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MagiksSlave -> RE: deciding your own punishment (4/21/2007 11:12:43 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz
You inconvenienced her in two ways. First, she was worried, perhaps even grief-stricken, about your safety. This wreaks havoc on one's mind. Secondly, she stayed up late, and likely lost some sleep, which in turn, likely caused her following day to be more difficult than it should have.
In my opinion, an appropriate punishment would be one that causes you to experience similar things, so that you remember not to cause these problems again. I will provide a suggestion, however, even though your Mistress told you to decide your own punishment, she will likely want to know what you've decided, and you should run any ideas that you come up with (particularly if they are suggestions from others) by her first.
My suggestion:
Create a self-incriminating video of yourself - one that you would not like for your vanilla friends or family or anyone else to bear witness to. Provide her the footage and give her full privilege to do with it as she pleases. Request that she does not inform you of what she chooses to do for 2 weeks.
This will likely cause you to feel similar stress and lack of sleep that she felt in worrying over you. You will likely wonder if she plans to use it to expose you or not - and, she may do that. The point is, you too will worry, much like she did, and you too will feel anxious and scared and all the other emotions that she felt. It will likely remind you to be much more considerate of her feelings in the future. In my opinion, that is the point of discipline, to learn from it, and to try to prevent the action from occurring again.
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There have been many good sugestions here but I have to say this one is BAD very bad.. at least in my opnion... one it is bringing unwilling venillas into your punishment.. they didnt do anything wrong they shouldnt be involved.. two this is a bit harsh and something that will forever change and maybe ruin relationships and Im sorry but that is unexeptable it is hard enough comeing out to people about this it should never be forsed on you or used as a punishment, it is just to much of a hard thing to do and very emotional.. that is just my opinion..
like someone els said it also matter the reason why you didnt call.. we are human and we do forget it happens doesnt mean it should go without reprucutions but also doesnt mean you need to take drastic actions eather.. I think the best sugestion as a "punishment" would be to demand you take on the expence of buying yourself a cell phone, it will caust you money which will make you remeber this and it will also prevent future accuranses of this because she will have a way to reach you as well as you haveing a way to reach her.
Just my thoughts
Magik's slave
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