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Ultimate submission - 4/27/2007 8:09:58 PM   
Aneirin


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Status: offline 		I understand everyone's taste is different,but I am interested to learn of others,to the Dominant ladies here,what would you consider as the ultimate act of submission you will be satisfied with of a male sub?
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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/27/2007 8:17:47 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/27/2007 8:29:39 PM   
Aneirin


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Status: offline 		A very good answer LA,as your answers usually are.I am true to myself,but I desire to know what a Dominant lady would like,possibly something I have not considered,all answers I will consider for future possibilities.

BTW,love your photo,an unusual angle.Despite the pretty content.

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/27/2007 8:44:56 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		There is no universal ultimate submission.  What pushes one person to the wall might be really easy for another.

You can describe the qualities of submission: being pushed to your limits, being exposed or made vulnerable to your dominant, being intensely humiliated or degraded, being brought into that space where you forget who you are.  And what gets you there is different for each person.

Of course, sometimes "ultimate submission" is code for a submissive's biggest desire.

MSS

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/27/2007 9:05:43 PM   
joyinslavery


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Just a guess of course.

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/27/2007 9:24:33 PM   
MiladyAngelique


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aneirin

I understand everyone's taste is different,but I am interested to learn of others,to the Dominant ladies here,what would you consider as the ultimate act of submission you will be satisfied with of a male sub?


Right at this very moment, bathing, brushing and worming my cats.... that will change tomorrow after I have done it but for today thats it


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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/27/2007 9:28:59 PM   
Aneirin


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Status: offline 		Cats I can deal with,I love cats,what you ask is no problem.

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/27/2007 10:53:03 PM   
ineedotk


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Status: offline 		Interesting answer I must say.  One should be true to themselves always, and not for someone else but for their own selves.  Also, you well may know this, if someone is not trues to themselves, they probably won't be very true to you or others either.

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/27/2007 11:11:12 PM   
ErusUxor


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Status: offline 		He casts the line....thinks he feels a nibble...yanks on the rod to set the hook but nothing is there...alas....thus far ...no real bite. Here fishy fishy....

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/27/2007 11:13:37 PM   
joyinslavery


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Status: offline 		Okay, I'm going with rainbow trout.

Am I close? 

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/28/2007 12:38:11 AM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		That is changeable, depending on the person, their nature
and the circumstances at the time.
 

 

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/28/2007 4:39:04 AM   
SunNMoon


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Status: offline 		For me it is putting my happiness first. This happens when he says “we’re doing x, because x makes you happy, so stop saying we’re going to do y instead.”  Examples of this are, we’re going to X restaurant because you love y there. Or I’m going to do you’re laundry so you can work on your homework. He is pushing aside my sense of fair play for my happiness.  But that’s my ultimate acts of submission, which I know is just mine.

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/28/2007 5:16:37 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Really, that depends upon the submissive in question.  Was there a particular hard limit that they were able to go past because they were able to grow in that area with Me?  Whatever that specific limit was that they got past..... That would be your answer.  

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/28/2007 7:33:31 AM   
KaramelGoddess


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Status: offline 		I agree LadyPact.
 
It totally depends on the submissive.
 
For some it's as simple as them saying... "I love you and I trust you Mistress and I give myself entirely to you."
 
Of course then I dissolve into tears of sweet joy

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/28/2007 7:36:08 AM   
DiannaVesta


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ORIGINAL: MySweetSubmssive

There is no universal ultimate submission.  What pushes one person to the wall might be really easy for another.

MSS


I agree with this totally, however I think for a straight man, being forced to suck another man's cock ranks up there pretty damn high.


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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/28/2007 8:32:34 AM   
thetammyjo


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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

I understand everyone's taste is different,but I am interested to learn of others,to the Dominant ladies here,what would you consider as the ultimate act of submission you will be satisfied with of a male sub?


For me it is what Fox has done so far: Bending to fit into my life as I wish and need it to be.

He could have gotten a nice job with a BS in Physics but instead he stayed here and took a job he hates about 50% of the time. He could have gone onto to law school but he wants to focus on taking care of me and he knows law school would be very demanding.

In other ways, making decisions that put me first.

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/28/2007 9:05:44 AM   
TexasMaam


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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

I understand everyone's taste is different,but I am interested to learn of others,to the Dominant ladies here,what would you consider as the ultimate act of submission you will be satisfied with of a male sub?


For Me, the ultimate act of submission is that peaceful and heartfelt acquiescence and deferral to My wishes, anytime in a given situation when I've asked for his input, after he quietly allows me to consider his point of view, then override his preferences.

It doesn't matter whether the issue is which sexual position we'll assume for a given moment in time, whether or not I'll brand his ass, whether or not we'll purchase or sell a given piece of property for our future portfolio, what investment we might make, where to build our barn, how to go about building that barn, what we're having for dinner or how we'll prepare it, or which whip I'll use to torment him or how I'll choose to bind him for a time.

It's not the 'big ticket item' acts of submission that 'send' Me....  The ultimate submission is that quiet acquiescence that makes our relationship the ultimate D/s relationship, a thousand times a day.

TexasMaam

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/28/2007 9:13:17 AM   
MercilessMarcy


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Status: offline 		I agree with Texas Maam.  The ultimate submission is submitting to my needs, wants, desires over their own. And finally, when what they desire is to anticipate my needs, wants and desires. 

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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/28/2007 9:32:16 AM   
AAkasha


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Status: offline 		The ultimate submission is him doing that "thing" that he would do for no one, for no reward on earth, but he does it for me -- happily.

Akasha


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RE: Ultimate submission - 4/28/2007 10:15:24 AM   
stacydahling


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Status: offline 		The ultimate submission is an every day thing.  It's finding the one that You want to spend every day with.  It's so many things, but You know it when You have it.  

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