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RE: Can a *Sub refuse what her Master picks what she eats* - 5/25/2005 5:09:04 PM

FangsNfeet

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I myself am a person who likes to eat right and exercice. I expect my sub to want to be healthy as well. I've been asked from time to time to be a DIET DOM to submissives who have a hard time staying away from bad foods and procrastinating about going to the gym.

As much as someone may want to make there sub be healthy, they can't truely do it unless the sub wants to be healthy and is looking for a little extra discipline for encouragement.

In any case, when the sub cheats on the diet, well it could be to test you and maybe they just want to do is as an excuss for a little punishment.

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RE: Can a *Sub refuse what her Master picks what she eats* - 5/26/2005 11:50:31 AM

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it seems that this is an example of the difference between an sub and a slave kind of question.

You did not indicate a slave situation so it is assumed that that your in a Dom/sub relationship.

While input may be received from your Dominant the choice of meals is not something her/she should be bothered with.

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RE: Can a *Sub refuse what her Master picks what she eats* - 5/26/2005 4:33:31 PM

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I know the slave bit comes up a fair amount, but the dominant may have no interest in that particular side of things and therefore permit the submissive/slave/bottom/bratty one to have the meals they prefer. Funnily enough my s/s/b/b one (just so I am politically correct

) makes sure I only am offered food that I like or doesnt disagree with me. He cooks and knows what ingredients are used. I dont

Sooo back to the original poster, if eating controls is within the relationship probable a good idea to tell the bossy one that eating tomatoes makes you throw up and how quickly.

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RE: Can a *Sub refuse what her Master picks what she eats* - 5/26/2005 6:06:29 PM

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I do the cooking for Master and myself, I always ask him what he would like for a meal, but he usually leaves that up to me. The only thing that he controls for me is the sweet intake and that means even chocolate when I am pmsing.

LOL he does this since I am trying to loose weight and have asked him to help me control this side of the diet. I really love the sweats and chocolate and if allowed would have it around all the time. If I loose the weight expected of me as a treat he will get me a candy bar of my choice otherwise, LOOK OUT ! ! ! !

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RE: Can a *Sub refuse what her Master picks what she eats* - 5/27/2005 7:31:39 PM

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You don't stop being human because you're a sub, and all humans are created equal. If you WANT your Dom or Master to dictate to you what you will eat, then tell him this. If you don't want him to make those choices for you, then tell him this. It's up to you to help define the relationship, unless you make it clear to him that you want him to do this (and really, why should he do all the work?).

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