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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/17/2007 7:47:29 AM

imthatacheyouhav

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I tend to listen to details...
Master told me about a girl He saw sitting at her (He assumed) boyfriends feet in a T.V. room when He was in the Navy many years ago. Master said He never forgot that image, so a couple of nights ago i was able to do something very close to that for Him. He was almost over whelmed with pride and gratitude. Master expressed this to me later that night....LOL...i would like to mention that just knowing Master was pleased with what i had done was enough for me. (the reward was OFF THE HOOK though...LOL)
Edited for spelling

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/17/2007 3:03:01 PM

kyraofMists

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I give him my devotion... and he happens to enjoy my research and follow-through skills as well. It helps balance with him and alandra.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/17/2007 3:44:30 PM

slavemaia

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Each day i seek to improve my devotion. i bring Chairman, wisdom for years of living on my own and doing for myself; versatility of skills from computer skills to understanding some basic things about cars, laughter as i'm extremely literal and so anything He says i take literally which never ceases to amuse Him. i'm a musician and composer and so i bring new music to Him. i bring attentiveness, compassion, understanding, submission, strength and i think He could answer this better than i.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/17/2007 8:32:26 PM

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This morning i offered her a peanut butter and jelly sandwich cut into a sailboat.

Tonight we both gave each other comfort over a lost kitten.

After a while, it becomes difficult to pick out the superlatives, but i think it's important that every day should bring something.

...dave

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/18/2007 3:22:24 AM

nonu

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At times, my Queen wants to be treated like a Lady, and at other times, like a sweet, child-like girl. It is entirely upto my submissive mind to anticipate Her need at any point of time. If i end up saying the wrong thing at the wrong time, i know i'm in for a long period of 'fasting' in every sense - even being able to hear Her voice. And that's as miserable as it can get.

Therefore, i offer my ability to think from both perspectives - Her's and mine, so that i'm aware of what is expected of me.

Other than that, i guess it's obvious that as Her pet, my mind, body and soul are totally under Her control, and there's not much that i need to 'offer' here.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/18/2007 11:31:27 AM

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I gave M the opportunity to practice juggling a bucket of eels, minus the bucket. I'm guessing that must please him because he's still doing it.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/18/2007 1:07:46 PM

MissPriss88

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I would like to think that my musical talent makes me a little bit special. I'm a horn player. I'm also usually cheery and tend to be bouncy and smiley. It seems as if I can always make Him smile.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/18/2007 1:46:01 PM

pamperingurfeet

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I offer me to her. without a list of things i want her to do to me. i offer her a man who cares about pleasing not getting. her pleasure is mine.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/18/2007 5:52:11 PM

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1. Obedience (4 years and no arguments. One major discussion in which neither of us raised our voices and even though both of us had things to work through, it never once interefered with his dominance or my obedience. It was just something we needed to work through. He's looked for obedience. I've looked to be obedient. It's a good match.)

2. An ability to know and understand what he's talking about when he discusses his work and the difficulties there.

2a. A complete moral support system, complete with knowledge of the intricacies of his job and when he asks for it, my input.

2b. A good head on my shoulder that I'm not afraid to use.

3. A love of boating

4. A love of fishing, coupled with the understanding that fishing is his most valued leisure time and what he uses to brush off the stresses of the week. I don't complain - ever - and I even joke that I know I come in last after the worms.

5. A moratorium on manipulation. I simply do my best to not do it.

6. A very strong belief in the idea that a dominant should have the freedom to dominate. I don't run balance sheets cataloging what he gets verses what he does for me. I simply do for him - both because it makes him feel good and also because it makes ME feel good. He does for me when he wants to, if he wants to, how he wants to. I don't need or demand reciprocity.

7. ENTHUSIASM - and an embracing of his sadism.

8. The willingness to learn to filet - but only if he gets me a fishy blindfold. I have issues cutting into something that's looking at me.

9. I don't raise my voice - ever.

10. I listen before I speak and when we do discuss something, I'm aware of how to use active listening techniques - which leads to #1.

11. The ability to think through what he says to understand what he's not saying.

12 Patience

13. Acceptance

14. And ultimately of course, submission.

juliet

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/18/2007 7:13:10 PM

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Friday evening is the night Mistress wants me most. I make myself available to Her in any way She desires. I won't take any job that requires me to work Friday evening or night.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/18/2007 8:02:57 PM

Kitte9

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Thank you for your replies.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/18/2007 8:40:34 PM

Kitte9

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Very thoughtful gesture. *applause*

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/18/2007 10:12:35 PM

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We share a love of sci-fi and watch movies together. i think i am the first girl he has had who actually enjoys this with him rather than tolerates it.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/21/2007 11:16:26 AM

earthycouple

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ready4srvce4all

Friday evening is the night Mistress wants me most. I make myself available to Her in any way She desires. I won't take any job that requires me to work Friday evening or night.

All right funny man....."want me most"? I want you "most" every second you are not in my sight! But of course I get your point....and tis true...Friday nights are just ours and I would be crushed if something out of our control took Fridays from us.

Robert, the modest guy he, is offers so very much more...

Comfort, love, victim to my deviousness, intelligence, heart, humor, strength, silliness, and weakness. He offers guidance and steadfastness, vulnerability and beauty. Robert offers complete trust, accountability, and compliance.

He offers friendship to my husband and appropriate adult interaction with my UM's. He offers to step back while I have the time I want and need with others regardless of the capacity of that interaction (no jealousy is the short term).

He offers understanding, a shoulder and an ear. He offers his body, his mind, his heart to be utilized in whatever way I feel important. He offers skills and abilities such as building, tinkering, chores, budgeting, a mind for numbers, yard care, and brute strength. He offers to pitch in for his new home (even while away right now).

He offers to not only teach my UM's but he plays silly games and listens to the ramblings of "why" questions and silly 7 year old thought processes without ever once complaining.

He takes great care to be as healthy in mind body and spirit as he can. He grows and learns every day, not for me...but for us. (There is so much more I am sure) but most of all he offers these things to ME. What more can I ask?

I simply adore this man and will care for him to the end of his days.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/21/2007 11:29:05 AM

badkittyamy

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I make my Lady laugh, even at time when She doesn't think She can, especially with her husband being in Iraq. I'm her smart ass .

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/26/2007 4:54:32 PM

Kitte9

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quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

quote:

ORIGINAL: ready4srvce4all

Friday evening is the night Mistress wants me most. I make myself available to Her in any way She desires. I won't take any job that requires me to work Friday evening or night.

All right funny man....."want me most"? I want you "most" every second you are not in my sight! But of course I get your point....and tis true...Friday nights are just ours and I would be crushed if something out of our control took Fridays from us.

Robert, the modest guy he, is offers so very much more...

Comfort, love, victim to my deviousness, intelligence, heart, humor, strength, silliness, and weakness. He offers guidance and steadfastness, vulnerability and beauty. Robert offers complete trust, accountability, and compliance.

He offers friendship to my husband and appropriate adult interaction with my UM's. He offers to step back while I have the time I want and need with others regardless of the capacity of that interaction (no jealousy is the short term).

He offers understanding, a shoulder and an ear. He offers his body, his mind, his heart to be utilized in whatever way I feel important. He offers skills and abilities such as building, tinkering, chores, budgeting, a mind for numbers, yard care, and brute strength. He offers to pitch in for his new home (even while away right now).

He offers to not only teach my UM's but he plays silly games and listens to the ramblings of "why" questions and silly 7 year old thought processes without ever once complaining.

He takes great care to be as healthy in mind body and spirit as he can. He grows and learns every day, not for me...but for us. (There is so much more I am sure) but most of all he offers these things to ME. What more can I ask?

I simply adore this man and will care for him to the end of his days.

A very moving salute. Thank you earthycouple.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/26/2007 8:35:04 PM

Rayne58

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Love, laughter, companionship and caring.........

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/27/2007 11:09:48 PM

lovinlatexco

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humor, trust, devotion, and honesty.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/29/2007 6:27:15 PM

farmlandsub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kitte9

I'm not talking tribute or gifts, but rather what special things (or not so special) do you bring to the relationship or do for your Dom/me that they find especially pleasing?

Strong firm hands for massages if i may say so.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/29/2007 7:22:29 PM

jauntyone

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kitte9

I'm not talking tribute or gifts, but rather what special things (or not so special) do you bring to the relationship or do for your Dom/me that they find especially pleasing?

Greetings

I actually had to show this one to Master and ask him about it because I truly do not believe that I bring anything 'special' to the relationship.

He just smiled, patted me on the head and told me that it is not what I do or what I bring, but rather how I accomplish it. He said that it was grace, and beauty, calm and serenity; mixed with determination, stubborness and a 'bad ass attitude'. ( I sure hope he was joking about the attitude part though )

It's quite odd though. I sat here and thought, and thought about this question and actually found myself becoming depressed when I could not think of anything special that I bring to the relationship. I guess it really does not matter what you bring, but rather how you bring it

I wish you well

melissa

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