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submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 8:48:58 PM   
crouchingtigress


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CHAPTER 1:
I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I fall in.
I am lost...I am helpless.
It isn't my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.

CHAPTER 2:
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don't see it.
I fall in, again.
I can't believe I am in this same place
But, it isn't my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.

CHAPTER 3:
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in...it's a habit...but, my eyes are open.
I know where I am.
It is my fault.
I get out immediately.

CHAPTER 4:
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.

CHAPTER 5:
I walk down a different street.

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 8:51:05 PM   
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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 8:52:47 PM   
imthatacheyouhav


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Status: offline 		Yep....can relate very well.... i'll walk for a mile with a pebble in my shoe, and when it hurts bad enough then, i'll take it out....LOL

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 8:54:29 PM   
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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 8:54:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		We need a work crew to come fill in that damn hole, CrouchingTigress.

I understand what your sayin' and I think you've said it beautifully, oh wise one.

By the way love the new pic, but miss the hot tub.


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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 8:57:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have a nasty habit of finding deep holes on my new streets as well... but yes, I see the point. Every new street has its own potholes.

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 8:57:27 PM   
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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 9:01:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ahh... but history has shown that man is always destined to repeat the same mistakes...Tempting

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 9:11:18 PM   
catize


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

Ahh... but history has shown that man is always destined to repeat the same mistakes...Tempting


Not always; sometimes we make brand new mistakes!

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 9:21:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		You have read my mind. I actually was going to look this up earlier today and post it to my LJ. I'm in a very low cycle at the moment...

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 9:22:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		For some  it is easier to be in the same hole than to walk down a different street, yet they continue to complain about that hole rather than get a bucket and fill it up.  No one said life was meant to be easy.

Well said I enjoyed reading it

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 9:23:56 PM   
Owned1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: catize

quote:

ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

Ahh... but history has shown that man is always destined to repeat the same mistakes...Tempting


Not always; sometimes we make brand new mistakes!


I would suggest, as does the op, that many of the "brand new mistakes" are truly based on the same mistake just done slightly differently

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 10:11:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		i walk down the same street
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
i see it is still there
i trip you, and you tumble in
i smile evily
i am just glad it's not me for a change
i wonder how you'll manage to ge out

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/19/2007 11:46:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: velvetears

i walk down the same street
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
i see it is still there
i trip you, and you tumble in
i smile evily
i am just glad it's not me for a change
i wonder how you'll manage to ge out


Hee hee...made me laugh.

I've been accused of digging up holes in a perfectly good street.  Huh. 

Now where is that shovel....

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/20/2007 6:07:22 AM   
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*sitting in the bottom of the hole*

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/20/2007 6:16:51 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		I just filled up that hole and tampered it down.
The view is much nicer from the top.  Think I'll stay up here forever.

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/20/2007 6:25:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		I read that many years ago when I went through counciling for co-dependancy.  It was good then too.
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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/20/2007 6:26:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Owned1

For some  it is easier to be in the same hole than to walk down a different street, yet they continue to complain about that hole rather than get a bucket and fill it up.  No one said life was meant to be easy.



While I certainly understand this sentiment and often feel the same way because attitude is SO important, I feel compelled to remind that sometimes, you simply can't see the alternatives. Sometimes, you're in the hole so deep that nothing else exists. Thankfully, we have modern chemistry and psychology to help us. I ask that, while you dislike the actions of these people, don't forget that they are people, hurting, on the inside. Have compassion, as much as you can.

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/20/2007 6:29:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

quote:

ORIGINAL: Owned1

For some  it is easier to be in the same hole than to walk down a different street, yet they continue to complain about that hole rather than get a bucket and fill it up.  No one said life was meant to be easy.



While I certainly understand this sentiment and often feel the same way because attitude is SO important, I feel compelled to remind that sometimes, you simply can't see the alternatives. Sometimes, you're in the hole so deep that nothing else exists. Thankfully, we have modern chemistry and psychology to help us. I ask that, while you dislike the actions of these people, don't forget that they are people, hurting, on the inside. Have compassion, as much as you can.

Master Fire



i agree with you 100% MasterFire but unless you have been down that hole yourself no amount of explaining will ever be sufficient for some people to understand. 

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RE: submissives and dominants can you relate? - 4/20/2007 6:30:00 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		BTW, CT, this poem is entitled, "There's A Hole in My Sidewalk" by Portia Nelson.

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