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Rape Play - 4/21/2007 11:02:12 PM   
SeekingToBeUsed


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Status: offline 		Hi Mistress,
My question is: being a new person to the world and lifestyle of BDSM and Fetish. Is it normal to want to be subjected to rape play or forced sex by men, women, transgender, singles couples etc. Taken somewhere and used by people?
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RE: Rape Play - 4/21/2007 11:04:37 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		waits for answer also (but not where MEN are involved in my case, not even trans-gendered)

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RE: Rape Play - 4/21/2007 11:15:18 PM   
longtimemuse


Posts: 15
Joined: 10/20/2006
Status: offline 		Force/rape fantasy is common (from what I understand) amongst many : BDSM lifestyle, straight, gay, transgender, men, women, vanilla..... you name it.....

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RE: Rape Play - 4/21/2007 11:17:43 PM   
Termyn8or


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Status: offline 		Folks, I don't even know where I am at here, I clicked on the rolling message, but I have something to say.

CM has been in the news in a very negative way. Someone acted as his ex I guess and got a 'fantasy' rape scene for her. But she didn't want it. This was a dasterdly act. It may have been revenge, but nonetheless someone used this site as a tool for a crime. I care not what the statute says, rape is a crime.

I'd like to find that dude and make sure he can never rape anyone.

This is a good group, with good people who would never do such a thing.

If you want a rape scene, know the people involved. Period. If that detracts from your experience, sorry, that is life in the big city.

T

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RE: Rape Play - 4/21/2007 11:20:02 PM   
Master274


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Status: offline 		whatever trips your boat,  I had a submissive that wanted to role play ;like that often


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RE: Rape Play - 4/22/2007 12:28:57 AM   
Denny17


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Status: offline 		you possibly could be set up, theres an underground ring going on.

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RE: Rape Play - 4/22/2007 2:00:57 AM   
MsCfromMelbourne


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Status: offline 		Yes it is very normal.  I think most kinky people have rape fanatsies (being raped, not being  a rapist)

You want to give yourself permission to enjoy sex with lots of strangers, but you have been taught that it is "bad".  However, if you are raped, it was not your fault, right?  Those bad people did things to you and you couldn't stop them.....so through a  technique called suspension of reality you give yourself permission to have wild sex without feeling dirty or bad about yourself afterwards

What is not normal is turning such fantasies into reality.  Real rape is a crime and not enjoyable like the fantasy. 

You realise that it can never be raped if you give consent, right?  So play rape is not really rape.

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RE: Rape Play - 4/22/2007 3:06:02 AM   
MsCfromMelbourne


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ORIGINAL: Denny17

you possibly could be set up, theres an underground ring going on.


Seeking to be Used, there are all kinds of gay male saunas and swingers events in your city where you can find anonymous sex with people (mostly men) willing to use you. 

Just be careful: its a slippery slope.  You might feel worse - not better - about yourself afterwards.


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RE: Rape Play - 4/22/2007 6:36:35 AM   
KaramelGoddess


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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

quote:

ORIGINAL: Denny17

you possibly could be set up, theres an underground ring going on.


Seeking to be Used, there are all kinds of gay male saunas and swingers events in your city where you can find anonymous sex with people (mostly men) willing to use you. 

Just be careful: its a slippery slope.  You might feel worse - not better - about yourself afterwards.



Agreed.  You must always be careful.  People in and out of the lifestyle have rape fantasies, so it's not a particular BDSM thing.  If you find someone you can trust with your well-being, then go for it and have fun.
 
Kind regards,
~Kara

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RE: Rape Play - 4/22/2007 6:42:45 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		In this master humble opinion you should gain some more experience before taking on a forced rape even role play..bounty

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RE: Rape Play - 4/22/2007 6:51:31 AM   
thetammyjo


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ORIGINAL: SeekingToBeUsed

Hi Mistress,
My question is: being a new person to the world and lifestyle of BDSM and Fetish. Is it normal to want to be subjected to rape play or forced sex by men, women, transgender, singles couples etc. Taken somewhere and used by people?



Is it normal?

Well, it is common, I've heard this fantasy from men and women both.

I arranged a mock kidnapping for a partner in NYC once -- he had huge fun as did his four kidnappers though the fake accents were terrible and I almost laughed my ass off.

One time I did a "rape" for a sub and I discovered something very important about myself. I have no problem taking what is mine, I have no problem ordering someone to do something sexual, but I cannot associate myself with the term rapist. I started to cry part way through the scenario -- always a bad sign when the dom or top starts to cry.

So when we do con-noncon stuff, I will take, I will use, I will beat, I will ignore pleas and cries of "no" but I do it as a slave owner not as a rapist.

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