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SirDominic -> RE: Having a freak out.... (4/27/2007 9:38:09 AM)

Taking it to 24/7 is a huge step that will have definite consequences on your relationship. There will be good consequences, and not so good ones. You wouldn't be human if you didn't feel nervous about changing the dynamics of your relationship in this way.

Which is no reason not to go through with it. Just remember the three most important things about any relationship, location, location, location. Oh wait, that's real estate. It really is communication, communication, communication. Keep the lines open to each other, and you will likely be fine.

My only concern was already mentioned by someone else. If you are worried about being what he wants you to be, you are coming from the wrong place. You need to be you. If you try to pretend to be something else, it's only a matter of time before that will blow up in your face.

Best of luck to you both.

Namaste, Sir Dominic





SubmissiveBBW4U -> RE: Having a freak out.... (4/28/2007 11:48:44 AM)

Thank you everyone!

Turns out I had nothing to worry about.  He has completely eased all of that.

Not that it will always be perfect...but so far...LOL

Again thank you all for letting me freak out just a little bit!




Stranger1 -> RE: Having a freak out.... (4/28/2007 11:52:38 AM)

Acceptance banishes fear-find it, and the issue will be null.




imthatacheyouhav -> RE: Having a freak out.... (4/28/2007 12:00:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SubmissiveBBW4U

Thank you everyone!

Turns out I had nothing to worry about.  He has completely eased all of that.

Not that it will always be perfect...but so far...LOL

Again thank you all for letting me freak out just a little bit!

we seem to be birds of a feather submissiveBBW4U. i am so very glad you feel better now.....(hugs) may you both have a long happy life together!




TheEvilBstardsMo -> RE: Having a freak out.... (4/28/2007 7:37:53 PM)

This is such an exciting time for you!  I moved in with Master three years ago, and we have been married for 1.5 years. Just be yourself.  Everything will unfold as it should.  24/7 is different for each relationship - yours will develop and evolve.  Best wishes.




andreaC -> RE: Having a freak out.... (5/1/2007 7:42:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SubmissiveBBW4U

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Have you spent any real time together?


Yes we have.  It's always wonderful!!!

He tells me over and over that I am his perfect slave.  I guess it is just normal worries about taking that next step!

Thanks everyone!

i can relate to your situation, i am planning to move to Master's country soon, but i have no doubts, no fear since the times we spent together in real life were fantastic.  Like proudsub said, just be yourself and it will go just fine.

Goodluck [:)]




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