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omegasone -> Looking to achieve (4/28/2007 11:18:07 AM)
Hello, One who is on her journey to finding herself. Learning what the menatality is of a slave after abuse by a con. Yes this is a hard lifestyle with so many that portray what they wish they were not what they actually are such a shame. I thought there was game in the vanilla world but sometimes here is more dangerous. No I don't have a pic thanks to past experiences with a con not a dom as was found out later. Ive found a good master now although my delimma is because of issues with the con I am to overcome jealousy. Looking for one to bring to master for his pleasure. What can one do to achieve this?

angelgirl9631 -> RE: Looking to achieve (4/28/2007 1:28:04 PM)
Hello omegasone, I am certainly no expert to give advice as I have never been in that situation but you could try reposting on the Ask a submissive/slave forum. You might get more of a response there. Be well,

myobedience -> RE: Looking to achieve (4/28/2007 1:31:56 PM)
I am sorry but I need to clarify your post, you are looking for someone to help you overcome jealousy so you can give to your Dom the joy of 2 submissives?

NakedGirlScout -> RE: Looking to achieve (4/28/2007 1:33:45 PM)
It's very confusing. Do you mean your master has set you the task of finding him someone else to have sex/play with, despite your having serious and unresolved issues of trust to the point that you're too afraid to post a photo? Um.

omegasone -> RE: Looking to achieve (5/2/2007 9:57:11 PM)
Thanks I will try that too. Seems i got lost in myself trying to figure out just what I wanted to say.

omegasone -> RE: Looking to achieve (5/2/2007 10:00:24 PM)
Yes that is my assigned task. I work till late and I just reread my post and it sure needs clarifying for sure. I have never had to do something that is as hard as this seems to be right now.

omegasone -> RE: Looking to achieve (5/2/2007 10:06:54 PM)
No I dont want to post my pic due to the other one finding me but I found he has pics here of me trying to entice others into his lair. Yes I am dealing with these issues and they are unresolved but diminishing and yes its alot to do with trusting him that I have this task and to deal with these issues head on. Im sorry my post sounded so whack.

Shanghaid -> RE: Looking to achieve (5/3/2007 5:13:42 PM)
Hey omegasone, Sorry you've had a bad experience on CM. Hope you can find the help you need. Cheers, SH'd

omegasone -> RE: Looking to achieve (5/3/2007 9:47:32 PM)
What kind of help do I need? lol Teasing Im working my way out of it. Im strong and I will be fine thanks

robertolapiedra -> RE: Looking to achieve (5/5/2007 2:53:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myobedience I am sorry but I need to clarify your post, you are looking for someone to help you overcome jealousy so you can give to your Dom the joy of 2 submissives? AND... you can ask doms (your dom?) about making sure if you have or not an unknown 'limit' somewhere waiting to bite the both of you. Jealousy issues are to be dealt with extreme caution in my opinion. My wife had a very big jealousy problem wich had to be dealt with, it took 3-4 years to bring it down to an 'acceptable' level (for her). I do not enjoy having multiple subs at the same time and am more a one on one type dominant. To me having 2 subs is not that joyful. But still, being jealous is not joyful either no matter what you plan to do...Good luck.RL.

robertolapiedra -> RE: Looking to achieve (5/5/2007 2:57:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelgirl9631 Hello omegasone, I am certainly no expert to give advice as I have never been in that situation but you could try reposting on the Ask a submissive/slave forum. You might get more of a response there. Be well, Sorry, I made a mistake by selecting wrong quote. This is the right one.RL

MasterMischief -> RE: Looking to achieve (5/5/2007 6:38:46 PM)
Greetings. New here too. I thought I would chime in with my unsolicited opinion. Without any other information, what you describe sends up red flags for me. I am certainly not judging polyamorous lifestyles. I am intrigued by them, but know I am far from ready. What you described suggests to me that you are also not ready and as far as I am concerned, any Dom worth his weight should be able to recognize this.

omegasone -> RE: Looking to achieve (5/8/2007 8:18:49 AM)
Yes jealousy is a hard issue not counting the other problems the relationship created. Im working on it but one of the problems is that im doing the required task of finding another in my time and not his and thats created something else altogether. Ive told him that I will accept the punishment but its something that requires more time to heal and for him its me learning my place as well and this isnt about me but my place in belonging to him and doing what he requires of me.

omegasone -> RE: Looking to achieve (5/8/2007 8:27:02 AM)
He does see the issue I have and so far he isn't pushing to hard but always a reminder Im not following through on task and that Im still talking selfishly. I realize that is because of the emotional strain left by previous relationship although all in all I have come along futhur since being here and have become stronger. I am able to start seeing worthiness in myself which was dminished being put down all the time. Im working on moving forward such as going back to school which has seemed impossible and even scary at my age [:D] but I am growing. He has told me I will get stronger even if its to the point I may leave him but he will make me stronger.

m0rgan -> RE: Looking to achieve (5/8/2007 11:02:05 AM)
hmm,,,, i shall keep my advice to myself on this one (shakes head, and moves on)!

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