kitbaloo -> RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? (4/26/2007 4:28:33 AM)
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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent No. You personally smoke in my face and you will damage my health. You personally drink in my face and you will not damage my health. See the difference? Not a group of people, or a wider social issue, but you personally and me personally - personal responsibility. Next time we go for a beer, you don't smoke in my face and I won't piss on your leg. Sounds a fair enough exchange of civilities if you ask me. quote:
You might like it, but others don't. In your own home or in a smoking establishment - fine, your health. In a public place - your freedom doesn't involve damaging someone elses' health. NG - I have seen you take the issue of smoking to this example (above) often, and I have to say I am getting a bit frustrated. As a smoker, and as to all the other smokers who have given opinions on this issue, I have to say that you seem to lose sight of the fact that we state over and over that we have no desire to smoke in your face. We will observe the proprieties, and now the law. Yet you continue to take it to an entirely different argument. Bollocks. Copy and paste, or point to a thread, where I've taken "an entirely different argument". I would have to point you to the recent "Smoking Ban - When is it too much?" thread http://www.collarchat.com/m_776649/mpage_1/key_smoking%2Cban%2Ctoo%2Cmuch/tm.htm I am not specifically taking your arguments out of the thread, but referring you to the entire thing in context. You stood out like a sore thumb to Me in that thread. Note the original question and see how quickly it was able to get off track. You jumped on that bandwagon in a hurry! You seem to take any discussion regarding a choice to smoke to an argument that if this is allowed people will take advantage and kill you with their second hand smoke. When you proffer that type of argument then the other side will come back and state that if you are that upset about second hand cigarette smoke, to the extent that you are all for creating smoke free environments for yourself, without regard to the access to smoking environments for others, then you do leave yourself open to the additional argument that this mass hysteria about second hand smoke is almost laughable when we are all breathing in so many toxic fumes from cars and trucks that it makes the second hand smoke issue seem like a paper cut we have to bandage while ignoring the bloody amputation that is occuring at the same time. My point, NorthernGent, is that you immediately jump to people being rude and ignoring any social propriety unless there is a law that protects you. Although you can say that people can smoke their brains out in their own homes, you failed to see that this was the exact point of the original discussion. Taht was all that needed to be said. Not, "I'm okay with that...but..." Always the big "but". By arguing as you did, it would appear that this is not going to necessarily affect you in a negative manner, therefore you are all for more and more restrictions for a ban on smoking in all public areas. Pick a pleasure and then imagine it being taken away from you in all manner and then tell Me that you will go along with the status quo because other people are affected by your pleasure. Even when you can say, they would not be. You seem to be pretty big on your pub time. It is a reasonable pastime and harmless, is it not? You state that you will not drive drunk, you will not puke on the other non-consensual person's shoes, and you will not fall down in the pub and sue the owner because his bar stools were too high. I guarantee you that there are people out there who could start a wave of hysteria and state that you and your ilk are dangerous and causing more problems and that we need to ban drinking in public places. Yes, it is a bit of an extreme example...or is it? Now, I did not see you address any other point of My post. Where is the rest of My post? Is it so unimportant to you? It did address, with example, the lack of balance regarding what is okay to be banned and what is not. Are you concerned at all that I will no longer have any smoking establishment to choose? Or do you not care because you don't smoke, therefore it does not affect you on a personal level? Why is it okay, NG, to remove all ability to smoke in any public place, even if I am patronizing a private business? Why is it okay to tell that private buisness owner that s/he will now be in violation of a law if s/he does not maintain a completely smoke-free establishment? Are your rights to what you perceive as "clean air" more important than My rights to have a place to indulge in My pleasure or the rights of the private business to determine if there is a "this is a non-smoking establishment" or this is a "smoking establishment" sign in the window? Remember, this is a thread about being selective in your stance on bans. It is not a thread about the ills of smoking or second hand smoke. Should someone also point out that if he's so worried about his health he would complain about the very thing he enjoys..drinking? With every drink he takes he's killing his liver. So to me it seems a bit hypocritical just to pick on smokers cause he doesn't "approve" of smoking on the basis it is damaging to his health, drinking is equally as damaging to his health.
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