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CreativeDominant -> RE: Groveling (6/8/2007 7:03:54 PM)
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ORIGINAL: OedipusRexIt
What are the thoughts of other Doms (this being "Ask a Master") about grovelling behavior from a partner?
Like it? Hate it? Find it common or uncommon behavior?
...I'll offer my own thoughts later, so as not to hijack my own thread.
For me, it depends on the context. Having a submissive beg for something she really wants, whether in play or outside of play, can be very amusing and I love the humiliation/feed-into-dominant's-control aspects of it. When she does it for something that she has been told "No" to and the only reason she is begging is because she doesn't want to follow my plan, she wants to follow her plan or have things her way, then I do not find it appealing.
Groveling is a different situation. I had a submissive who loved a particular type of play. Loved it, craved it almost. Knowing this, there were times when I would stop before she was ready...before I was ready...just because I knew she would not only beg me to continue but that the begging would become groveling. In that context, it was great. In a situation where it was used to try and build me up falsely or to try and "buy" her way out of discipline or punishment with no real remorse being felt by her and her only regret being that she was going to be disciplined harshly and hating that...no, it does not appeal to me at all.
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