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EasyE -> Posting a picture w/ face in profile (5/1/2007 6:42:40 PM)
Heya all, I have been updating my profile and want to update my pictures too as I have had the same one for years. My thoughts are about privacy though. I'm a college student and will be graduating and needing a job in a few years. It would be pretty easy for someone to figure out who I am and haze or deny employment because of this. At the same time they would have to be lifestyle driven or just fucking nosey to check a site like cm.com. If you don't post a facail picture then viewiers might wonder why you didn't. Even though this could be remidied by emailing a pic once conversation takes off, it may prevent that conversation from starting. What do you guys/gals think? Thanks, Ed

HatarAes -> RE: Posting a picture w/ face in profile (5/1/2007 7:04:35 PM)
i dont really think you should worry about it. i used to think the same thing. but then i just thought...fuggit. youre right if they find it they must be on there for a reason, so you might just make a new friend at work, and if its cuz they are poking around in your privacy, well then yeh you could be screwed. there is that risk of unwanted humiliation...

MstrssPassion -> RE: Posting a picture w/ face in profile (5/1/2007 7:25:31 PM)
many people have shared that the whole picture approval process has been a royal pain in the butt (& not the good kind) I'd say leave well enough alone because you might find yourself with no picture at all.

myobedience -> RE: Posting a picture w/ face in profile (5/1/2007 8:52:25 PM)
Its your choice.... do it or dont. Plenty dont and they still find a D or an s.

zindyslave -> RE: Posting a picture w/ face in profile (5/1/2007 9:06:47 PM)
I have noticed on some profiles that if you don't have a picture don't bother contacting them.. what is up with that? I understand not wanting anyone to know what your private life is like, but in my personal experience if they are looking at CM then they have some reason to be there. Of course I live in a small town that probably doesn't even know places like CM exist but I wouldn't worry about personally but it could be a problem considering what you are majoring in.

proudsub -> RE: Posting a picture w/ face in profile (5/1/2007 9:11:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EasyE Heya all, I have been updating my profile and want to update my pictures too as I have had the same one for years. My thoughts are about privacy though. I'm a college student and will be graduating and needing a job in a few years. It would be pretty easy for someone to figure out who I am and haze or deny employment because of this. At the same time they would have to be lifestyle driven or just fucking nosey to check a site like cm.com. If you don't post a facail picture then viewiers might wonder why you didn't. Even though this could be remidied by emailing a pic once conversation takes off, it may prevent that conversation from starting. What do you guys/gals think? Thanks, Ed You'll find a lot of opinions on this current thread: Showing your face in CM.com pics?

hisannabelle -> RE: Posting a picture w/ face in profile (5/1/2007 9:14:03 PM)
greetings easye, isn't this the same topic as your other thread? i'm having a sense of deja vu. annabelle.

HatarAes -> RE: Posting a picture w/ face in profile (5/1/2007 9:19:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zindyslave I have noticed on some profiles that if you don't have a picture don't bother contacting them.. what is up with that? . thats cuz they at least want a better placebo. a pic could still be a lie, but its better than the thought of...omg what if i meet them, and they're hideous.

zindyslave -> RE: Posting a picture w/ face in profile (5/1/2007 9:26:28 PM)
Yeah but then you are risking people finding you like the op mentioned. Wouldn't it be more sensible to ask for one after they talk and think it would be worth while persuing the relationship? I personally don't mind people seeing my pic but some people on here might be in a very comprimising postion when related to their jobs. It just confuses me I guess.

HatarAes -> RE: Posting a picture w/ face in profile (5/1/2007 10:28:37 PM)
yehh thats true. i prolly wouldnt have my pic up if i had to risk loosing my job, or worse. a pic now-a-days is just expected. it doesnt just show you, it shows youre real. it also shows you have a camera,(it means something) and it catches the eye. when a profie shows up and i see a hottie, im not gonna lie, im gonna read the profile. prolly wont message, unless its either worth it, they seem cool, or if im bored and feel like teasing a $$ domme.(i use the word domme lightly there)....the best idea i can thik of is if youre really in fear of getting spotted online, then just dont show your face, and send it later...

EasyE -> RE: Posting a picture w/ face in profile (5/1/2007 11:52:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hisannabelle greetings easye, isn't this the same topic as your other thread? i'm having a sense of deja vu. annabelle. woops lol yeah and that has 68 replies i need to read... gmail must be spam boxing my cm.com stuff. and i need sleep woops. thanks please don't expand this duplicate thread anymore omg lol

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