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thetammyjo -> RE: I Was Just Browsing... (4/21/2007 9:37:35 AM)
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ORIGINAL: lookinforsomeone
And I saw that many Dommes here want to keep their slaves in chastity. It made me wonder what Mistresses do for sex, do they give it up? I want to become very active in this lifestyle but I really enjoy vanilla sex and giving oral sex. Is this looked down upon by other Dommes?
Well, I frankly don't find no sex attractive nor do I have an interest in controling a slave's sexuality when it isn't directly to me.
As for vanilla sex, I think in general women tend to approach sex more cautiously -- after all we are the ones who might get pregnant but disease should be a concern for everyone. There are lots of ways for women to enjoy sex without a man and without another person at all, too.
I never promise anyone I train that he/she will ever become my slave, training is partly to figure out if there's mutual interest and compatiblity. I never promise my slaves that they will be used for my sexual pleasure. On the other hand, even if I don't use them that way I don't limit their own self pleasure unless there is what I consider to be a very good reason.
As always this is an issue that needs to be discussed before you enter into a Ds relationship with anyone so that your expectations are in line.
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