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dprsub -> RE: Extremely weird question... (4/29/2005 9:16:10 PM)
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dprsub, (does this stand for diaper sub?)
*blush* Yes, it does. I have a very strong interest in infantilism (which is being treated like a baby and nothing to do with underage individuals, just in case someone reading this isn't familiar with the term), alone or combined with other kinks. Unfortunately, I think many people think it's a thing for brown/golden showers, whereas for me it's the wonderful feeling of love and vulnerability. But now I'm getting all sappy so I must digress...
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What makes these activities the more meaningful BDSM activites? Perhaps for you, but you may be limiting yourself with the idea that this is all you want, and this is all that is meaningful.
The way I phrased that must be misleading. I don't have any set ideas about doing ABC activity is "meaningful" while XYZ is not. I'm actually quite open to new ideas/areas, and in fact have developed more kinks through the years as I encountered Dominants with different interests. Unfortunately, I seem to have this nasty habit of being replaced by boyfriends. But that's beside the point.
Back to the meaning of "meaningful": It's not the activity, it is the context. I think everything in life is like that, isn't it? You can pay someone one hundred hollow compliments, yet something ethereal makes one genuine compliment matter more than all the others combined twofold. Like someone said when trying to explain sexual relations to me, "There's sex as an expression of love, and then there's having sex just for the joy of having sex."
Yeah, I would like very much to "play" with others, but I don't think it could ever hold a candle to the same activities being part of a deeper relationship. When there's really something behind it, well, it's apples and oranges, is it not?
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