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TreSwank -> RE: "Comparable intelligence" (4/26/2007 2:13:45 PM)
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ORIGINAL: fairerthanshe
Yeah, what she said...
Intelligence is the key for me - moreso than the physical attraction. It helps but isnt paramount in my view. I would much rather be with someone who stirs my passions first mentally before he ever touches my body.
well wishes,
fairer than she
I'm glad that there are a few women in the BDSM women that value cerebral fellas.
Unfortunately, my empirical research into the field of "pussy-catching" (forgive me, girls), has taught me to react to women counter-intuitively in matters of the "heart" and loins. When a gal says that she's lookin' around for a "smart, sensitive guy with a sense of humor", the only thing that believe really applies is the "sense of humor." My successes have usually been the result of "dumbing it up" and not getting out on too much of an abstract plane with girls. If intelligence was sexy to most folks, Mensans would be the universal sex symbols, and women would scour libraries looking for throbbing scholar cock, as opposed to the current reality, involving guys with nice cars, and/or big muscles traipsing about with sweet lookin' eye candy.
I've got so many intelligent friends who have trouble getting laid on a regular basis, because, despite their mental prowess, they don't understand that you have to project a certain vibe to attract sexual advances. Every fish in the sea claims to be searching for a "kind and intelligent Mr. Right", but you've got to look at the kind of men that the ladies are paying attention to and realize that good intentions don't pan out to concrete reality 95% of the time.
Oh well; it is what it is, and it ain't nothin' else!
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