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ExSteelAgain -> RE: Unmanly? Needed for dominance? (4/29/2007 2:28:06 AM)
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Damn, I’m still worried about Noah being upset with the interlocutor using the conversational gambit. LOL. I call these type questions, Dear Abby ones. They are the kind that Dear Abby staff writers would come up with to provoke conversation and get readers agitated.
CD, I didn’t have any toys for a long time. At times I would use what the sub happened to have, but I didn’t take a toy bag along with me when I came knocking. My first toy bag was a black plastic garbage bag that made the sub wonder if I was going to cut her up and put her in it or something I suppose. I think I had a piece of rope, spreader bar and a gag.
I got rid of it when I was going up steps at a motel and the things fell out of a rip in the plastic. So then I went to Wal-mart (none of my liberal friends saw me going in the store, thank goodness) and bought this black bag that I have owned ever since. I began to buy floggers and stock it with items until it now contains entirely too many things I never use.
Of course it is a status thing for Doms at clubs to have the biggest toy bag. I mean some of them are framed backpack type deals packed so tightly that it looks like the Dom is going to live in the Himalayas for a month. I can see where a new sub would be wondering wtf if the backpacking Nepalese porter, mountain climber showed up at her door.
Maybe the first domination should be over wine swirling in glasses as you look out over the water with candlelight flickering, glowing embers cracking in a fireplace and all that dreamy vanilla, guy/girl junk.
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