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Footslaveegypt -> Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 2:45:58 AM)

Why, Mistress Here When they know am Egyptian, They leave me,? Am Really 19 m Egypt, Know All BSDM Btw am Cute My Family Dont know That. But When I Talk to Mistress Etc etc They ignore Me .i wanna know the Reason ...  and i Say them i have Web Cam and Mic,and am Good and perfect in English and i say also u can visit me in Egypt. u Welcome All So ...
I Wanna see real Replies




LadyEllen -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 4:16:50 AM)

OK, real reply.

What counts against you is that youre only 21 and seem to be only interested in your fetish. Being very far away from most here also doesnt help, and sorry to say coming from Egypt isnt going to make things easier for you either; not for racist reasons, just that your area of the world does not have a good reputation in the west.

E




LadyeSaige -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 4:55:56 AM)

Instead of asking why no one is interested in you  - perhaps you can consider why someone SHOULD be interested in you?

If they're not local to you - they need to be interested in a cyber relationship (because realistically - you're not going to be traveling to see them for a week out of every month, and there are plenty of local boys that are more realistic to maintain a real time relationship with)

If it's a cyber only relationship - they need to be getting something out of it other than just catering to your interests - so what is it you are willing to provide other than showing up?




MissyRane -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 5:19:01 AM)

perhaps they didn't understand you or wanted someone who can easily speak english? (claiming to be perfect in english when they aint is a bit...) perhaps they didn't find you suitable? perhaps they are looking for real life encounters with a person within lets say 2-3hr drive? your profile isn't really anything to hop hop hooray for either, in my opinion.




MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 5:29:56 AM)

There's no shortage of local subs - therefor there's no need to import them from other countries.




MissyRane -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 5:32:14 AM)

dammit!!! and I was depending on you to get my greencard Ms Marwood
doh *smacks head*[8D]




thetammyjo -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 6:01:04 AM)

I'll agree with what everyone has said, and I do hope you are reading seriously, footslavegypt.

To me the first important piece of information is distance. I have a training program and I do not house, feed, or anything else someone I train. If they can't manage a weekly drive back and forth, they are immediately elimenated from the list of potential.




DommeChains -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 6:22:44 AM)

You expect the dominant to travel to visit you?  And to a part of the world where many Western European or Americans would feel uncomfortable....not mention a dominant woman feel uncomfortable in your culture?  Jeez, I just can't fathom why none of us aren't leaping on the plane and flying over there like yesterday.




Footslaveegypt -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 7:17:02 AM)

Well I Accpet All Replies but u Forget All , about cyber,and Relation ship ? i dont think All Domme Dont Need that ! ? Right




Mustardseed -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 8:04:47 AM)

There are so many male subs looking for cyber relationships that, again, you're rather out of the running among Western Women if this is as good as your written English gets. If you study English really well for a couple of more years, you may be up to snuff, but ... even then, the competition is rather fierce among male submissives looking for cyber-only relationships.

What can you do for a Mistress who lives thousands of miles away from you? How can you serve her in a way that benefits you? As you improve your written English, you may want to think about these questions and hone whatever skills you may have that could please a Mistress that's far away.




Footslaveegypt -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 10:01:11 AM)

u talk about Trubite?




Footslaveegypt -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 10:03:22 AM)

btw i under stand u Ms Mustardseed Well, i can do Many things For Mistress, As i server her ,as i obey her 2... so i will do anything she Want.. and in my first topic i said i have cam ,and mic...so who lives thousands of miles away from me , can be near me by Feeling ... think u under stand me ;)




SweetDommes -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 10:19:24 AM)

What is it, exactly, that you think you can do to serve a Dominant Woman online?  Pictures?  We can get those anywhere.  Video?  Again, can get it anywhere.  For Holly and myself ... you can't clean our house, wash our dogs, rub our backs, get baths ready, or anything else that we want. 

The only thing that you have to offer to us as far as I'm concerned, is a headache from reading your "perfect" English and maybe money ... which we aren't interested in taking from you.




KaramelGoddess -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 11:24:14 AM)

Okay:
 
  1. Improve your English.
  2. Improve your profile.
  3. State cyber only on your profile.
  4. Don't expect Women to run to Egypt - it's not going to happen.
  5. Have something to offer a Domina rather than your fetish.  It's not all about you, after all.  And I am not talking about tributes.  I'm talking about common sense, being polite, being knowledgeable about BDSM and showing an interest in HER...not just what she can do for you.
  6. Be aware that many Ladies here already have in mind what they are looking for, and that you are not always going to be "it".

~Kara




Elorin -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 12:20:29 PM)

I ignore any message from someone in Egypt because they have obviously not read my profile. I'm not looking for a cyber only arrangement.
I also despise the text message shorthand of u=you, R=are, etc. If you are going to speak to me, take the time and show me the respect to spell it all out.
I do not have the vacation time from work or available funds to come see someone in another country.

And I'm not interested in a relationship where all of my ~play~ occurs via the internet. I want to hear, smell, taste. touch, see my submissive squirming, crying, moaning, pissing, sweating, cumming. And you can only provide for two of those sensations. They are not enough, for me.

~E




RoninTyger -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 1:37:31 PM)

sorry my passport has expired and i look terrible in a dress but if you need someone to talk with write me. :)                         Michael




Footslaveegypt -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 1:53:26 PM)

about Me, i know About Respect... and am Good in English 2... So. i  will added photo..Soon




SweetDommes -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 3:52:02 PM)

Another hint - lose the netspeak ... as someone else pointed out, u=you and r=are is annoying ... as is 2 used for to or too ...

It doesn't take that much more effort to type out the whole word.




Najakcharmer -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 4:30:58 PM)

Most ladies here are not interested in relationships that are online only, and it would be pretty silly (not to mention expensive!) to travel to Egypt just to meet a stranger from online.

Now if you lived near any medically interesting venomous snakes, and you could send pictures of those, then that would be a genuine service.  Send tempting enough pictures of the right kinds of snakes and you'd stand a pretty good chance of getting me over there to play with them.   Dominant women do have interests other than BDSM, and if you can cater to those interests and show that you care about what she wants, then you are giving real service.

If all you want is to find some woman who will play out your kinky sex fantasy, and you don't care who she is, what she is interested in or what she wants, then you're out of luck.   Sorry - naked pictures of some random guy online is simply not enough to interest the average domme.  You need to get to know ladies on an individual basis and find out what they are interested in and what they want to talk about. 




gooddogbenji -> RE: Hmm Why? Serious am Sadly (4/20/2007 4:39:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Footslaveegypt

and am Good and perfect in English


'nuff said.

Yours,


benji




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