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any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 12:09:41 AM   
MadameStar


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Im fairly new to being a Domme and am looking for ways to publicly humilate my male sub without fears of getting arrested any suggestions gratefully accepted,if it helps im in a city in the uk
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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 12:20:13 AM   
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Send him to Tesco (or any other leading supermarket of course.....) to buy

1) a cucumber and KY jelly
2) various items of make up and pantyhose/tights

Scout out beforehand to see what this will cost - and send him with insufficient funds for added embarassment factor.

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 12:40:11 AM   
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Have him do Your grocery shopping while wearing regular street clothes and a pair of 6 inch heels.

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 5:45:29 AM   
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thanks to both yourself and LadyEllen i love those ideas

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 6:04:03 AM   
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Giggles...
I loved NUMBER ONE!!
hahahaha

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 7:13:24 AM   
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Ohhhh love humiliation. I have years of experience with public humiliation.   1)    Paint his fingernails pussy pink and then go shopping. Watch how hard he tries to hide his fingers but its impossible when he pays for things. 2)    Go out to dinner. When the waiter comes you don’t let him speak. You order for both of you. My favorite is to order only for me and when I’m done I push my plate over for him to eat my leftovers. 3)    Get a huge pair of mod 70’s looking bring plastic clip on earrings and make him wear them out. He can have a business suit on, anything and those earrings will stand out. 4)    Get a cam and put him on cam then post it on a public site, like here or my sites where tons of femdoms can view him then instruct him to do whatever they want. I’m dying to get a few dozen guys on cam like this. 5)    Make a video of him dressed like a little girl singing and dancing. Make him as silly looking as you can. Post it on youtube.com and let him see how many people are watching. Post the link everywhere. 6)    Make him wear this shirt: http://www.cafepress.com/othersex.60432962 7)    Take him out to dinner wearing a black camisole under a white button down but leave enough buttons open to reveal it.     Now for my really risky list. All things I’ve done but you could get arrested list.   1)    Order drinks but when he finishes his drink scoot the edge of the chair, piss in the glass and place it in front of him. This takes practice. 2)    Take him to a glory hole or adult book store and make him suck another man’s cock. 3)    Dress him up in women’s clothes but make no attempt for him to actually look like a woman. 4)    Send him to Victoria Secrets or the like. He is to ask the sales person for help with panties. When she ask what size he ask her what size does she think will fit him. Or he informs her that his wife has sent him to buy panties and needs help picking out something really nice. While he is there you call him on the cell phone and ask to speak to the sales person and tell her to make sure he doesn’t pick anything ridiculous and that the color looks good on him. 5)    Write on a plain white T-shirt “Cock Sucking Whore” then send him to the hardware store.     I have many. I need more coffee.

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 10:24:23 AM   
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Don't forget to add duct tape, a can of whipped cream and rope if they have it.  Vasoline can be used if no KY available.

I had fun having my submissive wear depends undergarments with light blue jeans and a tucked in shirt.... and then taking him to dinner..... and having him drink lots of water... always ordering more, and kindly sharing my water too, and then when he asked to use the bathroom, I told him he was welcome to urinate, but not in the bathroom.... he was squirming wondering how well the depends really worked... and his bottom was a bit more out there than usual- and he was very well aware of it.  He walked very, very carefully.... and then in the end, well, it's a good thing that anything goes in South Beach.

Take him shopping, buy him panties, while holding them up to him for sizing and , buy lots of stuff for yourself  (shoes maybe, he can put them on for you while you try them on ) and make him walk right behind you carrying all the bags, knock something over in the store and apologize for his clumsiness... or make him apologize.

The urine thing that Dianna mentioned can also be accomplished if you bring some in a little container in your purse and put it in his almost empty drink glass, and then make sure he drinks every drop.

Go to a T-shirt printing shop and have him order a "Property of Mistress _____ shirt.   He can then wear it out, preferably in places that children don't frequent.

A dog collar (choke chain style with modifications) with a large lock on it... while you wear a necklace with the key on it.

Have him kneel and kiss your feet in a semi-private area (a parking lot), and then pull him up by the hair or nipples... then back down for another kiss.  Someone is almost always watching.

Buy a small nerf foam ball that squishes to almost nothing.  Place it in his mouth and while his mouth is closed, no one will ever know it's there... but if he tries to talk, the ball will expand and pop out.  He will know that he can't speak and will dread when someone tries to speak to him.  You can have fun with this one.   Just check the ball you buy and make sure it is the kind that won't fall apart when wet.  A wonderful public gag.

Just a few things I have done  Have fun.

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 10:30:27 AM   
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Put a vibrating remote control cock ring on him and go out to eat.
Have fun discretely playing with the remote and watching him squirm.
Then when he's standing out, have him go pay for the order.
Even if it can't be seen he'll think it can.


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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 10:36:34 AM   
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The urine thing that Dianna mentioned can also be accomplished if you bring some in a little container in your purse and put it in his almost empty drink glass, and then make sure he drinks every drop.

Go to a T-shirt printing shop and have him order a "Property of Mistress _____ shirt.   He can then wear it out, preferably in places that children don't frequent.




oh thats cheating and the whole point is that SOMEONE see's you pee into the glass and place it in front of him.


I have a shirt that says Property of Goddess http://www.cafepress.com/othersex 
also Owned & Loved, Slave 2 Women, Woman in Control, Well Trained Male and many others. In fact I'm adding new ones as we speak so I'm happy to take request.
T-shirt are a great way to express yourself without getting in too much trouble.


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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 10:45:03 AM   
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Cock ring with bells on it and loose fitting pants or shorts.  As he walks they will jingle, and the more bells, the more jingles.  Others may not hear the jingle, but he will swear they can, and if someone does hear it, they will sorta know where it is coming from but not entirely, the look on their face will certainly make him uncomfortable.  

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 10:45:43 AM   
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The urine thing that Dianna mentioned can also be accomplished if you bring some in a little container in your purse and put it in his almost empty drink glass, and then make sure he drinks every drop.

Go to a T-shirt printing shop and have him order a "Property of Mistress _____ shirt.   He can then wear it out, preferably in places that children don't frequent.




oh thats cheating and the whole point is that SOMEONE see's you pee into the glass and place it in front of him.



It's not cheating for me... I don't want to be humiliated (or arrested) myself.  I am happy in knowing that he is uncomfortable and that people are watching.  Usually, at a restaurant, it didn't take long before we got a lot of attention.  The collar, the lock, key, way of dress.... my ordering his meal, etc. etc. and the amazing look on his face and his demeanor, people were watching.  It was fun, cheating or not.

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 10:51:26 AM   
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The urine thing that Dianna mentioned can also be accomplished if you bring some in a little container in your purse and put it in his almost empty drink glass, and then make sure he drinks every drop.

Go to a T-shirt printing shop and have him order a "Property of Mistress _____ shirt.   He can then wear it out, preferably in places that children don't frequent.




oh thats cheating and the whole point is that SOMEONE see's you pee into the glass and place it in front of him.



It's not cheating for me... I don't want to be humiliated (or arrested) myself.  I am happy in knowing that he is uncomfortable and that people are watching.  Usually, at a restaurant, it didn't take long before we got a lot of attention.  The collar, the lock, key, way of dress.... my ordering his meal, etc. etc. and the amazing look on his face and his demeanor, people were watching.  It was fun, cheating or not.


I was kidding.

Actually I've only done this at outdoor cafe type places. Like Hollywood Beach Board walk in Florida.


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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 10:52:07 AM   
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put an adhesive zipper over his mouth, make sure it is zipped shut.  tell him the only way he is permitted to speak is if you unzip it.  (make certain that the adhesive is non-toxic, semi strong, but not overly powerful)

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 11:17:05 AM   
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Make him go out to the mall or some heavily trafficked place in mismatched clothing.
For example 2 different shoes, or sweat pants and a suit coat and dress shirt and tie, or striped pink pants or something outrageous.
Make him walk through the mall barking at people like he's a dog, or meowing like a cat.
There's many ways to humiliate someone in public.
I hope this helps.
suzanne
Edited to add Ohhh I thought of more good ones....Make him walk around with toilet tissue haning out of the back of his pants or out his zipper or something.
Or make him wear a frilly baby bonnett on his head or some other womans frilly hat.
That would be very very embarassing.

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 11:53:48 AM   
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I was kidding.

Actually I've only done this at outdoor cafe type places. Like Hollywood Beach Board walk in Florida.



I am very familiar with that boardwalk... and I have had so much fun there.  South Beach too is a place where you can have fun without feeling like the total deviants we are. <smiles>

I love your shirts by the way.

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 11:57:54 AM   
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make him bow and kiss your feet

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 12:10:59 PM   
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i'm not a mistress, but if i may......?

Send him to a boutique to buy feminine underclothes for himself.  Require him to ask assistance from a sales girl.  Send a note to her that he must get her to sign to show that he had asked for help.  You might also include your phone number so she can call you later and tell you how he did.

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 12:19:10 PM   
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MsDianna,

What are some of your favorite cafes on Hollywood Beach?  Its my home town and i would love to kiss the ground You walked

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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 12:31:09 PM   
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I was kidding.

Actually I've only done this at outdoor cafe type places. Like Hollywood Beach Board walk in Florida.



I am very familiar with that boardwalk... and I have had so much fun there.  South Beach too is a place where you can have fun without feeling like the total deviants we are. <smiles>

I love your shirts by the way.


Thank you.

Back in the BBS days (if anyone remembers them) we use all meet down at the boardwalk and play Truth or Dare. This is going back quite a few years ago. Many of the slave had collars & some of our dares were're pretty funny.


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RE: any ideas for public humiliation - 5/2/2007 12:35:31 PM   
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MsDianna,

What are some of your favorite cafes on Hollywood Beach?  Its my home town and i would love to kiss the ground You walked



I don't live there anymore but I am going down Saturday for a month to visit my sister and I have a house there I rent out. I could be anywhere on the boardwalk and most likely with my sister and friends. Trust me you don't want to encounter us in a group! lol but then maybe you do.

Here's what you do:

go to http://www.cafepress.com/othersex

Buy the shirt that says "Club Cock Sucker" wear it to the boardwalk every single day around 6PM walk up and down the boardwalk starting at Hollywood Beach Hotel to that Pizza Place by the paddle ball courts. If we see you we'll know its you. I can't tell you which day.

Oh and if you see other guys wearing the same shirt walking up and down the boardwalk say hello and join them. the more the merrier.


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