LadyAngelika -> RE: What do you know, my moms cool after all:)) (4/26/2005 5:08:54 AM)
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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2 I will never understand the issue about seeing parents as sexual, how can we expect our children to talk openly with us if we are freaked out about it ourselves? Personally I'd love my mom to go out and have a fun healthy sex life. We all have our personal boundaries when it comes to discussing our sex lives, but the whole "parent freak out" side I don't understand. My parents taught me many things. Things pertaining to sex was not one of them. But then, you can only teach what you understand. In that regards, I have probably educated my mother about sex more then she has me. But even in this regard, I shelter her somewhat because somethings would sincerely freak her out and perturb her. But I have been completely open about a lot. I have brought home girlfriends, boyfriends and even recently, I clarified to my mother that my boy was not my boyfriend but a good friend with whom I share many things with, including intimacy, which in French we call “ami-amant”, translated to “lover-friend” which is so much more subtle then fuck-buddy. As for suspicions, a few months ago, my brother asked me "so when you get your M.Ed., you'll be a Master... or Mistress?" and my father almost choked on his wine and looked at my brother and said "I wouldn't touch that one with a ten foot pole". Maybe Daddy stumbled on my porn collection while checking his email on my computer ;) - LA
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