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Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 11:32:54 AM   
badpaliden


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Status: offline 		Is it me or has there been an increase in what I call the "Out there" profiles.. those are the ones  that seem to be the No Limits , wants the extrem life/play  and wont respond to you unless you supply them with a pic  and a "hot" letter explaining what /how you'r gonna "do them" lol..
No I'm not putting down any one who has extream desires,not in the least! Its just that the amount of these so called profile seems to have increased as of late is all, and I was just honestly asking if I was the only one seeing it this way.

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 11:37:11 AM   
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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 11:38:14 AM   
darkinshadows


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I see no alteration in recent times.
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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 11:39:25 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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Status: offline 		Why do you care if these profiles seem to be multiplying at an exponential rate?

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 11:40:09 AM   
badpaliden


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Status: offline 		Ok then I guess its just me then!  not to worry.. like I ever did.

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 11:46:21 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		To the op. Go into chat. You can always find a few of them in there. You dont have to try to find them they will find you.  

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 11:57:11 AM   
onestandingstill


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Status: offline 		I see trends myself in these sorts of sites.
Some days all I see is wonderful profiles & good people & other days all I see is wackos.
Just hang in there and the wind will change directions on you again soon.
People come and go in here like it's a revolving door.
Maybe it's just the people joining in your area are a little stranger than normal this month.
suzanne

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 12:06:06 PM   
badpaliden


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Status: offline 		LOL. hey its not like I'm gonna answer them.. just posted an observation.. as to my area.. no.. its a broad spetrum  thing  here..I'm fairly sure of.. MHO its just guys who get off posing as females .. its an old problem from way back in the snail mail days of newpapers  and letters.  Just seems to be more of them right now. Must be the planets alineing in some way or some thing...

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 2:29:30 PM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		To be honest, most of the time, when I see an "out there" profile, what I see is a lazy-ass HNG fishing for spank material. Usually they want some photo as an example of how "extreme" you are, and they want a letter detailing your past experience, and somehow, it seems like they're asking for an awful lot up-front without offering a whole hell of a lot. Just smells trollish to me, but at least they're not out there actively offending anybody.

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 2:35:15 PM   
marylynn


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Just don't reply to them.. especially if you feel that way.
Guys posting as females - and females posting as guys.

It goes two ways..
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and like buttholes, everyone's got one (opinion, too)

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 2:44:00 PM   
MellowSir


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Status: offline 		The worst ones are the ones that list as "seeking" yet they are already taken, or don't reply to mail, those are the real gamers. Look, if you're not seeking a dom or sub, then don't advertise as such, thank you.

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 2:53:52 PM   
mp072004


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Status: offline 		I'd guess it's just coincidence. There might be a small trend in your area, but I haven't noticed a real surge of those sorts of profiles in my region. I also don't think it's just a matter of your search criteria, because I also look up profiles of submissive women remotely okay with fucking women and remotely okay with non-monogamy.

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 2:54:51 PM   
marylynn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MellowSir

The worst ones are the ones that list as "seeking" yet they are already taken, or don't reply to mail, those are the real gamers. Look, if you're not seeking a dom or sub, then don't advertise as such, thank you.


Well said, simply put

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 3:21:15 PM   
WhiplashSmile


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quote:

ORIGINAL: marylynn

quote:

ORIGINAL: MellowSir

The worst ones are the ones that list as "seeking" yet they are already taken, or don't reply to mail, those are the real gamers. Look, if you're not seeking a dom or sub, then don't advertise as such, thank you.


Well said, simply put

I really hate those ones, wish they would take themselves off the search list.  Simply uncheck seeking blah blah blah....

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 3:29:02 PM   
WhiplashSmile


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Status: offline 		I've come across some really out there profiles. Some examples...
  • One wanted to be only a Basement bitch, living life in a basement and kept a secret from the world.
  • One wanted to be locked in steel and kept in a closet or dungeon 24/7 taken out only to be used.
  • One wanted to be Kept in the bathroom...

What the Hell, as if I'd ever want such a limited sub/slave anyways.  I think they must have watch one too many BDSM pornos or something.


< Message edited by WhiplashSmile -- 4/18/2007 3:30:58 PM >

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 4:22:58 PM   
kiyari


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quote:

ORIGINAL: badpaliden

Is it me or has there been an increase in what I call the "Out there" profiles.. those are the ones  that seem to be the No Limits , wants the extrem life/play  and wont respond to you unless you supply them with a pic  and a "hot" letter explaining what /how you'r gonna "do them" lol..
No I'm not putting down any one who has extream desires,not in the least! Its just that the amount of these so called profile seems to have increased as of late is all, and I was just honestly asking if I was the only one seeing it this way.


Just have a peek at the 'forum posts' of such... won't be any, I wager

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/18/2007 5:30:46 PM   
Casie


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Status: offline 		I too have noticed there seem to be more of those profiles

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/19/2007 1:07:29 AM   
MariaB


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile

I've come across some really out there profiles. Some examples...
  • One wanted to be only a Basement bitch, living life in a basement and kept a secret from the world.
  • One wanted to be locked in steel and kept in a closet or dungeon 24/7 taken out only to be used.
  • One wanted to be Kept in the bathroom...


What the Hell, as if I'd ever want such a limited sub/slave anyways.  I think they must have watch one too many BDSM pornos or something.



and? each to there own eh?

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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/19/2007 1:16:45 AM   
hisannabelle


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Status: offline 		greetings mellowsir,

i'm seeking friends, play partners, and possible dates. i really don't have a particular preference for the orientation of potential play partners, so yes, i do list myself as seeking dominants and submissives of both genders, as well as switches and others. i don't consider this disingenuous because, while i'm collared and not looking for a dominant per se, i am open to playing with dominants. i do agree that people who are collared and not looking for anything other than friends should not list "seeking"...i have noticed a lot of people even keep the same profiles they had when they were seeking after they're collared, and the only way i know they're collared is by reading their journal. i don't understand why editing profiles is so hard for some people.

just a couple thoughts on what you mentioned.

greetings badpaliden,

i haven't really noticed an increase in these, but then again, this isn't something i see terribly often when i'm browsing profiles. i tend to look at the most recent logins only when i'm looking at profiles, and maybe these people just aren't around when i am...

respectfully,
annabelle.


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RE: Increase in "Out there"profiles... - 4/19/2007 2:03:09 AM   
biru


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ORIGINAL: Suleiman

To be honest, most of the time, when I see an "out there" profile, what I see is a lazy-ass HNG fishing for spank material.


Sir,

HNG? I'm not familiar with that term. Could you enlighten me?

b

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