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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

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ORIGINAL: BondageTopJere

~major snippage~ ...I'm trying to understand why there doens't seem to be much else other than that.

It would seem, that supply and demand alone allows for it. 






BondageTopJere, I'd say that is a about as succinct an answer as you're likely to get. 

As well as accurate. 

Doesn't make it uny less unfortunate (for some) however.


Edited to add::  How do I use the quote feature again?   

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ORIGINAL: mantis65

I should have made it clearer I have no interest in poly, but I wasn’t speaking of Dommes that actually tell you up front they are married

i mean the sort of Domme you either find out through a 3rd party or something.

I have no problem with a Domme that lets you know she is married up front.  

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ORIGINAL: BondageTopJere

1. Why do so many of the profiles state the need to emasculate/humiliate their sub? I realize the obvious answer is "play", but there is an impression that such an emasculation is part of the D/s dynamic, not play, when I read it. Several of them were seeking "sissy boys" as well, which to be honest I don't quite understand. If a Domme want someone to dress, act, and talk like a girl, why not just get an actual girl? Probably literal-mindedness on my part so some enlightenment would be appreciated.

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2. Another that is related to the first is: Why is self-centeredness, harshness, and a very demanding tone so prevalent? The obvious answer is "Because I'm the Domme", but thats not quite I'm getting at. Its more the approach taken in writing the profile indicates a very dismissive attitude to any sub that would try to contact them. "Don't waste my time" is pretty common line, and seem to be a very good summarization of how the profile is written. I think I ran across one or two which had anything like a caring, loving tone to the profile. Does having a profile on here require a Domme to leave out there caring side an order to screen out the wannabes, or is it really the way they want their relationships to be?

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3. No mention of vanilla aspects? Not as common, but most of the profiles concentrated exclusively on the kink with not a word about their vanilla aspects. I don't have many myself, but I do mention a few. Is this an attempt to protect themselves or possibly they just don't care?