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snowflake8511 -> looking for a dom (4/30/2007 7:28:35 AM)
i am looking for a dom and can't seem to find one.. Does anyone have any suggestions?

AquaticSub -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 7:29:42 AM)
Be patient.

Jevousadore -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 8:13:45 AM)
Hello, snowflake8511..... Know thyself. Soul search so that you understand and can communicate to others what you are looking for. If you have limitations, stay true to them while keeping the door open for communication. They may change, but do not give in because of pressure from a Dom that may not be right for you. Be honest in your profile about who you are, what type of relationship you seek, what you are into. Put enough into it that a Dom reading it will know if you are compatible. Wading thru so many emails makes it hard to get to the ones that have the same needs as you. If something does not feel right, it probably isn't. Ask lots of questions. Keep your eyes open for red flags even as you develop a bond. Look for what you value in a person, not only as a Dom but as a man. Be honest about who you are and what you seek, and expect the same. Be respectful, but, again, expect the same. Safety measures!! Be ready to suddenly find HIM and have your world suddenly right and turned upside down and the same time. Don't panic. It's the butterflies you get whenever you know you are going to see him, hear his voice. Best wishes! jevousadore .

temptressofsouls -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 9:03:15 AM)
Dont settle for the first Dom to take serious interest in you, unless you know in your heart he's worth getting to know better and you're interested.

littleone35 -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 10:36:05 AM)
Patience is all i can advise. I was on the site for a year befor Master found me and i know somw have been on longer than that. I know it is hard to wait when yiu nedd to serve but like somewone else don't jup at the first Dme who shows interest wait until you find a Match. Matt's littleone

Casie -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 10:54:19 AM)
With all types of dating it is hard to find someone you truly click with, be patient.

MagiksSlave -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 11:20:16 AM)
try Home Depot Magik's slave

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 11:44:55 AM)
Go out into your back or front yard and pick up the nearest rock. Under that rock will be a Dom. If, after further inspection, he is not the Dom of your choice, put the rock back in the same place so that another sub/slave may find that Dom later. Repeat this until one hits you from behind and drags you home with him. There are plenty of Doms out there. Maybe you should go out after them instead of telling them to come get you.

MercTech -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 12:04:45 PM)
Put forth things that interest you in your profile more. Let a potential master known something of what you like. Stefa

windchymes -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 1:36:21 PM)
More importantly, if you find a Dom, what are you going to do with him?

PONYSEEKER -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 1:55:54 PM)
Make a profile that makes you look like a submisive who is looking for a dom

proudsub -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 2:29:21 PM)
There's one in Atlanta about your age complaining he gets no replies from subs: What am I doing wrong?

happypervert -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 5:24:00 PM)
from her profile: quote: I am a good girl with a secret. I love cock. You're on the right track with your profile. With a thoughtful and sensitive introduction like that I'm surprised you are able to to even read all the notes you must get from the cyber-Romeo's out there.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: looking for a dom (4/30/2007 9:02:24 PM)
Happy pervert has a point...somewhat..Basically your profile needs to show more about your thoughts are on what you seek, maybe a little personal intro into who you are as a person. Simply saying, show who you are, be positive and realistic. Because right now all I see when reading your profile is sexual innuendo only, and a teasing come to me attitude..Be yourself..unless an immature sexual tease is who you are..and brief sexual encounters are what you seek..if that is the case, then you are spot on!...Tempting

nawashi2 -> RE: looking for a dom (5/1/2007 7:14:37 AM)
be patient, be careful be safe

Totalmaster4you -> RE: looking for a dom (5/1/2007 7:24:20 PM)
snowflake I took a look at your profile and 2 things jumped out at me. you listed sub men and switch men as well as Dominants and that would leave me confused as to what you are really looking for. The other thing was your weight. There are Masters who prefer "plump" slaves but not as many as those like height and weight proportional. I know that's not what you wanted to hear but at the risk of being flamed it's the truth. Dominants are special in their own way just as real sub/slaves are, but they are still a product of their society and upbringing. So if you want to find a Dominant, make that the focus on your profile and do Jenny Craig like I am. Best wishes

conner111 -> RE: looking for a dom (5/2/2007 12:33:58 AM)
hi there

stella40 -> RE: looking for a dom (5/16/2007 8:07:34 PM)
Your profile states that you have a Dom. Are you starting a collection? This will put many male Doms off. You also state that they must go through your Dom. This will put even more male Doms off. Think about it.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: looking for a dom (5/16/2007 8:12:11 PM)
Well your profile says you are owned. That could be the problem. Did you misplace him or something?

slaveish -> RE: looking for a dom (5/17/2007 5:33:54 AM)
Too much crazy makeup and the old fingernail polish spots don't help (remove all the old polish or get a new manicure). Tone it down a notch, all of it. Wait a second. Did your Dom make you do this? (If so ... Aha!)

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