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hereyesruponyou -> RE: angered a few? (4/17/2007 5:32:17 AM)
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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile
OK.. since you play guitar.. I do myself and this is how I'm going to make it relate.
Just as there are many different styles of music, so are there styles of relationships in BDSM. There are many different Techniques. Some songs/scenes played can be Heavy and Hard.. some are soft and sweet. Painful, Happy, Dark.. just as many moods in music.. so comes to play in BDSM scenes. For some interactive fantasy and interactive long di relationship work.. others not. The important aspect of any relationship is Communication. It's simply easier now for people to communication now days. This helps bring people together and closer to one another. Many people do long and desire for a Physical relationship. However, they can spend time getting to safely know and feel out each other online or over the phone. Also, if two people can be faithful to each other long di... you know without question they will be in the Real time as well. WHEW....
To take this a step further....there are many ways to interact with music. I may not be able to play an instrument, or write music, but when i listen to it, i am interacting as it affects my mood and inner being. My experience is completely different than those who are on the creative side, but it is no less real. The same is true for many on the cyber side. Yes, some do just yank each others chains online, but to say you can't have the same deep level of emotional committment is incorrect. Reminds me of a guy i used to work with who didn't believe in love. There was just no way to prove it to him because he could not empathize.
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