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RE: First Time - 4/18/2007 7:02:31 PM

curiouslyseeking

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~~Memories~~

The first time I met my last Dominant face-to-face after an introduction through a local bdsm e-mail group...

He handed me his watch, and said the first five minutes are yours to do as you please....then, the rest of the time from this point on is MINE.

5 minutes of fame,

~curious~

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RE: First Time - 4/18/2007 7:35:14 PM

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Hmm I broke all the rules when I first met the Dom that I was collared to.. First meeting was in a hotel room, naked.
We had spoke on the phone for about 2 months, after meeting in a chat room.. hours and hours of talk, a few times every day, became very close, shared many things, I even helped him with his financials..(setting up auto pays and such) he trusted me with that, and so that helped me to trust him as well. I still can't beleive that sometimes. But anyway, I had to travel quite far, from Seattle to Baton Rouge, and a layover in Dallas/Fort Worth. While I was waiting for my connecting flight, there was some severe thunderstorms.. flights were delayed.. over and over and over.. finally cancelled all together. I was a total wreck.. in my heels and short skirt, as I was told to wear. Couldn't find a room for the night, all full. Called him all upset and crying.. I think it was the long travel and stress of the first meet, just got overwhelmed. He got me a room that offered a shuttle from the airport, and drove the 5/6 hours to be there that evening. I had no luggage, no makeup, no nothing!! just those heels and skirt..and a blouse, kinda slutty looking, lol. So when I finally saw him for the first time, I had no shoes on, because my feet were all swollen, and no clothes, because I showered and all that, and was wrapped up in a sheet, no makeup, hair all hanging straight and not fixed up.. I felt a mess.
But it was all ok.. when I saw him, it was all ok and it was really wonderful.
I learned alot about travel, and what not to wear, and what to carry on..lol
but mostly I learned that all the trappings were not important, and that stressing about it didn't do any good at all. And he didn't really mind too much that I was just wearing a sheet. :)

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RE: First Time - 4/19/2007 6:35:44 AM

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We had talked to each other for a while before meeting. I was nervous when going to meet him but as soon as I did I intstantly felt comfortable. I knew this is where I belonged. I had never felt that comfortable with someone the first time I met them.

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RE: First Time - 4/19/2007 4:37:35 PM

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I’m not sure how long we spoke before meeting. (We first connected here). I also broke all the rules and was driving to Pittsburgh and going to his house.

I got lost (damn Liberty Tunnel) and he came and got me at a gas station. I don’t remember what I said or did when he arrived – I only remember him getting out of his car, wearing a pair of tan shorts and a t-shirt, tongs and incredibly sexy sunglasses and giving me the biggest smile I had ever seen.

He’s been my hero in so many ways ever since.

A few months later as we were driving to dinner – I asked him if he ever wished he would have left me there. He responded with, “tricia, realistically, I could drop you off there right now and you would never find your way back.”

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