Satyr6406
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Joined: 3/27/2006 From: New Brunswick, N.J. Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress ...if you really want folks to change reach out to these offending doms, remember that you were young dumb and full of cum once to, and offer a guiding hand...in private...where you both can be real....and you both can learn stuff. EXCELLENT idea, Amy! Officer thinking! Instead of getting mired in negativity, we can try and be pro-active examples to the "new ones coming up". Unfortunately, the same things that make "boys" think they are dominants is the same thing that will keep that from happening; self-centered self-interest in the Nth degree. Let's face it: a dominant, taking one of these "boys" under their wing is, essentially, service and mentioning service to a dominant (most of the fake ones, anyway) is like driving across Texas with a Bumper sticker that reads: "We're gay communists and my boyfriend and I are here to confiscate your guns". It doesn't go over, very well. Most of these "dominants" are busy trying to "train" or "protect" a submissive; not for themselves, you understand for the submissives' own good. I agree that focusing on negativity isn't going to get anything accomplished (it never has) but, it's definitely a Catch-22 or "chicken-or-the-egg" thing. Peace and comfort, Michael
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Peace and comfort, Michael Former Vice-President Gore didn't invent the internet but, he DID make up global warming!
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