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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/2/2007 12:57:01 PM

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Thanks to all who have been chiming in so far. Actually, one of the thoughts that never occurred to Me was that this would be considered 'stalking'. I thought of it more of an idea to go back and see how a Dom/me would think on certain issues. Since there are so many different facets of the lifestyle and a variety of different answers to different questions, I was thinking more along the lines of possibly the scenerio of "There's a match with a Dom/me on My way of thinking. I wonder if there might be more that W/we have in common". Maybe that might be a way to see if there are other similarities. Wasn't talking about faking interest in the same things, but I suppose that is a possibility, too.

MasterFireMaam made a good point that there would be a lot of reading to do for some of Us if one went back and tried to read EVERYTHING ever written. (Though She does happen to be one of My favorite commentators.) I run My mouth a lot, too. Again, not thinking about an extreme here. On one link through group posts, it gives a list of a number of recently made posts. I can't remember how many, but it would definitely be a good place to start.

Unrepentant, actually, you were one of those that helped to make Me think of this concept, as you do tend to read what Some post and compare it to your own list. It's a good quality. I can only speak for Myself when I say I appreciate that kind of approach. If one shows an interest in what I say here, chances are, they would do the same if a match was found.

Thanks to all who are making this an interesting discussion. I think I'll sneak off to the ultra secret male subs board to see what the boys are up to. <grin>

Many thanks for those kind words, there is another thread on these boards re respect, which covers in way, how I treat people who take the time to answer honestly and openly on these posts and also take the time to say hi.

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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/2/2007 9:22:10 PM

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That's the kind of thing i would definitely do if i were trying to court someone, but i'd probably end up creeping Her out by quoting too many of her posts

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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/12/2007 4:21:58 AM

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OK, so i've been a bad boy and up all night with the tunes collection. It was a long week. Sue me. :-)

Lady Pact, You are on point with Your posts and keep 'em coming. i've just been going back through old thread notifications and posting to those worth the time. Two of Yours' so far.

So, are You kidding? Any sub male worth anything has, i would hope, done the best research before approaching. i know that's what i've done to even get the first reply in the past.

A tip: Ma'am required comments on one of Her board threads as part of a boy's petition and required boy's participation on the CM boards as part of training. Worked for me. ;-)))

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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/12/2007 5:23:20 AM

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Oddly enough there doesnt seem to be many male submissives using the "ask a submissive" board. Although i have only recently signed up i have been reading the Forums for a bit to try and learn.
Some posts do grab your attention more than others and you tend to spot Dommes, or subbies for that matter, whose way of thinking is like yours.
I dont feel checking profiles is stalking, although i can see why some ladies would be scared if someone had been using google, to find out more about them. Even then though it could be considered that someone was just taking time to see how well he or she would click.
Sending messages saying hi is ok, as long as you dont turn nasty if you dont get an answer. Even viewing same sex profiles is okay as this can be used as a way of improving ones own profile.

Having said all this, if the profiles click, the posts to threads click, the age/looks/location ect click. Nothing will ensure you will get on okay better than good communication.

Finally, maybe we were all in the little boys room...

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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/12/2007 8:06:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53
Oddly enough there doesnt seem to be many male submissives using the "ask a submissive" board. Although i have only recently signed up i have been reading the Forums for a bit to try and learn.

My pet peeve here on CM:
Ask a Master
Ask a Mistress
Ask a 'submissive', generic, unisex??????????????????????????????????

Ask a female submissive
Ask a male submissive

Why can't we have two boards for submissives?

rant rant rant rant rant

I tried asking support the 'nice' way. Long ago.

rant rant rant rant rant

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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/12/2007 11:40:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

So, My question is this...... As a sub/slave, have you ever gone back to see some of what a Dom/me has posted to see where there are things you might have in common? Do you have certain Dom/me's that you follow what they say on different subjects to get to cyber-know them better? Do you think the time investment of doing such things might be worthwhile?

LadyPact,
I regularly look at the posts made by my Master as well as a Dom that is a friend.

This "tool" is a wonderful thing for me to have at my fingertips. I am very new to this lifestyle and the questions that others ask may be ones that I have never thought to put to them. Reading their posts allows me to learn more about them each day. The investment is well worth the time.
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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/13/2007 4:30:12 AM

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-quick reply-

I don't particularly utilize the search function too much, I find I'm more likely to contact Someone based on their posts first..if I see One I think has similar thoughts/opinions to mine, I'll look at their profile after I've seen their posts, then mail them..lol. Backwards maybe, but I think you learn a lot more about a person by their posts than a "paint by number" profile *not including the personal entry*. Just my take..

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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/13/2007 5:52:58 AM

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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/13/2007 9:45:28 AM

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Greetings all,

In answer to the question posed by the OP, yes, fairer does follow certain Master's who garner her interest. she reads their posts and learns as much as she can of them before ever making any kind of contact with them. Some are on the BDSM side and other's on the Gorean forum. Since she discovered Gor through BDSM, she feels comfortable on both sides of the board.

There are also some Dommes she has had contact with in this same vein. One in particular, fairer reads all Her posts and is fascinated by all this Domme has to say. Intelligence is the greatest factor to fairer being attracted to someone and reading the forum posts is a great way to learn about someone, to her thinking anyway.

well wishes,

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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/14/2007 12:32:35 PM

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Nice subject, LadyPact. Indeed, I do read a number of peoples responses, sometimes reviewing subjects numerous times. I've found you can glean an idea of in what you ladies are interested. Now the trick is to see if I can accomodate you. Always the tough part.

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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/14/2007 12:33:38 PM

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Of course, it's always easier to get the information when you don't ave to read through 700 replies.

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RE: An idea from another thread - 5/14/2007 8:42:09 PM

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Kitte9, thank you. I'll give you that one about the 700 posts, but I've noticed on certain subjects, certain posters will follow a trend. A lot of things come up more than once.

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