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ORIGINAL: cybersport

I've been wondering, are there any ladies here who have an interest in bondage (doing the tying) but have to keep that interest hidden because of circumstances in their personal or professional lives.
Yes...groans.  Sometimes I wish I lived & worked elsewhere.

I'm thinking of women that have jobs that put them in the public eye...If she has an interest in bondage, who can she safely share that with?
I share My interests with very few people.  A handful know I like to Dominate. Only people I trust implicitly know.

I'm in a similar situation, although I'm a straight male bondage bottom. I've met a number of women I would like to confide in, but I'm very reluctant to do so.
This is a tricky one.  You have to decide who you can trust and who you can't.  If they can't keep their mouths shut about small things, they won't about this kind of thing.

What's the best way to handle this dilemma? Feedback welcome please.
If you have a romantic/sexual interest in these women - date them, converse with them, try and figure out for yourself if they have any kinks.  For Me, if I sense a man could be a submissive from his conversations and his actions, I will let him know I'm a Dominant.  (Others may not though)
Thank you all.

Good luck!
~Kara