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newsuboz -> men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:23:29 AM)

Hi A/all just wondering if there is someone to post usernames of men pretending to be Dommes. Would love to warn other people but not sure of how to do it...



crouchingtigress -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:31:45 AM)

well i understand why you would want to warn folks, but to do so means naming names, and that is against the TOS, but more importantly its against the idea that every one is innocent on till pr oven guilty...

most folks are pretty savvy, they realize when they come through the door that its the internet and buyer beware.....those that dont, learn eventually/



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:32:21 AM)

Nope, no warning system - nor should there be as most such "warnings" are based on speculation and sour grapes.



newsuboz -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:35:21 AM)

Well the proof they are guilty is the fact that the idiot rang me and asked why i wouldn't be interested in a Dom....i'm just sick of wasting my time on idiots like that..and ok lots are savvy but there are also relatively new people like myself and i just thought it would be nice if the dickheads could be weeded out...i understand completely the reasons why it can't happen but thought i would ask.



Aubre -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:39:58 AM)

And then there are the people who will call real women who are Dommes men just to be assholes, or because they offended them in some way. It's a slippery slope.



velvetears -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:40:34 AM)

Seems a lot of people are on the "warning bandwagon" this week. 

The problem with this kind of thinking is that the person doing the warning assumes they hold any credibility as to convincing others they are the ones who hold the truth of the matter.  No one from the outside knows the warner so why should they take them at their word?  They could be lying because they simply don't like the person, or trying to get back at a person who rejected them, etc.  Why should we believe you?  To think we should you are assuming an awful lot about yourself. 



MariaB -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:42:21 AM)

People do lie on the internet and especially on sites such as this because for a lot of people they are based on fantasy.
People lie about their age, gender, weight and all sorts of other things.
If someone tells you they are 25 and have a double FF bra size they may well be telling the truth. On the other hand what is to stop a 500lb, 60 year old gay man putting that as his profile?
If you are looking for real life then you need to be on the phone or webcam to them pretty quickly and don’t waste time with someone who refuses to speak to you for real, because the chances are they are not who they say they are.

Ill send you a few tricks I have and that I keep very close to my chest!!!



MariaB -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:43:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aubre

And then there are the people who will call real women who are Dommes men just to be assholes, or because they offended them in some way. It's a slippery slope.


lol I have been told I am a man too but I wont get too mad about that!



crouchingtigress -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:45:25 AM)

MariaB can you post the tricks by any chance?




newsuboz -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:47:12 AM)

Hmmmm, well i actually didn't think about it as thinking a lot about myself in fact i didn't really think about people believing or disbelieving me. It was a question re the procedure or in this case the non procedure...



hammernhoney -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:48:53 AM)

Phone and web cam sure seprate the chaft from the wheat,IF they refuse to call us after some email exchanges then the red flag goes up and we stop wasting my time..bounty



newsuboz -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:49:40 AM)

MariaB, thanks for your reply and for treating it as it was, a question from a newbie, not meaning anything else but what the question was.



hammernhoney -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:51:35 AM)

I would liketo add there are some 500 pounds dommmes out there...Especially  those that only dom online using cash pigggusing others pic...WILLIAM



MariaB -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:54:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

MariaB can you post the tricks by any chance?




I will post them to you because otherwise everyone will know!



LadyEllen -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 5:56:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: newsuboz

Hi A/all just wondering if there is someone to post usernames of men pretending to be Dommes. Would love to warn other people but not sure of how to do it...


All such cases should be notified to me. For make up and dressing tips.

E
Ober Dommandant



crouchingtigress -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 7:48:04 AM)

those were awesome tips....you rock.



LadyEllen -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 7:51:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

those were awesome tips....you rock.


happy to help - youre obviously making the best of them LOL!

E



MasterFireMaam -> RE: men pretending to be Dommes (4/20/2007 7:56:53 AM)

'bout the best you can do is to create a private list using block/ignore/delete.

Master Fire



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