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RE: Ageplay....... A switch thing? - 4/16/2007 12:17:00 PM

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I don't think everyone who practices or lives ageplay is manipulative and bratty, really. Sometimes, being bratty is called for in a scene, but I know I wouldn't get away with manipulating my Daddy or, as you said, "cutsey-ing my way out of it" nor would doing those things get me what I want/need/etc.

I'm sure this is different for everyone... just like being a master, dominant, slave, or submissive might be.

i agree. Manipulation and/or the cutesy thing would not have worked in my Daddy/girl relationships. But i'm sure this is different for others as well. i think a lot of it depends on the dom. So i personally don't see ageplay as any type of switchy lifestyle.

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RE: Ageplay....... A switch thing? - 4/16/2007 1:37:20 PM

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What i get from "age play" if you can even call it that (for me) is the ability to let out a part of me that is otherwise gaurded and under lock and key. Its a freedom from the utter control i tend to keep myself in. Its okay to be excited, happy, silly, carefree and yeah - i can literally jump for joy - and Master doesnt look at me wierd. i can hop around like a nut - cos it feels good - i can beg Daddy to go play in the rain...... i can just let out the person inside that i trust around no one. The world stops being a big bad evil world that i've got to keep a close eye on...... its becomes a world of wonders of sunshine of safety. A bright new world - that i can enjoy with out fear.

i also get from it alot of coping and comforting mechanisms that i wouldnt otherwise allow myself to use. Things that just make it ALL better...... that as the person i walk around as..... i could never allow myself to enjoy.

its also a place where i can let out my playfulness with Master... Sure i get alittle bratty (but only with in the boundaries he gives).. and at times i get alittle pouty (within the boundaries again)..... It gives me another venue to express myself in a way that is okay. That respects our dynamic, respects him, and at the same time voices whatever i need to voice. Another level to communicate on.

It also gives me the guidance and care that i need greatly at times. As "myself" when i cry - god help a person if they touch me or comfort me. i hate it. If i'm upset - leave me the hell alone!!! Yet - in that place where i can freely let loose - i can accept that comfort and let it help. i can open up the vulnerable side of me and let some one come help me work through it. Daddy opens up his lap, opens up his arms, lets me climb into them and bawl on his chest. He shushes me, rubs my back and talks to me.

All in all - its a place where i can let out the person i have kept hidden and protected from the world.

It could be a slight "switch" thing for me........as it is two different parts of my personality that i "switch" back and forth. Between gaurded adult and vunerable little girl. ::shrugs:: but it doesnt change whose in charge in my relationship.

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RE: Ageplay....... A switch thing? - 4/16/2007 2:17:35 PM

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I do not speak of the ageplay roleplay game, but the lifestyle. To me, the lifestyle has nothing to do with what a person wears, how they talk, or how they "respect elders" but how a person views the world. I call it "seeing through fresh eyes"...... Granted cutesy talk, and clothing can do a great deal by adding a bit to the physical realities of a situation, but they are by no means "what it means to ageplay".

to me, having a fresh view on life isn't ageplay. it's just another part of a dynamic personality. you can cook dinner and pay bills and go to work each day. you can also sing and dance in a store if you like the song that's on. there aren't any rules that say at a certain age you must stop certain activities. people might look at you funny if you're sitting on the grass at the park blowing bubbles and you don't have any children with you, but so what? eat cake for breakfast, wave at cows along the freeway, wear socks covered in turtles. experiment with how many finger taps on the shoulder it takes to completely annoy the man sitting next to you watching baseball (do that one at your own risk). you're all grown up now and you can choose to be anything you want to be.

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RE: Ageplay....... A switch thing? - 4/16/2007 4:46:06 PM

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If it's a switch thing, then it's not a thing for this switch. That's kind of like saying that crossdressing is a male sub thing ... when I know plenty of Dominant males who crossdress (more successfully than some of the submissive males, I might add) as well as plenty of submissive males who don't..

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RE: Ageplay....... A switch thing? - 4/16/2007 6:12:41 PM

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If you find ageplay to be switchplay, it is a dynamic of your own relationship. It isn't true of most Adult/lil one relationships that I encounter in real life. My husband is my impish lilboy. While he can be very cute at times, I do not allow it to negate any punishment due. I feel that part of my job as his Domme Mommy is that I have to be the adult. That means being willing to take control and not leave it in the hands of the lil one.

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