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Kitte9 -> For the Dom/mes 2 (4/29/2007 11:13:59 AM)

How many of you are involved currently and looking for additional members? Are you looking to create a poly household, or just adding some spice to your adventures? What do you look for? Turn ons? Turn offs?




mp072004 -> RE: For the Dom/mes 2 (4/29/2007 11:17:10 AM)

I have a primary relationship. I nurture some play relationships and am looking for other non-resident relationships--I'd call this somewhere between "household" and "extra spice." I'm looking for a number of different things, able to be reduced to three categories: playmates, submissives, and servants.




earthycouple -> RE: For the Dom/mes 2 (4/29/2007 11:53:05 AM)

I am married and want very much to have a live in slave for many reasons.  I have a couple play partners who fulfill specific things for me, and I for them.  We are friends first and foremost and enjoy finding time to engage when we can.  *That's Spice!*  However I want something more.  I need it.  I wonder if I fit within the confines of poly though...as my slave will have no other.  I guess I'm poly and my husband is supportive of that.  He's able to find someone if he so chooses, he chooses not to, at least now.  That's us.

D~




bowandserve -> RE: For the Dom/mes 2 (4/30/2007 3:06:09 PM)

I'm still looking for that one never mind adding to the stable... [&o]




SweetDommes -> RE: For the Dom/mes 2 (4/30/2007 4:45:27 PM)

If I can get it to post this time ...

Very involved and still looking.  We are poly and are clear about that on our profile - which is where anyone who is interested can go find out what else we are looking for.




Elorin -> RE: For the Dom/mes 2 (4/30/2007 9:07:39 PM)

How many of you are involved currently and looking for additional members?
M and I are partners, and we are both interested in other partners.  I am actively seeking. He is passively "open" at the moment but not putting out ads or anything.
Are you looking to create a poly household, or just adding some spice to your adventures?
A little bit of both. We would welcome a full time partner to both of us, but we are both open to play partners, lovers, and friends. We have had spice in the past and would like it to be a common occurrence rather than a rarity.
What do you look for?
Bisexual female that would be interested in threesomes and/or a long term relationship with a couple, a female interested in a relationship with me as girlfriend and/or sub (lesbian or bisexual), malesub willing to serve me, painslut of any orientation, playpartners of any orientation, all must be poly friendly and willing to be in a poly relationship; all must respect he and I are in a primary relationship and while another might become a major committed relationship it would take years worth of relationship to get there.
Turn ons?
Cocksluts. Bondage sluts. Painsluts. People who like knives and needles. We of course have body types that we both like and dislike - M's body type interests are in a narrower field than mine are. Intelligence, a love of reading, can carry on a great conversation. Sense of humor. Volunteers information.
Turn offs?
Jealousy in early stages of relationship. Possessive of our attentions. Temper tantrums. Passive aggressive. Answers questions but never volunteers information. Chews dip. Bigotry. "I"m monogamous but I can have a relationship with both of you..." Playing one against the other. Bad hygiene. Uncomfortable being naked. One true wayism.




LadyPact -> RE: For the Dom/mes 2 (5/1/2007 4:32:41 AM)



How many of you are involved currently and looking for additional members?

At the risk of repeating Myself, yes, I am currently looking for what I would hope would evolve into an additional member.
 
Are you looking to create a poly household, or just adding some spice to your adventures?

Since I am not looking for immediate physical 24/7, I would have to say the answer lies somewhere inbetween.  I do not expect, nor do I desire, someone who would jump into the household from the very beginning.  For Me, there is a consideration period, for all parties to get to know each other and see how well they fit.  Spice is the lower level of that, which I've also been known to do, but it certainly isn't My first choice.


What do you look for?

I specifically look only for submissive males.

Turn ons?

Definitely repeating Myself......  Hair, foot worship, pleasing Me pleases him, decent conversation, service oriented, the ability to make Me laugh....  Did I mention hair?  There's some more naughty stuff on the list, but if you've read some of My posts, you probably know what they are.

Turn offs?

Feminization/CD/TV/TG.... The whole catagory.  I like My boys to be boys.  Intentional disobedience.  Dishonesty. 
 
Just a little look into My world.  A very brief answer to the question.



 




thetammyjo -> RE: For the Dom/mes 2 (5/1/2007 5:31:56 AM)

We are not looking actively; we are open to additional members.

We do have ideas of what type of people we'd like to add. Someone could learn a good deal about that by looking at the questions that fill my profile. I decided on questions rather than a list because if you post a list of qualifications others can merely "adjust" to those. The questions should require more thought.




Kitte9 -> RE: For the Dom/mes 2 (5/1/2007 9:06:02 AM)

Thank you for your responses, Ladies.




MistressSassy66 -> RE: For the Dom/mes 2 (5/1/2007 11:02:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kitte9

How many of you are involved currently and looking for additional members? Are you looking to create a poly household, or just adding some spice to your adventures? What do you look for? Turn ons? Turn offs?



I have a partner of 8 years.I have few submissives that are regulars,some have been with Me 3 years,a few are celebrating 2 year anniversarys and then I have 1 who has been collared,he doesnt live here but he wears My brand.
Being a Pro I meet a lot of submissives that come and go.

"Variety is the spice of life"

Now that I have a unmetionable Graduating.
I am looking to have a live slave this however will not be a sexual relationship.

I look for submissives who can take directions,read directions and follow them.
Another plus is not speaking.
A turn off: Whining




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