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Kitte9 -> Beginning service (4/30/2007 8:12:20 AM)
Do you as Dommes have a set length of time for a new sub to service you?

TigressFL -> RE: Beginning service (4/30/2007 8:14:52 AM)
I do not really understand the question? Do you mean, do I tell them you are going to do X for 10 minutes and then do Y for 30 mins? Tigress~FL

thetammyjo -> RE: Beginning service (4/30/2007 8:25:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kitte9 Do you as Dommes have a set length of time for a new sub to service you? Define the term "service" -- as you have it above it could be interpreted multiple ways.

Dusty15 -> RE: Beginning service (4/30/2007 10:15:56 AM)
To me service is more then sex and I think some of the males sub do not think that way

MstrssPassion -> RE: Beginning service (4/30/2007 10:28:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kitte9 Do you as Dommes have a set length of time for a new sub to service you? yes.. until I say otherwise or let go of their ears [sm=tongue.gif]

Enyo -> RE: Beginning service (4/30/2007 10:35:53 AM)
As in a service contract?

Red82 -> RE: Beginning service (4/30/2007 10:37:40 AM)
quote: To me service is more then sex and I think some of the males sub do not think that way Alot see service as alot more than just sex, dont generalize.

mp072004 -> RE: Beginning service (4/30/2007 5:46:57 PM)
Agreed, a definition of service would help.

Elorin -> RE: Beginning service (4/30/2007 8:59:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Red82 quote: To me service is more then sex and I think some of the males sub do not think that way Alot see service as alot more than just sex, dont generalize. The post says right there...SOME of the male subs do not think that way. Which is an accurate statement. Had it read "I think male subs do not think that way" you might have a point. Generalizations are useful. Overgeneralizations are not. ~E

Kitte9 -> RE: Beginning service (5/1/2007 9:04:13 AM)
Sorry for the confusion. By service I am not speaking solely of sex. I am referring to the length of time your association, or perhaps contract, endures before you feel it is time to move on for whatever reason, i.e., thay have learned all you can teach, you have a set period before changing to keep it fresh, or a thousand other resasons I can't think of.

MsKatHouston -> RE: Beginning service (5/1/2007 9:07:45 AM)
I don't. I usually look for long term relationships. Sometimes they work, sometimes they don't. But it is usually a natural progression and we move on during that nebulous period of "when it is time". I don't think I have ever set a specific period of time for service. I have known people who use contracts who have specific contract terms, such as a month, 6 months, a year. They do not do it as a possible end to the contract moreso than a set time to renegotiate and readdress issues. It's not really my way of doing things but that does happen sometimes.

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