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Plucking tips. - 5/2/2005 9:43:09 PM   
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G/greetings A/all.

I have started this thread due to a punishment idea i have recently came up with for my slave. What i currently have her doing about shaving down in the pubic regoin once a week but it will change when we are living together. Anyways now that you know the situation i would like tips or hints on making this punishment more efective to prevent it from happening if it ever will need to be used. Here is the idea. If she forgets or lose's track of when to shave and needs to be punished for not doing her task i was thinking of tieing her to the bed spread eagled so she would be helpless and pluck every little piece of stubble/hair out one by one making her count it out if she can control herself from getting too vocal.

Any tips or ideas that improove on this are welcome and appreciated but if your just going to go off topic to something that isn't even related then don't bother posting. T/thank you A/all for your time.

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/2/2005 9:50:05 PM   
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Make sure that you get a good pair of tweezers, this is not the place to skimp. Get a pair esspecially for plucking hairs and get a decent brand (TweezerMan is a great choice and they come with free sharpening and they have many different types of tweezers). I have also heard that if you wrap rubber bands around the tips of the tweezers it helps them to grip the hair, I don't know from experience as I avoid tweezers and plucking like the plague, but one of my friends swears by it.
Some people will tell you to use ice to numb the area, this is a bad idea. It will actually make it more difficult to remove the hairs and will lead to increased irritation.
Make sure that the tweezers are kept clean and sanitized, if they are dirty or rusted that can lead to a fairly nasty infection.
I hope this helps

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/2/2005 9:57:59 PM   
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Ok so using ice for that wouldn't make it more effective and just cause worse irritation and harder to do? Thanks for the advice btw siamsa24.

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/2/2005 10:01:51 PM   
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No, ice will make it horribly difficult and painful. If you want to make it easier then use warm towels or something to warm the area first. If you want to numb the area then use an oral numbing product such as Orajel

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/2/2005 10:18:18 PM   
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So what might i use to increase the sensation without causing infection? would tiger balm work to highten the feeling?

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/2/2005 10:20:54 PM   
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Tiger Balm? Yikes! I have gotten that in broken skin before and it is awful. That may be what you are going for, but I would try it on yourself first or have her try it on a small portion of less sensative skin. You also would have to be careful not to get that inside her, the container specifically says to avoid getting it in the body.

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/2/2005 10:53:44 PM   
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ouch!

i wouldn't suggest using that ointment even as a punishment... that just plain hurts.
to make the hairs easier to pull and the hair folicles open up to sting less... warm water for at least 3 minutes.

if i were to ever be a dom, i would ALWAYS make sure it was something i would be willing to endure myself before making someone endure it.
plucking is painful. there's nothing that makes it easy or nice. i couldn't imagine doing it on an area that sensitive, either.

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/2/2005 11:34:53 PM   
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Plucking really isnt that bad. I pluck all the time. Not my pubic region. I did get weird once and pluck all the hair off my legs instead of waxing. After about 10 minutes of plucking you dont feel the pain anymore and it actually has this relaxing effect. Tweezerman makes some great tweezers. You will want something sharp. I also suggest Tendskin. The stuff is great for ingrown hairs! Tweezing the pubic area will take a couple of hours at least (It takes me over an hour just to do my eyebrows each week). I suggest being very patient. Applying heat to the area will make it go faster.

Enjoy

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/2/2005 11:56:57 PM   
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i once decided to pluck my pubic hair and finally gave up after 20 minutes - there are a lot of hairs down there! my suggestion to you would be to pluck for a set amount of time... of course, maybe your girl isn't as hairy as me.

As far as the pain goes... i know rubbing alcohol hurts after shaving, maybe it would sting after plucking, as well?

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/3/2005 5:45:53 AM   
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she is partially french just like me so she does get hairy when she doesn't shave. lol. Pluck for a set amount of time then go do something leaving her there to recover then come back and do some more. I like it. I appreciated E/everyones input and tips.

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/3/2005 5:47:02 AM   
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After plucking, just use alcohol to clean the area. It certainly won't cause infection but it will sting a lot.

However, I don't know that this punishment will set up a positive relationship with being shaved. If it's that much trouble, look into laser treatments.

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/3/2005 8:19:50 AM   
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Cinamon Oil is something that can create a burning/hot sensation that for some is not exactly pleasant.

Cinamon oil can be found in a candy supply store, etc. Stick with things that are edible when you are putting them on a woman's pelvic area rather than icy hot/tiger balm etc.

Her nipples may enjoy the cinamon oil too!

:)

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/3/2005 3:38:00 PM   
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quote:

G/greetings A/all.

I have started this thread due to a punishment idea i have recently came up with for my slave. What i currently have her doing about shaving down in the pubic regoin once a week but it will change when we are living together. Anyways now that you know the situation i would like tips or hints on making this punishment more efective to prevent it from happening if it ever will need to be used. Here is the idea. If she forgets or lose's track of when to shave and needs to be punished for not doing her task i was thinking of tieing her to the bed spread eagled so she would be helpless and pluck every little piece of stubble/hair out one by one making her count it out if she can control herself from getting too vocal.


Funny I read this exact same post, word for word, somewhere else in the last day or so, so either you filched it or it's been filched, fyi.

quote:

Any tips or ideas that improove on this are welcome and appreciated but if your just going to go off topic to something that isn't even related then don't bother posting. T/thank you A/all for your time.


The word's improve, not improove, so you might want to take a tip and use the spell check. Furthermore, seeing as I'm not wearing your collar, I'll bother to post what ever the bloody hell I feel like.

So there.

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/3/2005 8:38:43 PM   
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oh my god. no god no. why god? why did i accidently put one too many o's? lord save me. oh god save my tortured soul from the pits of hell. (hint. sarcasm if you didn't notice ProtagonistLily.)

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/3/2005 8:55:38 PM   
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quote:

if i were to ever be a dom, i would ALWAYS make sure it was something i would be willing to endure myself before making someone endure it.
plucking is painful. there's nothing that makes it easy or nice. i couldn't imagine doing it on an area that sensitive, either.


Thank you for saying what I was thinking
Squirrelly...Instead of asking our advice,
why don't you learn by practicing on yourself??


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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/3/2005 10:04:15 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ProtagonistLily

The word's improve, not improove, so you might want to take a tip and use the spell check. Furthermore, seeing as I'm not wearing your collar, I'll bother to post what ever the bloody hell I feel like.

So there.



*gazes at Lily with admiration* You rule!

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/4/2005 3:45:21 PM   
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I don't need to practice on myself cause i know i can go through with it. I've tried many things before and i wouldn't put her through anything i haven't yet.

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/4/2005 3:50:33 PM   
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It is also important to consider the fact that she may have a lower tolerance for pain then you. Everyone has a different level of pain that they can endure from different sources.
For example, I can get thrown across a room and punched in the ribs (in karate), but I can't pluck my eyebrows because it hurts too much.
I know this is most likely very obvious, but I think it's worth throwing out there.

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/4/2005 4:19:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DomNeo

I don't need to practice on myself cause i know i can go through with it. I've tried many things before and i wouldn't put her through anything i haven't yet.



Now that's a bit of a self-contradictory statement.

You ask for tips or hints and when you get one you don't like you toss it off with an answer like this? tch tch <shaking head>

Perhaps you should try practicing on yourself to be sure you can go through with it. Why is this different from any of the other things you tried before?

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RE: Plucking tips. - 5/5/2005 4:29:34 PM   
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i second dousing her with rubbing alcohol when your done

heck you could even shave and douse her with rubbing alcohol.

douse her once
and twice

make it a couple of times

or douse a rag with rubbing alcohol and just let it lay on her.

Keeps infection out you know

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