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There's some ass sending me messages, telling me that my Master has killed two of His previous subs, has three more subs other than me, and that i don't really know Him.

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About a year...i have no reason not to believe everything He's told me.

This guy seems totally wacky...he can't give me details on who he heard this from or anything like that. It seems like He just wants to date or is in desperate need of buddies.

This was a dumbass way to try to get them.

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ORIGINAL: Chilli

Call me strange, but if I knew that someone had killed / tortured / maimed others, I would call the police. (Sorry, I know Im old fashioned)

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ORIGINAL: ansfrid
Suspend the collar for a while, and have an honest talk with your master about his past relationships, all of them.

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ORIGINAL: subcheryl
Hate to see something happen to you.

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ORIGINAL: Inquisition

It sounds like a strange prank, unless they're trying to get you to join them. Serving suggestion: if the sub you're talking to has specific, credible information about your master, like she knows where his strange birth mark is, or can tell you exactly what the inside of his house looks like, or something only someone who had been close to him would know, then being alarmed would be quite prudent. While its hopefully a cruel joke, the idea of a serial killer wanting to play with his next victim for a while until he gets bored of her isn't completely out of the question. This is potentially a very serious matter.

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ORIGINAL: subcheryl

Ok, I am worried. And because of this I will share something with you that I have not shared with anyone. When I first started on collarme, I met up with this dom, we chatted, and one night we talked all night and he demanded I go and pick him up and meet, stupid thing is that I did, I missed a day of work, had no sleep, and made a 1000 mile trip to do it. When I started to talk to him, his previous sub, wrote me emails to warn me of the type of man he was, well I tend to think that just because one person didn't make it with someone doesn't mean that we couldn't make it. Wrong thinking on my part. And yes I did not know that you don't jump into things like this without knowing and meeting in public until after I met him. The sub even forwarded me emails he had exchanged with other subs both male and female, and they were really shocking, but again in thought he was just telling them what they wanted to hear, duh! ! ! but he wouldn't do that to me, DUH ! ! ! ! so I gets him to my home and yes he was very abusive, I would say on the unbalanced side, but my gaurdinan angels were working overtime. about a week later he "had" to go to florida to help out some "friends" and left saying he was coming back in a couple of weeks, then he didn't have to money to fly back and asked for it from me, another DUH !!!! I sent it to him, never seen him or the money again. But the previous sub did warn me and we did chat alot, and I didn't follow my natural instincts in this situation, because now I realize, I just wanted someone in my life so bad that I made excuses for him before even knowing him well. You say you have known him for at least a yr. that is great, but how much do you really know? Some people are very good at convincing others that the others are lying or don't know what they are talking about because their behavior is not the problem. What they do or have done is justified in their mind as natural and everyone else is weird. Yes talk to him tell him your concerns, keep an open mind and eyes, beleive me don't justify any rough play that could be dangerous as part of d/s relationship if you aren't comfortable find out why. I am thankful that I made it through my situation, because I was warned he was viloent. and the emails forwarded to me proved that, and after the fact I realized why he did not want me talking to this sub, even made me take her off of my messenger list with the excuse she was trying to split us up, because she wasn't happy and wanted him back and it was her fault that he didn't stay with her. Don't know if this makes sense, but even if the excuse is the others fault usually even false statements have some grain of truth in them. Just be careful and alert to all things. Just on my part from my experience, go slow ok. Hate to see something happen to you.

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ORIGINAL: subcheryl
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I am thankful that I made it through my situation, because I was warned he was viloent. and the emails forwarded to me proved that, and after the fact I realized why he did not want me talking to this sub, even made me take her off of my messenger list with the excuse she was trying to split us up, because she wasn't happy and wanted him back and it was her fault that he didn't stay with her. Don't know if this makes sense, but even if the excuse is the others fault usually even false statements have some grain of truth in them.
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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

Cyber drama, gotta love the smell.

Learning about your partners past relationships is one of the most important things to do- who they were, where are they now, how and why they ended the relationship.

However, this is going into the realm of ridiculous- if the person has done criminal acts, then it needs to be taken to the police. If it hasn't you can assume it's likely just crap.

I don't know why people lack their own lives so much that they have to work to inspire such feelings in other people, but let them do what they do and you move on. Work at making good offline friends and dealing with the situation with your vanilla boyfriend and your new master rather than wasting energy on this. You'll look back in a few months and wonder why you ever even batted an eyelash about it.