RE: What do you bring to the table?

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: What do you bring to the table?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: What do you bring to the table?

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3]

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 6:37:45 AM

SimplyMichael

Posts: 7229
Joined: 1/7/2007
Status: offline

I love to shop, REALLY love to shop

I have a strong feminine side, I can actually spend time and enjoy myself in a fabric shop

I love to garden and grow my own food, I can grow plants from cuttings and want to learn to do grafting.

I can actually bring myself to think of others first

I am quite adept socially and can be entertaining at anything from Chez Panisse to a neutral biker bar with men flying colors.

I can at times be playful and light hearted

I am a hopeless romantic

Damn fine cook

(in reply to BOUNTYHUNTER)

Post #: 41

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 6:50:06 AM

lockedaway

Posts: 1720
Joined: 3/15/2007
Status: offline

I am a good cook and I love to throw large dinner parties. Sometimes those parties are in my house and sometimes they are on the beach.

I love to travel the world and I do so fairly frequently but I don't like to do it alone. :)

I enjoy boating and will take the boat up the Hudson which provides a great and different view of NYC.

I'm learning how to tango.

I enjoy a great many activities like: skiing, rollerblading, raquetball, target shooting, poetry readings, gallery openings, Broadway shows, wine tastings, paintball, etc. and I'm always open to try more.

I like to expand people's horizons and I love it when they expand mine.

As a sub, I'm loyal, obedient, protective, willing to try new things and sincere.

(in reply to SimplyMichael)

Post #: 42

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 8:50:28 AM

earthycouple

Posts: 4462
Joined: 2/19/2006
Status: offline

To the table I bring a knowledge of my own faults and misgivings.

Know yourself before you know me.

D~

(in reply to BOUNTYHUNTER)

Post #: 43

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 9:24:54 AM

Kitte9

Posts: 411
Joined: 11/26/2006
Status: offline

A better than most ability with massage. The ability to multitask and still pay attention to what is going on around me. A reasonably fit body, mind and soul. Habits I was raised with that many could see as submissive, (i.e., opening a door for a lady, offering to take their coat, getting their drinks/meals, doing a friend's laundry, etc.).A playful nature and sometimes twisted sense of humor.

_____________________________

I am stronger than yesterday

(in reply to spanklette)

Post #: 44

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 9:43:54 AM

Wildfleurs

Posts: 1650
Joined: 9/24/2004
From: Connecticut
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: spanklette

Aside from the wannabe's that bring all sorts of merriment to the forums, what do you as a Dominant or a submissive bring to the table?

What keeps you outside of the box, so to speak?

I'm not always good with things like this, and I invariably forget stuff but off the top of my head:

- Classical violinist and a strong knowledge of different genres of music from classical to jazz to r&b
- Various analysis and problem solving skills (qualitative and quantitative based)
- Access to some of the best libraries in the country
- Very good cook - primarily french, asian/chinese, southern, and garden variety american cuisine and I'm decent on my understanding and ability to match white wines with food
- Strong knowledge of formal dining - both on the serving and guest/appropriate table manners side
- Good financial management skills - budgeting, tracking, etc using Quickbooks
- Strong computer skills - photo programs like Photoshop, website development (I can write HTML from scratch), database development with Access and Excel
- Great sexual skills (for both genders but I'm better with men than women)
- Organizational management skills
- Strong Event planning skills - small and medium sized events
- Decent mending/sewing ability and decent gardening ability
- I'm a good listener and pretty good at asking the right questions to get information or help people feel more comfortable
- I bring a good sense of humour with a complete inability to tell a good joke, a pretty quick wit, extremely strong sense of loyalty and blunt honesty (that I'm pretty good at curbing), and a workaholic ability to juggle lots of projects at one time and stay on top of all of them

C~

_____________________________

"Just because you've always done it that way doesn't mean it's not incredibly stupid." -despair.com

~~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
The heart of it all - http://www.wildfleurs.com
~~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~

(in reply to spanklette)

Post #: 45

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 9:54:11 AM

Padriag

Posts: 2633
Joined: 3/30/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs

- Classical violinist and a strong knowledge of different genres of music from classical to jazz to r&b

Now see I ought to hang out with you. Been thinking about learning to play the violin... maybe next year... teaching myself tenor banjo is keeping me preooccupied this year. Funny the things you learn about people.

_____________________________

Padriag

A stern discipline pervades all nature, which is a little cruel so that it may be very kind - Edmund Spencer

(in reply to Wildfleurs)

Post #: 46

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 10:06:59 AM

charismagirrl

Posts: 297
Joined: 8/30/2006
Status: offline

Hmmm i've brought alot of stuff along with me to my relationship with my Daddy...it's just trying to figure out where they fit in the overall scheme of things....

i bring...
Curtains (lol...i'm so big on curtains it's wrong)
a love for baking all kinds of yummy stuff
a recipe for awesome spaghetti sauce
a stupid amount of knowledge about rock music
a love for kitties (shared by my Master/Daddy)
a talent for decorating cakes
a soft sweet childlike heart
a creative streak as wide as the ocean (which has been used to design the member's area of a website for my Daddy's company)
a complete OBSESSION with vacuuming
the drive to try to figure something out and try to make it work/put it together...etc.
a bunch of other things too...

Thanks for the thread...it's kind of like a morning affirmation for me

_____________________________

For today i won't say but...
For today i wont say just...
For today i will simply obey....
For today i will trust that You are right...
For always i will be your imperfect slave

http://www.mycollarspace.com

(in reply to Calandra)

Post #: 47

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 10:15:06 AM

Devilslilsister

Posts: 1262
Joined: 8/3/2006
Status: offline

i bring myself. Just me. Nothing special nothing great...... just plain ol me.

_____________________________

My ability to cope with BS is at an all time low - me

i may look like i'm doing nothing, but i'm very busy at a cellular level

(in reply to Padriag)

Post #: 48

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 10:17:48 AM

Padriag

Posts: 2633
Joined: 3/30/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister

i bring myself. Just me. Nothing special nothing great...... just plain ol me.

Yeah... but to somebody I betcha you're both special and great.

_____________________________

Padriag

A stern discipline pervades all nature, which is a little cruel so that it may be very kind - Edmund Spencer

(in reply to Devilslilsister)

Post #: 49

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 10:31:58 AM

MistressSassy66

Posts: 1675
Joined: 11/5/2004
Status: offline

This is a good question.
I bring to the table, meatloaf and mashed taters...LOL

Okay seriously...I have a great sense of humor,I am kind and caring.I will stop traffic to save a duck and her babies,or just recently a baby beaver.
I do not lie.I do not steal.I believe there is a Higher power above that gives us choices but we ultimately are responsible for our own destiny.I enjoy nature and am active in conservation.I volunteer at a library as an asst. librian.
I march each year in the PRIDE parade in support of bringing
Equal (not special) Rights to the Gay Community.
I am a Vegan,except I eat cheese,just couldnt give that up...LOL
I have a partner of 8 wonderful years,I'm a Domme,a Mom,a Sister etc.
I am a very avid bird watcher,love to garden and love My cats Junior,Ozzy,Zeus and Boo Boo(pronounced like your Yogi bear,hehe).
Okay I confess...sometimes I eat chicken if its BBQ.

I feel like I just wrote an Epitaph...I think I'll think of it like My own Biography...LOL

_____________________________

Mistress Sassy

http://www.mistresssassy.com

In the Immortal Words of Bob....Fuck the dumb shit.

"I love you not only for what you are,But for what I am when I'm with you."- Opening line from a poem by Roy Croft

(in reply to spanklette)

Post #: 50

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 4:43:45 PM

spanklette

Posts: 882
Joined: 2/22/2005
Status: offline

Thank you all, so very much, for your input. I've feel like sometimes we become so overly labeled that we forget that other people have identities, aside from what we see on the boards. So, again, many thanks...ya'll made my day!

_____________________________

~spanklette~

"The important thing is this: to be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we could become. " Charles du Bois

"Please don't shout, can't you see I'm not listening." Billie Myers

(in reply to MistressSassy66)

Post #: 51

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 6:07:32 PM

dawntreader

Posts: 3045
Joined: 11/23/2006
Status: offline

Excellent thread spanklette

i have enjoyed learning so many neat things about those that post here!

_____________________________

It is choice - not chance - that determines our destiny~
Jean Nidetch

There is a war going on for your mind...if you are thinking, you are winning~
Flobots

(in reply to spanklette)

Post #: 52

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 6:13:03 PM

spanklette

Posts: 882
Joined: 2/22/2005
Status: offline

Thank you!

_____________________________

~spanklette~

"The important thing is this: to be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we could become. " Charles du Bois

"Please don't shout, can't you see I'm not listening." Billie Myers

(in reply to dawntreader)

Post #: 53

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 6:44:01 PM

MsBearlee

Posts: 1032
Joined: 2/15/2006
Status: offline

Dang! There is decidedly NOT something so simply Michael about Michael!

A sense of humor AND he’s from CA! <grinz>

Grafting works…I wanna learn cloning trees from twigs J

Beverly

(in reply to SimplyMichael)

Post #: 54

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 6:52:51 PM

MsBearlee

Posts: 1032
Joined: 2/15/2006
Status: offline

mmmmm... lilsister,

One thing I'm discovering reading so many of the posts on this tread is...I didn't dig deep enough nor 'splain me well enough! Hey...it's not my style; though I admire the ones who can.

Sweetie, I'm quite sure you're a peach...and to many people. Your owner is lucky indeed.

MsB

(in reply to Devilslilsister)

Post #: 55

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 8:48:56 PM

Evlgryn

Posts: 64
Joined: 9/24/2004
Status: offline

As Wildfleurs' Dom I can testify that she brings all those talents to the table. Furthermore she brings herself to, and in place of the table. I have spent many pleasurable moments eating food she has prepared while she kneels in front of me, acting as my table. The rules for feeding pets from your hand at the table do not apply to willing slaves. What I bring? Evidently I am good enough to hold her attention and her affection. Of course strong enough and smart enough to hold my own. But to gain her submission? That required being fierce enough to hold on, wicked enough to hold her imagination, benevolent enough to keep her healthy and happy in her servitude. And perhaps most importantly creative enough to give her pleasure in being held.

(in reply to MsBearlee)

Post #: 56

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 11:24:59 PM

smilingjaguar

Posts: 271
Status: offline

I'm horribly unorganized.
I forget anything I don't write down.
I fart during sex.

Seriously, though, if I call you friend I'll gladly give you the shirt off of my back and a roof over your head.
I have an unhealthy affection for a 1973 Chevy that's just about falling apart.
I'm the one friends come to when they need the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
I use my wit and sense of humor to relieve my friends' stress. I can make you laugh while you're dying. I've done it.
I never come over without calling.
I reheat a mean spaghetti sauce my Sir makes. It's great for when you get dumped or have a crap day on the job. I can even boil the noodles.
I keep up with current events but can also discuss the peculiar news section with great enthusiasm.
I really can cook. I just don't tell anyone but my Sir. People would expect me to bring casseroles to dinner or such if they knew. Shh! Heck, the people who know think my Sir's being kind and letting me take the credit. Yep, I'm that good.
I'm a hermit. If you like leading a quiet, contemplative life, I'll not ruin it by dragging all sorts of people through the house. I'll ruin it by bringing 2 ums into the house. :)
I'm a pessimist when it comes to the human race in general.
I'm a great mom who loves the job.
I love animals and spoil them like ums. I'm especially good at rehabbing abused animals.
I know when to put on what hat to make my Sir happy and well adjusted.
I can troubleshoot most any problem on a computer. I can design and build a beauty of a gaming machine. I burned myself out on computer repair, though, so now I consider it a submissive act.

< Message edited by smilingjaguar -- 5/1/2007 11:34:01 PM >

(in reply to Calandra)

Post #: 57

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/1/2007 11:48:11 PM

m0rgan

Posts: 403
Joined: 3/19/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister

i bring myself. Just me. Nothing special nothing great...... just plain ol me.

i bring the same. i am, however, the only one of me!

_____________________________

download this, the girls voice will make you damp--->

http://www.saab.com/main/GLOBAL/en/download_release_me.shtml

a loaf of bread, a jug of wine and thou,
beside me, in the wilderness, were paradise enough!

(in reply to Devilslilsister)

Post #: 58

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/2/2007 6:45:33 AM

CrazyC

Posts: 949
Joined: 9/28/2006
Status: offline

The ability to blush when being told sexual words in a vanilla setting.
The ability to find good in everyone.
To be able to find great joy in the simple everyday things.
My love to use energy work in massages.
The fact that my mouth gets me in trouble more then I expect.
A listening ear that knows when to just listen and when to help.
My love for nature and the well being of it.
And my love of all things beautiful....be it art, music, or just watching the sun set.

_____________________________

"You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back." Barbara De Angelis

(in reply to m0rgan)

Post #: 59

RE: What do you bring to the table? - 5/2/2007 7:01:38 AM

TahoeSadist

Posts: 176
Joined: 8/3/2004
Status: offline

Hmmmm let's see
-I am an excellent cook
-I do have a sense of humor, dry and warped though it is, and can generally find ways to make someone laugh
-I rate myself as a pretty good photographer (others say more than that, but I am my own harshest critic)
-I have a wide range of seemingly non-connected interests and am always looking to try something different.

TS

_____________________________

As long as one of us enjoys it, it's not a total waste

(in reply to spanklette)

Post #: 60

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3]

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: What do you bring to the table?

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3]

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.187