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azjojoba -> Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:01:35 PM)

One surprising thing I have noticed on collarme is that there are so few posts from women over the age of 40. It drops steeply after 50. That's sort of a bummer for me since I prefer women who are older than myself.

I'm interested in hearing your theories about why this is so. Perhaps it's a generational thing -- women over 50 grew up in a culture that favored submissiveness, or perhaps women over 50 don't use the internet.



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:06:18 PM)

And, of course, are they interested in married men?



OedipusRexIt -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:11:15 PM)

Wow... not sure about what the "married" reference means, but I've wondered where women over the age of 50 disappear to also. 

Not particularly the dommes, of course, but grown-ups of all types. 

I'll be curious to hear the expertly posited theories which will soon fill this thread.



azjojoba -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:12:12 PM)

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And, of course, are they interested in married men?


That's irrelevant to the question I asked.



MistressNoName -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:16:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: azjojoba

One surprising thing I have noticed on collarme is that there are so few posts from women over the age of 40. It drops steeply after 50. That's sort of a bummer for me since I prefer women who are older than myself.

I'm interested in hearing your theories about why this is so. Perhaps it's a generational thing -- women over 50 grew up in a culture that favored submissiveness, or perhaps women over 50 don't use the internet.



Well, there are now 124 by this over-40 woman.

MNN

[:)]



lippyangelicsub -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:20:26 PM)

It is only irelevant if your a married man, i think  the older you get the less you think you have to compromise over! lippyangelic(not so subby)sub



hereyesruponyou -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:20:54 PM)

But your question on here is as silly as the insulting ones on your profile. With your attitude why would ANYONE of any age want to play with you....

And how can you be willing to relocate when you are married and need to keep things discreet?  Oh, no need to answer, that's right i am not "real".... nevermind



SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:21:16 PM)

There are quite a few of us in our 40's. How exactly are you searching to come to that conclusion?



azjojoba -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:25:25 PM)

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But your question on here is as silly as the insulting ones on your profile. With your attitude why would ANYONE of any age want to play with you....

And how can you be willing to relocate when you are married and need to keep things discreet? Oh, no need to answer, that's right i am not "real".... nevermind


You obviously didn't read my question before you started to answer. Or perhaps you don't have the mental  capacity or reading ability to understand the question. Oh well -- if any of these are the case then you aren't capable of answering anyway. Move the the back of the classroom!



Argentopal -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:27:04 PM)

I post here in this id and as MsOpal as well. I am ovr 40.  I am over 50.  I can use a computer and net as well as any kid, I write in html, have maintained many different professional, cultural, personal, and lifestyle web sites for over  two decades, have run irl chat rooms, Yhaoo e-lists ...  

MsOpal



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:29:00 PM)

Ive known several over40 and over50 Dommes.  They tend to favor realtime, and leave the internet stuff to the younger ones. The ones I knew at least.  However, you should realize that the number of older dommes who are going to be interested in sneaking around and playing at someones fantasy, online or realtime, is going to be drastically lower.  AS we get older, many of us realize that we want someone who is going to be ours, not someone we have to share with a wife that doesnt know shes sharing. EVen if you find a cache of older Dommes, finding some that are in the age bracket you want and interested in playing to your fantasy is going to be a bit more challenging.

DV



LadySeraphina -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:32:39 PM)

I must say I agree. I am both well under 50, and not seeking a play partner, as I am marrying my houseboy in the fall, but there are many lovely ladies over 50 both on this site and elsewhere. And yes, I can see how it would be difficult for you to find ones who are interested in playing with you, OP, because of being married. Few lifestyle Dommes want a male who is married, and whose wife is not aware. There are some, I'm sure, but I haven't met any.

JMO, and I'm sure you'll have a retort for me as well.



OedipusRexIt -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:35:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: hereyesruponyou

And how can you be willing to relocate when you are married and need to keep things discreet?  Oh, no need to answer, that's right i am not "real".... nevermind



aha...  should have guessed.



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:40:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: azjojoba

quote:

But your question on here is as silly as the insulting ones on your profile. With your attitude why would ANYONE of any age want to play with you....

And how can you be willing to relocate when you are married and need to keep things discreet? Oh, no need to answer, that's right i am not "real".... nevermind


You obviously didn't read my question before you started to answer. Or perhaps you don't have the mental  capacity or reading ability to understand the question. Oh well -- if any of these are the case then you aren't capable of answering anyway. Move the the back of the classroom!



While you can certainly put a question out there, what you don't get is a choice in how people choose to answer said question.  Being snarky because we look at the big picture, not just age or location or what someone's proclamation of what realness is, isn't going to keep the conversation on topic or interest people in telling you what you want to hear. 



stef -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:49:16 PM)

It doesn't look like your making out any better in this thread than you did in your last one.  You might just have to realize that in order to get what you want, you're going to have to pull out the wallet and hire a pro.

~stef



hereyesruponyou -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:50:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: azjojoba

You obviously didn't read my question before you started to answer. Or perhaps you don't have the mental  capacity or reading ability to understand the question. Oh well -- if any of these are the case then you aren't capable of answering anyway. Move the the back of the classroom!



Clueless little boy....  enjoy not having anyone interested in you.  Will never understand how a sub can think that being rude to others would be read by anyone as appropriate...



bbwdommelilith -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 2:55:48 PM)

You go, girl! (uh, woman!)

Lilith

"When you look into the abyss, the abyss looks into you..."



Quivver -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 3:19:52 PM)

1434 Posts and pushing 50 then again I prefer that Submissive side of myself or I wouldnt call myself one.
Then again I'm just not ~your~ submissive!  .............  snicker



LaTigresse -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 3:23:34 PM)

Well over 40, moving in on 50. Have no interest in men let alone a married one.

BUT..........I do post!!!



azjojoba -> RE: Where are the older female dominants? (4/17/2007 3:39:42 PM)

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One surprising thing I have noticed on collarme is that there are so few posts from women over the age of 40. It drops steeply after 50. That's sort of a bummer for me since I prefer women who are older than myself.


Actually I was referring more to the profiles in the database. Sorry for the misunderstanding. I suspect there are more young women making posts to the forums also, but that would be very tough to figure out. It's much easier to do searching in the database of profiles.

If I search the database for different age categories in my state, there are pages and pages of results for women under the age of 40. There are only 3 women listed as "female dominants" over the age of 55. The distribution of profiles is very telling.



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