slaveluci -> RE: How to avoid a horrible whipping? (4/30/2007 4:32:18 AM)
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ORIGINAL: kittinSol I have gone over my online limitation time. It is only normal for I am jetlagged beyond belief (even a week after traveling, but that's normal at my age). However, I fear I shan't get away with my, ahem, little 'overstay' courtesy of the Web that easily... Should I brace myself and get on with it,, or attempt some serious negotiations? Tips all welcome. i don't have an "online" limitation time but i do have specific time limitations as far as certain sites. i asked for help in this area because i could see it was becoming an issue. Master did indeed set some restrictions and i ended up breaking one. He would not have known if i hadn't confessed but i did and accepted the consequences. Punishment in O/our relationship is NEVER physical and it's never a fun, hot, kinky thing. It's meant to change unacceptable behavior and never utilizes any corporal punishment since that's not really punishment (for me) and He can do that anytime He wishes anyway, of course[;)]. Since He doesn't micromanage and doesn't have many detailed rules and regs, He handled this situation by instituting several for a two week period. i suppose His thinking was along the lines of , "If you can't behave without all kinds of nit-picky rules, let's give you a bunch and see how that tickles your fancy." It was a tedious two weeks, believe me, and also included having to produce a detailed research paper on "obedience" which was the most dreaded part for me. (It received an "A+", by the way!) Anyway, i say all that to say this. i confessed and didn't attempt to negotiate. i had been the one who asked for some type of restriction and then promptly set about breaking the rules He implemented. Even though it wasn't a fun 2-week period, i'm much better for it afterward and was really proud of myself for my work on the paper and the obedience i showed to His new and plentiful rules during that time. In addition, since He would never have known of my "crime" without me admitting it to Him, it definitely boosted O/our already strong bond of trust. i say confess it and take the consequences......................slave luci
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