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LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Advice and opinions wanted from foot worshipers (4/19/2007 12:43:58 PM)
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ORIGINAL: onestandingstill
How do you guys who are into foot worship feel about rubbing people who are just there for the foot rub?
My partner prefers when the other person is into it- shows that they are enjoying it and feeling good, but otherwise that's fine. He'd enjoy the usage and it's not necessarily sexual for him.
"Foot fetish" is actually a very varied kink, with tons of possible motivations and turn ons.
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Would you feel my approach disrespects the D/s exchanges since I'm not a top in any way and I'm not into feet or foot worship?
No, most foot guys aren't NECESSARILY into the kink part or Ds part. If you have to give permission, that's more than enough for them to play with.
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Would you be happy rubbing a strangers feet who's not interested in anything other than friendship?
People who come to a foot night? Absolutely. There are parties all over America JUST for foot play.
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For those who are not into feet how would you feel about someone who views foot massage as a sexual stimulant and them submitting to you in their mind, while you're just getting a foot rub in yours?
That was pretty much my entire situation with my partner for our first year together. I liked that he was pleasing me, but wasn't really into the foot thing. Over time I grew to feed on HIS energy from it and he's really good with his fingers and tongue.
Just be clear with boundaries and feel free to be demanding with what they said they would give. Foot fetishists can be really pushy and really BAD at actually making feet feel good. Wear shoes that make your arch curve nicely but are easy to get on and off.
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