is a slightly different set of circumstances---not saying they aren’t sincere, just that there are a whole slew of life choices to make once one becomes an adult…and sometimes it takes time to work out which ones are going to take priority. Some folks have college on their agenda and still live with parents. When this slave was 18, the Dr.’s advised “have them now…or don’t have them at all”, as freezing one’s eggs for the future was not an option, so she made the choice(along with her "owner-parents") to have them and stay at home serving them.

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