ProtagonistLily
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Your collar is lovely, OP. Don't mind the cranky people around here...lol. Sometimes they forget that they weren't born knowing all of the answers either <shhhhh>
best regards,
fate
I prefer bitch, but I can live with cranky.... ~wink~
BTW, I didn't realize there was a picture until I scrolled through. It's pretty, and I do understand why you would be concerned about it. However (continuing in her apparent crankosity) I still think that you have to direct your questions to your owner on whether you are, by accepting this collar, expected to wear it 24/7.
Collars, in my not so humble opinion, are symbolic; they represent a contractual agreement made between 2 consenting people. If you feel owned, that's what's most important. The collar is just another level of submission and by agreeing to wear it, I would assume that you have agreed to wear it as your owner so chooses.
Rarely do I do a disclaimer, but I'll make an exception. I think that we, as individuals, regardless of our 'station' in WIIWD, do ourselves some disservice by tossing questions that directly effect our relationship to the board. There's no way to know really if I'm who I say I am, or if I have the experience I say I do. I could be an 85 year old man who's posing as a 24 year old female sub for kicks.
That's why I think it's really vital to meet other people who are living this in your local community. It doesn't mean that you have to 'play' publically or go to a party or anything that makes you uncomfortable. However, the benefits of having people who you can trust and count on to give you advice and guidence that you know you can trust is invaluable, in my opinion.
I'm not looking to offend anyone here. I'm really simply trying to say that for all the good intensions most of us have, when questions arise that should be discussed with your partner, what your partner thinks is what really counts. Not me, an 85 year old male internet playa' ~grin~
Lily
~Who's really who she says she is on her profile, and damn skippy can prove it ;)
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RE: am i suppsed to wear it ALL the time? Now w/ pic! - 
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I usually wear mine 24/7. I have two collars, one is the training collar first given to me by Master, as time went on I just felt naked without one on when we went out in public. We discussed another collar for those times. It took us a long time to find just the one and we found it at a antique mall. Now I can describe it, but can't put it on here as Master's computer is not set up for posting pics, it is(as we just found out) pewter overlaid with gold, it has shapes like squares set on one tip and on those squares are scroll work, and in between each of those "squares" is another diamond shaped smaller "link", this is a choker. I wear this one out in public, but found out that it can not be fixed permantly as nothing will stick to pewter, and it is a soft enough metal that the links tend to pull apart so now it has to be a collar I wear for special events or to places I won't be afraid to loose it in, can't wear it fishing for fear of it pulling apart and dropping into the water. So back to shopping for another. Hope you can picture it in your minds, but I love it and will not retire it completely, it is very special to me
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