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please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 10:51:58 AM

frezi

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I am to cum up with a list of psychological self-punishments for the Master to consider. The crime was: guilt-ridden consciousness and shame for aberrant sexual desires. All of a sudden my masochistic imagination is blank... Please, help me with ideas!

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 10:57:58 AM

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Hi frezi, I wish I could help you come up with a punishment, but I wanted to ask... is that Bass Lake in your photo? I grew up there and it looks to be that lake...

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 11:02:43 AM

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yes, juliaoceania, it's Bass Lake!

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 11:05:50 AM

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Maybe he should have you research the correlations between sexual practices, guilt and shame and then write a paper on how you can apply what you learn to your own situation to effect a positive change.

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 11:05:51 AM

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I lived in the area for 30 years...smiles, and my Daddy and I had our first "encounter" there, although I have not lived there in a few years. It is a gorgeous place, but no room for economic prosperity.

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 11:09:53 AM

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Go Erin!

Changing someones feelings is probably the longest and most difficult things a person can change about them- a single punishment won't do anything at all except perhaps make you try and hide it better in the future.

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 11:15:56 AM

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quote:

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Maybe he should have you research the correlations between sexual practices, guilt and shame and then write a paper on how you can apply what you learn to your own situation to effect a positive change.

He told me to offer the list of self-punishments and if i cannot, ask on forums. If i still fail to get the list, i am to be moved into sub-zero category (bad place to be)... So, what devious, ego-busting, self-humiliating, deliciously erotic things a sub may come up with? I am calling for a brainstorm!!!

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 11:22:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: frezi
So, what devious, ego-busting, self-humiliating, deliciously erotic things a sub may come up with? I am calling for a brainstorm!!!

I'm sorry, I guess that I thought from your original post that the goal was punishment that would positively effect a change....not fantasy fulfillment. My bad....

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 11:27:18 AM

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The irony of course being that having to go online to a cyber forum and ask for "devious, ego-busting, self-humiliating" punishment is in itself a "devious, ego-busting, self-humiliating" act.

So maybe force you to go to lots of public forums and do the same thing?

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 11:34:13 AM

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See, i originally thought the post was seeking actual ways to punish bad behaviour...tossing the words "deliciously erotic" into it...makes it fantasy fulfillment.

So, with that in mind, here's one i picked up years ago from a UK Dominant who's little girl was acting up in public. He took her into a housewares type store, bought a whisk and a bell...took her aside and inserted the whisk into her vagina, clipped the bell onto it, and made her continue their shopping trip jingling with every step...highly aware of ....well, you all know.

Punishment? Deliciously erotic? up to you to decide.

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 11:48:04 AM

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I'm not sure I'm following why you're being punished for having attitudes/thoughts you are trying to change. But then, I'm much more of a positive reenforcement kind of person.

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 11:58:25 AM

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quote:

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I'm not sure I'm following why you're being punished for having attitudes/thoughts you are trying to change. But then, I'm much more of a positive reenforcement kind of person.

It is confusing because it did appear that he viewed such emotions as negative so the assumption was (at least on my part) that there was a change that was desired. That pretty much went out the window though when I realized we were looking for "deliciously erotic". As I have no idea how one could relate "punishment" and "deliciously erotic" it would now seem to me with that new information, that actual punishment or positive change is not actually desired.....just some hot, new fantasy ideas.

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 2:35:13 PM

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*- Tiger just scratches his head and furrows his brow... Then does it again.... Looks at her... then shakes his head and walks away, confused as all hell.

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 4:29:26 PM

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quote:

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*- Tiger just scratches his head and furrows his brow... Then does it again.... Looks at her... then shakes his head and walks away, confused as all hell.

((follows in suit also totaly completley comfused))

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 5:07:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

The irony of course being that having to go online to a cyber forum and ask for "devious, ego-busting, self-humiliating" punishment is in itself a "devious, ego-busting, self-humiliating" act.

So maybe force you to go to lots of public forums and do the same thing?

LuckyAlbatross, you sooo got it... and on a second thought , so did i. Thank you for helping. There is nothing like a team work.

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 5:13:47 PM

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Tell you master you couldnt think of a thing so you are going to ask some creative doms for help- See what happens next...

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 5:16:27 PM

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i did, and He answered: go to message boards and ask for help, otherwise i am to be moved to the category of sub-zero, and loose the chance to be His slave...
how to ask the Doms?

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ORIGINAL: MissDiscipline

Tell you master you couldnt think of a thing so you are going to ask some creative doms for help- See what happens next...

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 5:29:00 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: frezi

i did, and He answered: go to message boards and ask for help, otherwise i am to be moved to the category of sub-zero, and loose the chance to be His slave...
how to ask the Doms?

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissDiscipline

Tell you master you couldnt think of a thing so you are going to ask some creative doms for help- See what happens next...

First question:

Do you have humiliation fantasies?

If you do why not write those out?

If the assignment is out of your depth, or unnatural for you, then perhaps you were not meant to be his if this is some sort of test?

I would not consider this a punishment, I would consider this an assignment, and if your success or failure will determine whether or not you become his, I really cannot advise about that....

Is he going to be reading this thread? Perhaps his purpose is to read the erotic musings of random submissives on this board? If so, I do not desire to play that game... especially without the permission of my Daddy.

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 5:31:01 PM

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So your punsihment will be no further chance of consideration of slavehood or dismissal- Well you could write sub zero on your forhead..

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RE: please, help with ideas for self-punishment - 4/24/2007 5:54:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: frezi

i did, and He answered: go to message boards and ask for help, otherwise i am to be moved to the category of sub-zero, and loose the chance to be His slave...
how to ask the Doms?

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissDiscipline

Tell you master you couldnt think of a thing so you are going to ask some creative doms for help- See what happens next...

First question:

Do you have humiliation fantasies?

If you do why not write those out?

If the assignment is out of your depth, or unnatural for you, then perhaps you were not meant to be his if this is some sort of test?

I would not consider this a punishment, I would consider this an assignment, and if your success or failure will determine whether or not you become his, I really cannot advise about that....

Is he going to be reading this thread? Perhaps his purpose is to read the erotic musings of random submissives on this board? If so, I do not desire to play that game... especially without the permission of my Daddy.

No, He is not on this board, and my question was not a trap, but a sincere attempt to break my block. Yes, it is an assignment, and i am not to give up. I just need help, and ask for it. Yes, i have humiliation fantasies, but somehow i did not think of that. Now i do. Thank you from the bottom... of my heart:)

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