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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/26/2007 10:23:10 PM   
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Trying to figure out how it goes from, smokers wanting some places where smoking is legal and acceptable, to Inflicting it on others.



Thank you!  This is what I have been trying to say.  Along with the fact that we begin to get into dangerous territory by disallowing any reasonable acces to smoking facilities other than a private residence.  As has been stated, some laws in some areas are getting to the point where it is simply impossible to find a place to even smoke if you are not at home.  Dependign on where people ar employed, they may not have the ability to get somewhere "legal" to luight up" and smoke a bit before returning from their mandated break time.  I only smoke about 7 cigarettes each day.  Not so much.  I am sure too much in the opinion of many.  But I often have no opportunity to light up depending on where I am and what I am doing.  Most say "Good!  Then you'll smoke less.  Or maybe you will quit!" 
Sinergy, I am going to disagree with you that smokers have no ability to regulate themselves.  It is not something I have ever been aware of, as a smoker or as a non-smoker (which I was for several years.)  I will respect the fact that you think so, but I do not think having areas that are designated for smoking, accessible to smokers, is asking too much.  I continue to fail to see why all areas have to be "non-smoking".  If I could change the laws I would.  But I realize this is a losing battle because the bulk of society is in a non-smoking mode.  Take that one step further and many are in fear for their lungs if they are exposed in any way shape of form.  Since a ban on smoking in almost all public areas does not affect them, they are more than happy to vote for such a ban, without giving thought to the next proposition coming down the pike.  That is the platform upon which I would have to base a fight against this sort of thing.  It really has less to do with the smoking and more to do with having a choice. 
Banning is an insidious way of gathering the approval of enough of the general population to strip away privileges from any minority.  When the day comes that these same anti-smokers find themselves in a minority and can't even fight the system, they will wake up and realize the precedent they helped to set.  But by then it will be too late.  In fact, it already is too late.   

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/26/2007 10:36:10 PM   
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Most say "Good!  Then you'll smoke less.  Or maybe you will quit!" 

 

 
I dont personally care how much another person smokes.
 
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Sinergy, I am going to disagree with you that smokers have no ability to regulate themselves.  It is not something I have ever been aware of, as a smoker or as a non-smoker (which I was for several years.)  I will respect the fact that you think so, but I do not think having areas that are designated for smoking, accessible to smokers, is asking too much. 
 

 
You are not reading what I am writing.
 
If you can make sure I dont have to breathe your smoke, dont have to pick up your used butts, etc., I could give a rat's keister where you smoke or how much you smoke.
 
The law was originally created because smokers could not keep their habit to themselves.
 
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I continue to fail to see why all areas have to be "non-smoking".  If I could change the laws I would. 
But I realize this is a losing battle because the bulk of society is in a non-smoking mode. 
 

 
Somebody who did not have a defeatist attitude got the party started writing the law.
 
Somebody with a defeatist attitude probably will not get the party started trying to overturn the law.
 
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Take that one step further and many are in fear for their lungs if they are exposed in any way shape of form.  Since a ban on smoking in almost all public areas does not affect them, they are more than happy to vote for such a ban, without giving thought to the next proposition coming down the pike.  That is the platform upon which I would have to base a fight against this sort of thing.  It really has less to do with the smoking and more to do with having a choice. 
 

 
I agree completely.
 
I have a choice to not breathe cigarette smoke. 
 
I assume from what you wrote that you support my right to not breathe cigarette smoke.  So I am a bit puzzled what exactly your problem with the law is.
 
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Banning is an insidious way of gathering the approval of enough of the general population to strip away privileges from any minority. 
 

 
I disagree.
 
Banning is a way of letting smokers know that non-smokers do not appreciate their lack of manners, and courtesy, and respect, and attitude that everybody else wants their dinner to taste like a cigarette.
 
I imagine people asked them nicely, but that didnt work, so they used their lack of a defeatist attitude and the legal system to get a law passed.
 
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When the day comes that these same anti-smokers find themselves in a minority and can't even fight the system, they will wake up and realize the precedent they helped to set.  But by then it will be too late.  In fact, it already is too late.   



If I remember correctly, I think the term for this is "fear-mongering."
 
As I said, if smokers as a population were capable of respecting my right to not breathe their fumes, this would not be a problem.  But it is a problem, and I find it amusing that smokers try to blame non-smokers for the problem.
 
Just me, etc.
 
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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/26/2007 10:38:53 PM   
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NG, I respect your stance on this, but I do think it is misguided and I will continue to disagree.  Not that it does Me much good, but I can still disagree!  *Smile*
You are one, yourself, who states that people can smoke their brains out in their own house.  And remember, I am not asking to be able to smoke wherever I please.  I am asking for at least the optuion of patronizing a buisness that allows it.  I have lost that option and so have the business owners who might wish to offer that option.  It is a freedom of chouce that has been easily stripped away. 
Honestly, how would you feel if people were told, a few years down the road, they could only drink in their own homes.  Statistics on deaths by drunk driving, deaths by alcoholsim, yada, yada are out there.  It only takes a determined group to start the ball rolling.  And it doesn't even have to be alcohol.  It could be certain books, guns (as has already come up), places of worship, forms or styles of education, various types of entertainment, etc. etc.  I only brought up alcohol since you often refer to your pubs. 
The whole idea of banning without regard to others and their choices, especially when something isn't even supposed to be illegal, is a tough one to get by.  People need to think about the consequences of going along with something that becomes more and more unreasonable, just because it doesn't affect them personally.   Once begun, it isn't long before one of your harmless (so you think!) habits is on the list of "undesireable to society". 

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/26/2007 10:40:30 PM   
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I'm a casual smoker...I do it because it makes me look cool....Anywhoo cigarettes are a shitty product and no one needs to be around someone who smokes...If you are jonesing for a smoke go outside....I have and will do so again...Anyways the moon tends to give me an even more Domly appearance than flourescent lighting.
Personally I don't quite understand how these damn things are still legal...They are killers, a hazardous product that offers no benefit to society other than they make me appear even more beautiful.

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/26/2007 11:10:24 PM   
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You're making an argument where there isn't one. You want to smoke in a smoking establishment? - I have no problem with that - as I've said on this thread and the other thread you attached a link to.

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 12:08:07 AM   
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Banning is an insidious way of gathering the approval of enough of the general population to strip away privileges from any minority. 
 

 
I disagree.
 
Banning is a way of letting smokers know that non-smokers do not appreciate their lack of manners, and courtesy, and respect, and attitude that everybody else wants their dinner to taste like a cigarette.
 
I imagine people asked them nicely, but that didnt work, so they used their lack of a defeatist attitude and the legal system to get a law passed.
 
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When the day comes that these same anti-smokers find themselves in a minority and can't even fight the system, they will wake up and realize the precedent they helped to set.  But by then it will be too late.  In fact, it already is too late.   



If I remember correctly, I think the term for this is "fear-mongering."
 
As I said, if smokers as a population were capable of respecting my right to not breathe their fumes, this would not be a problem.  But it is a problem, and I find it amusing that smokers try to blame non-smokers for the problem.
 
Just me, etc.
 
Sinergy



See, this is where I disagree with you.  I feel it is very rare that smokers, even in it's heyday, was rife with inconsiderate people.  In fact, most people smoked, and then  more and more didn't or began to quit.  Even when I could smoke at a lunch counter decades ago, I always asked the people around Me if they minded if I smoked.  And I think your emphasis on "smokers' lack of manners" is a bit thin. 
I do not think that as these laws continue to evolve and become more and more strict, that it is a matter of smokers not able to regulate themselves.  It is a matter of many non-smokers saying they want the freedom to walk into any restaurant and know that they do not have to make a choice, because nobody, anywhere is smoking. The laws became more and more strict because people have become almost hysterical about the "insideous smoking and second hand smoke".  Please don't think I am pooh-poohing your opinion that smoking and second hand smoke is dangerous.  If you feel that way, then it is valid, and you have a right to not be around it.  What you don't have a right to do, although it has already been done, is state that anywhere you desire to go must become a smoke free zone.  And since you (universal you indicating non-smokers in general) do not wish to be restricted in any way, all  public areas, even if they are privately owned businesses,  must become smoke free zones.  Therefore it is now the smokers, as well as business owners, who are restricted beyond reason.   
I completely respect your desire to not be around it.  Yet, in another thread you admitted you will walk out onto your own patio with a guest and stand with him or her while they smoke.  So you can't be all that bothered by it!  Again, do not take this too mean that I think you are being hypocritical.  I just wish to point out the lengths to which you will inconvenience others since it is no real skin off your nose, but you will visit with a smoking guest while he or she is smoking on your patio.  So do you really have a big problem with exiting a building and walking past a smoker who is smoking outside?  Yet this is the lengths to which we are now being restricted. 
I am really trying to be logical and answer your concerns here from the view of a smoker who is now being treated like a leper...I would appreciate it if you would read on...
When people were allowed to smoke anywhere, they did.  They were not being rude...they were simply indulging in a habit that was, at that point, socially acceptable.  Then a few rules/laws started to creep in.  I could no longer smoke at My desk, and there was a separated smoking area or patio for smokers at break and lunchtime.  Fine...  Then we moved on to "no more smoking in the building at all.  Okey Dokey...  Add to this that  I also can no longer smoke anywhere in a mall, in a parking garage, in an airport, but it's okay.  I can space out My shopping time, and I don't have a need to light up every 15 or 20 minutes, so I continue to observe the laws, rules and regulations.  If I have to make a long airplane trip I just suck it up since I can no longer suck it in.  Don't forget that I am expected to be at the airport and making My way through security about 2 hours ahead of flight time.  So I can count on a minimum of 5 - 6 hours without a cigarette   But, I can still go out for a meal at a nice restaurant and sit on a patio or in a smoking section.  I can smoke in My car and at My own home.  I can smoke in other outdoor and public areas.  I can live with this...OK!  Fast forward a few more years...Uh oh...Now there are no restaurants left in which I can have a cigarette after My meal.  Not on a patio, not in a smoking section, not anywhere!  We passed another law!  My favorite Karaoke bar is obliged to remove the ashtrays and tell us all to go out into the parking lot to smoke.  Not because the regular patrons there ever cared...not even the non-smokers!  If it bothered them that much, they should find a karaoke bar that is a non-smoking establishment.  Right?  Wrong?  No...now we cannot smoke, and all the non-smokers are happy!  They can go anywhere they please and be smoke free...we can go nowhere.   Because it is now a law! 
Rumblings for the future...next year, 2 years, 5 years from now?  Who knows?  *Shrug*  Now I am in danger of not being able to smoke in My own home.  An HOA is raising a ruckus.  Someone complained.  They don't seem to mind all the barbeques, and they certainly aren't concerned about the fumes their motorcyle is emitting in the driveway next door to Me...but Ye Gods!  Someone can smell cigarette smoke if I light up on My patio.  *Sigh*  Add to this some new ideas such as, perhaps people should not be allowed to smoke in their cars, and we are seriously considering telling all landlords that it will be against the law to rent to a smoker.  All rental properties must become non-smoking properties.  It is already against the law in Arizona to provide a smoking hotel room.  That is really fun for someone who is on the 6th floor and has to take an elevator down and then find a legal place, probably their own car with the windows rolled up to have a smoke before retiring for the evening. 
Can you honestly tell Me that most of these now legal restrictions were forced due to the lack of manners of smokers?  These are all victories for the non-smokers.  And, quite honestly, I know a lot of non-smokers who are not that offended or that much in fear of their lungs that they are not around smokers and in the path of secondhand smoke regularly.  They visit with Me as I am smoking in  the designated smoking area (outside, of course) at one of the places I spend much time volunteering.  In the past, many of My co-workers would joins Me and other smokers in our area for lunch or break time,.  They enjoyed our company and they didn't mind the second hand smoke.  Yet, as the propostions come onto the ballot, they vote "yes" without thinking about the ramifications.  This whole smoking thing doesn't really affect them, so they don't think it through.   It's one little bite after the next, until the bites start getting bigger and bigger.  Which eventually leads to what is, effectively a ban...but it is okay , because most of the people want it. And this is all accomplished without actually banning the cigarettes themselves.  
I know we will never agree on this.  I only went into detail with this to show that it is not a single law that was passed.  At least not in Arizona.    It is several laws over several years.  It is never enough.  They should just outlaw cigarettes and be done with it.  But then they would lose all that revenue!   Not to mention having to actually come up with the hard and scientific proof that cigarettes are hazardous to your health, not "may be hazardous to your health".


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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 12:32:36 AM   
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You're making an argument where there isn't one. You want to smoke in a smoking establishment? - I have no problem with that - as I've said on this thread and the other thread you attached a link to.


I think I have been trying to explain to you that this is not about "smoking establishments".  There are no smoking establishments.  They have been banned.
This is not about reasonable restrictions to allow for the reasonable comfort of society.  It is about out and out banning, bit by bit.

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 6:21:16 AM   
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Dusty,

My original post was laying out the difference between owing a gun and using it responsibily, drinking beer and drinking it responsibly, and smoking responsibly - i.e. on private property, not in a public place. It is not legal to shoot people in the face, or shove a beer glass in someone's face, so why should it be legal to smoke in someone's face in a public place - knowing full well this will damage someone else's health.

My point is around the principle that liberty involves using it responsibly, and if you smoke in a public place it is not being responsible. In Britain, it is legal to smoke in working men's clubs and members clubs. In fact, I was out for a few beers last night and every pub (short for Public House in Britain) I went into allowed smoking. Not a problem for me.

The reason I get involved in these types of threads is not because I'm anti this or that - I like discussing the concept of what it means to be free. The small details don't interest me much. My mum, sister, dad all smoke - I was brought up with it - I've had a crack at various substances - some for longer periods of time than others, but most involving smoking - in other words, I'm not anti-smoking, but I am anti the types who think they can do whatever they want without respecting the rights of other people, and then have the front to call foul because people ask for social responsibility. Life is not about I'm alright Jack, fuck everyone else.

Consent is the appropriate word here. When you go into a public place, you have responsibilities to the people around you because they haven't consented to your actions - your responsibilities include not doing anything which will damage their well-being, and this includes smoking in someone's face.

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 6:37:24 AM   
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You're making an argument where there isn't one. You want to smoke in a smoking establishment? - I have no problem with that - as I've said on this thread and the other thread you attached a link to.


I think I have been trying to explain to you that this is not about "smoking establishments".  There are no smoking establishments.  They have been banned.
This is not about reasonable restrictions to allow for the reasonable comfort of society.  It is about out and out banning, bit by bit.


This is the same point I have been making, GoddessDustyGold.  There are laws in place which stipulate where people can smoke.

The smokers who have tried to challenge this statement have used...

1)  I want a place I can smoke

2)  Non-smokers are controlling people concerned only for themselves.

The smokers who have tried to challenge this statement have not.

1)  Explained how to keep their smoke out of my nose, except to state that their right to smoke trumps my right to eat dinner or be in a bar without dealing with an assault by a toxic substance (that I am allergic to, by the way) on my lung tissue, clothing, and skin.

2)  Explained how to keep their smoke out of the employees nose, except to state that their right to smoke trumps that person's right to have a job.

3)  Explained how the business is going to deal with lawsuits from employees who file suit against them to pay for their lung cancer from second-hand smoke, except to state that their right to smoke trumps the business owners right to maintain business insurance to protect their assets.

4)  Explained that their right to smoke validates their general attitude that they cannot do anything about getting the law changed.

5)  Explained that their right to smoke being taken away will ultimately lead to a Fascist dictatorship and the erosion and stripping away of everybodies rights.  They fail to make the connection that my smelling their cigarette smoke in a bar is an erosion and stripping away (by them) of my personal rights.

The only conclusion I can come to from reading most of their justifications for their addiction is that the only person who should be afforded any rights is the addict, which seems odd to me.

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 7:05:03 AM   
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After being sat on my balcony in the sun today, I'm finding I'm not so liberal as I think and nor are my neighbours, most of who want to ban the traffic from our road. The sun is shinning, it is hot and the traffic fumes are lingering. It's doubtful that any of the traffic is necessary, the area is served by fast efficient public transport, there are cycle paths all over the city, what people are suffering from is car addiction. Now I've got nothing against people owning a car, as long as they have somewhere to park it rather than blocking my door but I don't think people should be allowed to drive them in the city or where there is a significant  amount of pedestrians around to breath in their fumes, since traffic is known to cause siggnificant amounts of respiratory problems, especially in young children and cancers. Cars also cause significant amounts of environmental damage and are a frivolous luxury and run of roads that none car owners have to subsidize through their tax and cars could be easily replaced with an overall cheaper and more efficient and environmentally friendly modes of transport.

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 8:47:21 AM   
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<snipped> Now I've got nothing against people owning a car, as long as they have somewhere to park it rather than blocking my door but I don't think people should be allowed to drive them in the city or where there is a significant  amount of pedestrians around to breath in their fumes, since traffic is known to cause siggnificant amounts of respiratory problems, especially in young children and cancers. Cars also cause significant amounts of environmental damage and are a frivolous luxury and run of roads that none car owners have to subsidize through their tax and cars could be easily replaced with an overall cheaper and more efficient and environmentally friendly modes of transport.


Laughing...I don't think they are going to get it, MC...but good try!  This is pretty much a lost cause.  Logic, it seems will always be trumped by emotion.  I am probably going to regret it...but I am going to answer Sinergy, one final time.  I must be nuts!  *Smile*

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 10:11:14 AM   
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Please suggest a middle ground where smokers can indulge in their habit and non-smokers dont have to be subjected to it.


There was a middle ground at one point, but the anal retentive non-smokers still needed something to whine about since they obviously have nothing better to do.

They used to require establishments that wished to have a smoking area the smoking area was mandatory to have a complete seperate room where smoking and non-smoking were divided completely.   Seperate room being a wall between one and the other.  Fair enough, with a wall dividing, smoke is obviously going to stay in the smoking section without bothering the non-smokers, but apparently even that wasn't good enough for them seeing as they're not happy unless they're imposing their non-smoking views upon those who have the right to smoke if they so wish.

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 11:45:47 AM   
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You're making an argument where there isn't one. You want to smoke in a smoking establishment? - I have no problem with that - as I've said on this thread and the other thread you attached a link to.


I think I have been trying to explain to you that this is not about "smoking establishments".  There are no smoking establishments.  They have been banned.
This is not about reasonable restrictions to allow for the reasonable comfort of society.  It is about out and out banning, bit by bit.


Although I hate trying to split everything up with those pesky tags, I will do My best!  Since one of the many statements that I see often, when smoking is discussed, either on a thread regarding smoking itself, or when it is being used as an excellent example of how bans can be put into place, such as this thread, I will take that paraphrased statement and I will use abortion as a potential ban.  I realize this is an extremely sensitive issue, but it might hit home.  Then again, it might not!
 
The statement is this in a paraphrased version.
"Your rights end when they directly affect my rights to life and health". 

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

This is the same point I have been making, GoddessDustyGold.  There are laws in place which stipulate where people can smoke.

The smokers who have tried to challenge this statement have used...

1)  I want a place I can smoke

2)  Non-smokers are controlling people concerned only for themselves.


Yes, I do want a place to smoke that is other than My home and car, which may also go away at some point in the fairly near future.  Yes, non-smokers are concerned with themselves and the by products they feel (feel, not know) might be harmful to their health. 
 
Abortion..."It is my body, and I have the right to choose."  
I contend that it is no longer your body, exclusively, since it is now a vessel for life.  Therefore , you have a moral obligation to not "murder" a growing life because it is not convenient at this point.  Yet this is a legal option for women.  In fact, it is available with government funding...i.e. My taxes.   I am being forced, against My will, to support this practice, with My tax dollars.   Just as non-smokers are incensed by the idea that they are being forced to expose themselves to second hand smoke unless they can legislate any possibility of it right out of existence.  I would propose that the option for women should instead be to keep their legs closed or take the personal responsibility to prevent the possible pregnancy in the first place.  Yes, birth control is not 100% effective, but abstinence is.  Get enough Christian Fundamentalists to start raising holy hell, and this legal option to end a life may end up banned...again.   These people are only thinking of themselves and their feelings.  Yes?  And they are only concerned about the  unborn.  They are protecting the rights of the unborn, whereas others may feel that this is not viable life, therefore it is silly to protect this.  The right to choose trumps the right of the unborn life.
 
Remember that the practice of partial birth abortions has now been cut down.  Is this the beginning of a new wave of limitations on when you can choose to abort?
 
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The smokers who have tried to challenge this statement have not.

1)  Explained how to keep their smoke out of my nose, except to state that their right to smoke trumps my right to eat dinner or be in a bar without dealing with an assault by a toxic substance (that I am allergic to, by the way) on my lung tissue, clothing, and skin.


Amazing to Me how many people are suddenly allergic or extremely sensitive to cigarette smoke.  I hate to bring it up again, but why is all the information regarding other toxins such as exhaust funes being ignored consistently by the anti-smokers?  If you compare the levels, the amount that smokers may put into the air, which quickly dissipates, is not even a drop in the bucket of what we breathe everyday.  But, it seems, this is the drop that people can control without inconveniencing themselves.  So they are bound and determined to control it.   I am of a personal belief that much of this is psychological in nature.  But, I agree, that is only My opinion.  So, by all means, eat dinner at a non-smoking establishment, and go to a non-smoking bar. Oh wait...I forgot, you can go anywhere you please now, and be protected from My possibly harmful habit.  Because I am the one who has no place to go out to eat.  I do not even have the option of choosing a smoking restaurant.  Or a smoking room on a smoking floor in a hotel.  Or a smoking bar.   
 
Abortion:  Explain to Me why it is none of My business that women arbitrarily choose to abort babies when it is personally offensive to Me.  I am personally affected by this and it hurts Me to the core.  The babes cannot speak for themselves, so perhaps I would be allowed ot speak for them?  Yet, The rights of the women trump the right of the unborn children.
 
Remember that the practice of partial birth abortions has now been cut down.  Is this the beginning of a new wave of limitations on when you can choose to abort?


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2)  Explained how to keep their smoke out of the employees nose, except to state that their right to smoke trumps that person's right to have a job.


I have already stated that I am aware I can no longer smoke at My desk as work, or in a smoking area in a break room, or even on a nearby patio designated for such.  It does not trump it.  But it does apparently trump the right of the smoker to have any way to find a place to have a quick cigarette every 2 or 3 hours.  However, this does not affect you, so you are all for it.  Because, what if you accidentally breathe in the second hand smoke of a smoker because you choose to cut across the parking lot section that has a ramada and an  ashtray?  You should have that choice right?  So I have no choice.  I must protect you from this.  Since I am not willing to do that on My own, it must now be put into law.  You do not have any obligation to be polite and take another route if you are that sensitive to cigarette smoke.   You should not even have to think about it.  I am the one who is obligated to be polite to the extent that I no longer even light up until I am in My own car.  That may go away soon!  It is next on the agenda and already being discussed. 
Before I left for England last summer, I found that there is, in fact, a smoking area in the international terminal by the gates.  I could not even find it at first, and it was about 20 feet from where I was standing.   My sister-in-law, a non-smoker (rabid non-smoker, that is) could not see or smell it either.  It was a glassed in, but open at the top small area, and it was full of people sucking in their nicotime like mad.  (Most of them had British or other European accents, by the way! *Smile*)  There was some sort of filtering system in place, as there was not a speck of smoke exiting the area which was open at the top (walls about 6 feet high).  It seems the technology is there.  I am not saying it is cost effective, for I have no information on that, but it can be done.  I have seen it.  And I am sure it was there because people were embarking on long flights and it is the considerate provision made by the airport for those who might need to smoke prior to a long flight since they are now trapped in an airport for extended peiods of time, and then onto that long flight.   And I am not asking for this to be placed in all restaurants or businesses.  I am saying, leave the option open for freedom of choice.  If private businesses want to provide a smoking area, or a patio, and their demographics show that they can make their profits while offering this option, then let the non-smokers boycott those establishments.  No longer necessary, since that personal choice has been removed.
 
You are sickened by My smoking and the odors and possible physical harm it can do to you.  Although I agree that you have a right to be offended by cigarette smoke, I do not believe this will kill you.  Particularly in the minor wafting of the occasional smoke that may drift your way, if you get in the way of a smoker who is legally indulging in the very few diesgnated areas that are left. 

Abortion:  I find it morally repugnant and it sickens Me.  I am sensitive to the fact that people have this option to walk into a clinic, and, often with My tax dollars, end a life.  I believe this is a life.  You do not.  Your belief trumps the right of the unborn child to even have a life. 

Remember that the practice of partial birth abortions has now been cut down.  Is this the beginning of a new wave of limitations on when you can choose to abort?

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  3)  Explained how the business is going to deal with lawsuits from employees who file suit against them to pay for their lung cancer from second-hand smoke, except to state that their right to smoke trumps the business owners right to maintain business insurance to protect their assets. 


"This is a company that permits smoking in designated areas.  If you are sensitive to cigarette smoke, or feel this may endanger your life, we do not encourage you to apply for a job here.  Please go to a business that disallows any and all cigarette smoking anywhere on their premises.  We will be happy to show you where our designated smoking areas are and how you may avoid these areas."
 
"If you choose to work for us, and we choose to hire you, all new hires. smokers or not, are required to sign a legal waiver.  Since there is no definitive proof that any lung or heart disease you might eventually contract has anything to do with any possible but very limited amount of cigarette smoke you may be exposed to by working for this company, you will not have any legal recourse with regard to lawsuits.  We are aware that in spite of the fact that there is no proof, juries vote on emotion and the assumption of deep pockets and are more than happy to had out huge awards for situations that cannot be proven". 
 
Remember, Sinergy, you are not addressing the fact that you have also taken away the right of the business owner to decide if s/he wants to allow smoking in designated areas.  Insurance companies?  Laughable...  They are aware that people are going to jump on any way they can to sue.  It is the American way, after all!  Remove the potential, and there is no problem.   Waivers.  Personal responsibility.  Apply for a job there or don't.  Everybody has a choice, and everybody makes their own personal decisions.  Now companies no longer have a reasonable policy in place regarding smoking.  They have been legislated into being, what I perceive to be unreasonable. 

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a Fascist dictatorship and the erosion and stripping away of everybodies rights.  They fail to make the connection that my smelling their cigarette smoke in a bar is an erosion and stripping away (by them) of my personal rights.


Well, since you brought it up, let's talk about Fascism.  From Wikipedia with the bold emphais and black underscoring Mine...






Fascism is an authoritarian political ideology (generally tied to a mass movement) that considers individual and other societal interests inferior to the needs of the state, and seeks to forge a type of national unity, usually based on ethnic, religious, cultural, or racial attributes. Various scholars attribute different characteristics to fascism, but the following elements are usually seen as its integral parts: nationalism, authoritarianism, militarism, corporatism, collectivism, totalitarianism, anti-communism, and opposition to economic and political liberalism.[1][2][3]


There are numerous debates among scholars and other individuals regarding the nature of fascism and the kinds of political movements and governments that may accurately be called fascist. For example, the extent to which German Nazism may be considered a form of fascism is debated. Most scholars see fascism as on the political right or allied with right-wing movements.[4] In addition, some scholars see fascism as the radicalization of the center or as a populist revolt of the middle classes.[5][6][7][8] Fascist movements sometimes claim they represent a "Third Way between left and right, between Marxian socialism and capitalism."[9]
Fascism has been defunct in the Western world as a major political ideology since the defeat of the Axis powers in World War II. There is considerable stigma attached to the name and to the concept, and it is not uncommon for people to label their political opponents (or authority figures in general) pejoratively as "fascists". However, a small number of openly fascist political groups continue to exist, such as the Italian Fiamma Tricolore.

I would subscribe to the areas I have bolded and replace "state" with the will of the mass movement, without any regard to the rights and comfort of the minority.  Are you honestly trying to tell Me that this particular mass movement does not consider individual and other societal interests inferior  to the preferences of the mass movement?   What makes this movement better than the the corporate fascism so many love to tout?  Is it because you claim it has nothing to do with the bottom line...i, e. money and profits?  And maybe you should follow the money.  This has been a fantastically successful marketing ploy under the guise of public health, when nothing, in spite of all the money for research has ever proven that smoking or second hand smoke is directly related to heart and lung disease and deaths.  Statistics have been finagled and the mounting of a mass movement has been so successful that that the money has simply shifted from corporate profits realized fromthe sale of a legal product to tax dollars and private dollars funding continuing research that proves nothing.  By all means, put out the information that this may be a health hazard.  There are reasonable compromises.  But the anit-smoking mass movement does not believe in compromise. It may take a while longer to completely finish the job, but they are absolutely determined to make it as impossible as they can for anyone to smoke anywhere.  There are no choices for smokers, and there are no restrictions for non-smokers.  Put into effect reasonable restrictions so that all have a comfort level and access to areas where there is either non-smoking or smoking.  Don't take away the right of personal choice from individuals and private business owners so completely, and in every way possible, that we are now pending legislation that would effectively disallow smoking in all rental properties.  And HOAs will misuse their power and begin to infiltrate private property.  It is already happening.  But it does not personally affect you, so you fail to see why this is wrong.  Or maybe you do, in a very limited way.  You say you don't care if people smoke in their homes, but I wonder if you would jump over to the side of smoking rights if it goes as far as limiting smoker's ability to smoke in their own homes.  Not even a rental property.  A hoem they have pruchased with their hard earned dollars.  Would you?  Or is it just another piece of the pie that doesn't affect you personally, so you will be apathetic and ignore it?  Better that the substance just be made illegal and have it done with.   
 
Abortion:  I do not wish to consider the personal preferences to have a choice regarding abortion.  Therefore, I am going to start a new mass movement which is in defense of all the unborn babies who cannot speak for themselves.   After all, I do have definitive proof (which non-smokers do not regarding smoking and second hand smoke) that over 43 million lives have been lost since Roe v. Wade.  This is not in question.  Or is it?  Many do not believe that it is life if it is not viable outside of the womb.  Therefore it does not deserve the same respect or consideration and the rights of the pregant woman and her body trumps the right of the unborm child.   I do not even wish to make allowances for the fact that there are certain cases wherein the Mother might be in danger of her life, and I do not want to consider a case of rape.  I want to ban it all, everywhere and in every way.  There is no room for any compromise. 
No smoking anywhere = no abortion for any reason.
Okay, I told you his would be extreme, and I don't feel that way.  Although I am on the side of the "right to life", I am not on the side of being completely insensitive to situations wherein this might be a responsible decision.  But I am trying to make a point.
 
Remember that the practice of partial birth abortions has now been cut down.  Is this the beginning of a new wave of limitations on when you can choose to abort?
 
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The only conclusion I can come to from reading most of their justifications for their addiction is that the only person who should be afforded any rights is the addict, which seems odd to me.

Sinergy


Do you still have the same conclusion?  I am not asking for unreasonable rights.  I am not saying that My rights as a smoker trump your rights as a non-smoker.  I am saying that I should have some reasonable options.  The difference is in what you consider reasonable and what I consider reasonable.  And I am not the exception to the rule regarding those nasty and rude smokers.     I am asking the anti-smokers to get off the soap box and stop spouting the less than factual "the sky is falling and I am going to die if anyone smokes anywhere near me" , and be more sensitive to the fact that there are many, many smokers who have no problem with reasonable restrictions.  We have adjusted to the fact that this is no longer a socially acceptable habit, and we do our best to be discreet and observe the laws.  We do, however, have a problem with hitting a new wall everytime elections roll around and the mass movement jumps on the newest and most improved way to further stop/restrict smokers and, at the same time, saddle them with another sin tax. 
 
Abortion:  The only conclusion I can come to from reading most of their justifications for their "right to choose" is that the only person who should be afforded any rights is the pregnant woman, which seems odd to me.  
 
Remember that the practice of partial birth abortions has now been cut down.  Is this the beginning of a new wave of limitations on when you can choose to abort?
 
This has taken entirely too long, and I have been interrupted many times.  Please cut a little slack if you feel that the cohesiveness is not all there.
 
Edit:  I did have to edit for the tags, and I am still not sure if I got it right, but I am late for a meeting!

 

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 11:54:22 AM   
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Abortion:  Explain to Me why it is none of My business that women arbitrarily choose to abort babies when it is personally offesnive to Me.  I am personally affected by this and it hurts Me to the core.  The babes cannot speak for themselves, so perhaps I would be allowed ot speak for them?  Yet, The rights of the women trump the right of the unborn children.
 


You are entitled to your opinion.  We were, however, discussing smoking and my being forced to endure the smoke that is not well behaved and moves next door.  I have a right to not smoke.  You have a right to smoke.  However, when you force me to smoke the cigarette you have in your mouth, you are impinging on my right to not smoke.

When you are legally required to have an abortion, then there will be a comparison between abortion and smoking.  I suspect you are attempting to interject an emotionally charged subject in order to cause an emotional response.  Hope that approach works for you.  For the sake of this discussion, please establish a logical connection between abortion and smoking and I am more than willing to discuss it. 

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 12:00:19 PM   
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They used to require establishments that wished to have a smoking area the smoking area was mandatory to have a complete seperate room where smoking and non-smoking were divided completely.   Seperate room being a wall between one and the other.  Fair enough, with a wall dividing, smoke is obviously going to stay in the smoking section without bothering the non-smokers, but apparently even that wasn't good enough for them seeing as they're not happy unless they're imposing their non-smoking views upon those who have the right to smoke if they so wish.


As the bar owner of my local bar says to anyone complaining about smoke and they do (usually tourists), 'You don't have to drink in my bar, there must be a thousand other bars in this town. In fact if you look across the way you will see an empty bar, that is a no smoking bar and that is why it is empty. Goodbye!'

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 12:19:04 PM   
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Abortion:  Explain to Me why it is none of My business that women arbitrarily choose to abort babies when it is personally offesnive to Me.  I am personally affected by this and it hurts Me to the core.  The babes cannot speak for themselves, so perhaps I would be allowed ot speak for them?  Yet, The rights of the women trump the right of the unborn children.
 


You are entitled to your opinion.  We were, however, discussing smoking and my being forced to endure the smoke that is not well behaved and moves next door.  I have a right to not smoke.  You have a right to smoke.  However, when you force me to smoke the cigarette you have in your mouth, you are impinging on my right to not smoke.

When you are legally required to have an abortion, then there will be a comparison between abortion and smoking.  I suspect you are attempting to interject an emotionally charged subject in order to cause an emotional response.  Hope that approach works for you.  For the sake of this discussion, please establish a logical connection between abortion and smoking and I am more than willing to discuss it. 

Sinergy


There are, Sinergy, places where abortion is required.  Not in this country yet...but who knows?  I am not trying to interject an emotionally charged issue to force an emotional response.  I am saying that these are both are emotionally charged issues.  Youa re saying that I cnanot take the side of the unborn child...I can only make the argument if I am the one choosing to have or not have the abortion.  And I disagree with that. 
You are not forced to take in My second hand smoke.  You may have the options to patronize places where there is no smoke.  I am not allowed to patronize places where there is.  Because they no longer exist.
And I chose that issue because it dovetails completely with the paraphrased statement I used.   You are, in effect, saying that your life is more valuable that that of an unborn child who has no choice but to have life ended. 
It is easy to dismiss all My points, or ignore them, by picking out the one thing that you feel is not a viable comparison.
I am not surprised.  I can only state My case or make My comparisons in the best way possible.   I answered your questions which you claim are never answered.  I have seen them answered over and over.  I am not the first person to try to patiently explain and show the way to reasonable compromise.  But you, along with others who feel this way about smoking consistently ignore those answers.  It is never enough, until you have legislated all cigarette smoke out of existence. 
It is not okay, in My opinion, to completely ban something because you are not affected by it.  That would be being "selective in your stance on 'Bans' ".  So I guess you are.

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 12:30:13 PM   
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Youa re saying that I cnanot take the side of the unborn child...

 
I am not saying you can or cannot do anything.
 
I am pointing out that in my opinion it is not your choice to make.  But that is subject to interpretation.
 
Nevertheless, smoking is something person A does that impacts person B directly.
 
On the subject of bans, I was not the one seeking to ban abortions.  I am not even seeking to ban smoking.  I dont care.  I just dont want to breathe cigarette smoke or itch for hours afterwards.  Figure out a way to keep one's behavior to oneself, I am behind it 100%.
 
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I can only make the argument if I am the one choosing to have or not have the abortion.  And I disagree with that. 
 
You are not forced to take in My second hand smoke. You may have the options to patronize places where there is no smoke.  I am not allowed to patronize places where there is.  Because they no longer exist.


 
Fair enough.
 
So, taking the argument to the greatest freedom and impact on the greatest number of individuals, what side do you think the body politic is going to support?
 
As I pointed out, dont like the law, get it changed.  If a sufficient number of the body politic agree with your view, then it should be simple to overturn the law.
 
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You are, in effect, saying that your life is more valuable that that of an unborn child who has no choice but to have life ended. 
 

 
Incorrect.  You are interpreting what I am saying in that way.  There is a difference, and I am not going to sign on to your impression of my words.
 
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I am not the first person to try to patiently explain and show the way to reasonable compromise.
 

 
I suggested a reasonable compromise.  Figure out a way to smoke where I dont have to breathe it in a public place.
 
The response I got was to go somewhere else so people could smoke.
 
That is not a compromise, that is trying to get me to capitulate to an unreasonable argument.
 
As I pointed out, I am not the one doing something that is subjecting other people non-consensually to my behavior.
 
Additionally, I pointed out that these laws are the result of smokers inflicting their behavior on other people who did not care to have that behavior inflicted on them.
 
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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 12:36:35 PM   
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I am letting My previous response stand, as I don't believe in editing things away.. However, as I hit enter and then took a call postponing My meeting until next Tuesday (aren't you lucky I can hang around...*Smile*) I realized I answered too quickily, and em,phasized the wrong perspective. 
Sinergy, did you completely miss the fact that I am not speaking of being forced to have an abortion?  You are looking at this fom the aspect that you feel forced to breathe smoke, when you don't wish to.  I am looking at the fact that I do not have choice and reasoanble access to places where I can smoke.   I am discussing from the point of view of "bans", that we might be in the beginning process of banning or removing the right of a women to choose.  Just as I have been "banned" from having places I can legally smoke, so might women eventually, bit by bit, be denied to option of any and all abortion.
Hence My statement:

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Remember that the practice of partial birth abortions has now been cut down.  Is this the beginning of a new wave of limitations on when you can choose to abort? 



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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 12:40:33 PM   
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Nevertheless, smoking is something person A does that impacts person B directly.
 


Just about everything does in one way or another.

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RE: Are you selective in your stance on "Bans"? - 4/27/2007 12:49:29 PM   
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Nevertheless, smoking is something person A does that impacts person B directly.
 


Just about everything does in one way or another.


I would think that in the case of abortion, it would be a prime example of something that Person A does that directly impacts Person B.....unless of course you are one of those people who can't see an unborn child as a person.

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