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RE: deciding your own punishment - 4/19/2007 12:40:50 PM

leili

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i think that no matter if you have a phone or not you should have been able to call her from somewhere. being as you have a car, drive to the gas station and call her from the payphone or such. i can't believe you let her stay up wondering if you were okay. you should arrange to meet her for a domination session and go the distance to meet her and then she can decide if she wants to show up or not. this will leave you wondering and worrying about her. my Owner came up with this hehehe good one

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RE: deciding your own punishment - 4/19/2007 9:10:29 PM

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Well, if you're there for 3-4 days that gives you plenty of time. Perhaps she ought to blindfold you and sit you in a corner somewhere for the amount of hours she was up worrying for?

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RE: deciding your own punishment - 4/19/2007 10:18:22 PM

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Someone suggested writing a punishment sentence 1000 times. Get on the web and find a site that lets you download the program "Fond of Writing". The title is something of a misnomer....it would be more accurately called "Fond of Typing". It consists of two modules: a "task editor" in which your g/f can send you a "task file" that will detail what you have to type within a variety of parameters. The second module is the FOW program itself; it's a kind of text editor that makes typing repetive tasks harder, not easier! At the end, you can generate a "report" that you send back to her and she can validate it to prove that you really did type whatever it was that she assigned you to type. Let's see if this link works:

http://www.geocities.com/cedargmx/fow.htm

That's the main page from the author; you can also find a Yahoo group and there are versions if your dom is male, female, or if you prefer, a "neutral" version.

Let me know if you ever use this!

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RE: deciding your own punishment - 4/20/2007 4:17:35 AM

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I agree with LA's suggestion that you buy a phone - pre-paid mobiles are very affordable, not only to keep in contact with your domme but also for safety reasons. A practical punishment could be to put some loose change in your sock - not only would it be very uncomfortable when walking but you will not be able to say you didn't have change for the phone box!

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RE: deciding your own punishment - 4/21/2007 10:29:48 AM

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I cured My sub of this thoughtless behavior by whipping the bottom of both feet with a dressage whip for 50 lashes each foot. He never forgot again. ; ) TM

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RE: deciding your own punishment - 4/21/2007 11:12:43 AM

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You inconvenienced her in two ways. First, she was worried, perhaps even grief-stricken, about your safety. This wreaks havoc on one's mind. Secondly, she stayed up late, and likely lost some sleep, which in turn, likely caused her following day to be more difficult than it should have.

In my opinion, an appropriate punishment would be one that causes you to experience similar things, so that you remember not to cause these problems again. I will provide a suggestion, however, even though your Mistress told you to decide your own punishment, she will likely want to know what you've decided, and you should run any ideas that you come up with (particularly if they are suggestions from others) by her first.

My suggestion:

Create a self-incriminating video of yourself - one that you would not like for your vanilla friends or family or anyone else to bear witness to. Provide her the footage and give her full privilege to do with it as she pleases. Request that she does not inform you of what she chooses to do for 2 weeks.

This will likely cause you to feel similar stress and lack of sleep that she felt in worrying over you. You will likely wonder if she plans to use it to expose you or not - and, she may do that. The point is, you too will worry, much like she did, and you too will feel anxious and scared and all the other emotions that she felt. It will likely remind you to be much more considerate of her feelings in the future. In my opinion, that is the point of discipline, to learn from it, and to try to prevent the action from occurring again.

There have been many good sugestions here but I have to say this one is BAD very bad.. at least in my opnion... one it is bringing unwilling venillas into your punishment.. they didnt do anything wrong they shouldnt be involved.. two this is a bit harsh and something that will forever change and maybe ruin relationships and Im sorry but that is unexeptable it is hard enough comeing out to people about this it should never be forsed on you or used as a punishment, it is just to much of a hard thing to do and very emotional.. that is just my opinion..

like someone els said it also matter the reason why you didnt call.. we are human and we do forget it happens doesnt mean it should go without reprucutions but also doesnt mean you need to take drastic actions eather.. I think the best sugestion as a "punishment" would be to demand you take on the expence of buying yourself a cell phone, it will caust you money which will make you remeber this and it will also prevent future accuranses of this because she will have a way to reach you as well as you haveing a way to reach her.

Just my thoughts

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RE: deciding your own punishment - 4/24/2007 5:49:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

I cured My sub of this thoughtless behavior by whipping the bottom of both feet with a dressage whip for 50 lashes each foot. He never forgot again. ; ) TM

yes my kind of women whiping the feet is the best

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RE: deciding your own punishment - 4/24/2007 5:59:55 AM

Domin8tingUrDrmz

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If his Mistress cared about him, she likely would destroy the tape and only use the power it yields her to cause him torment.

Personally, I would not supply video to anyone who was vanilla. However, I might share it with other like-minded friends.

It was simply a suggestion, to be taken with a grain of salt.

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RE: deciding your own punishment - 4/24/2007 4:18:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

If his Mistress cared about him, she likely would destroy the tape and only use the power it yields her to cause him torment.

Personally, I would not supply video to anyone who was vanilla. However, I might share it with other like-minded friends.

It was simply a suggestion, to be taken with a grain of salt.

Yes but you are giveing this advise when no one knows what kind of person she is.. its just not a smart idea.

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RE: deciding your own punishment - 4/24/2007 4:40:51 PM

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He should know what kind of person she is and can determine for himself if she is trustworthy of such advice. Additionally, it was provided for him, as an example. I imagine he is capable of using examples to come up with his own creative solution. Then again, I tend to credit people with intelligence, unless they disprove it.

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