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RE: Casual BDSM? - 5/2/2007 7:14:11 PM

PsyVamp

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ORIGINAL: Adelphus

Do any of you Dom/mes ever look for a 'friend with benefits' deal? You don't want a 24/7, super serious relationship but you still want to indulge your dom side every once and a while?

In simple terms.... YES
Looked, found, utilizing...And I will probably "keep borrowing" him for a while, even if/when I find my 24/7. It is wonderful to be able to play with someone I am not responsible for on a full time basis and can treat as an equal/top/bottom.
It is a completely different dynamic than I had with my previous sub.

Psy

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RE: Casual BDSM? - 5/2/2007 8:07:27 PM

bigskycountry

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ORIGINAL: MasterSohun

one of my most interesting encounters was a friends with benefits reationship between me and a Domme who wished t oexpore her sub side it happened on a camping trip ,yes i have indulged it almost came to being a long term thing but we werenot able to work out the details.

I've done the friend w/benefits thing with a couple of switch dommes and found it very fun and quite playful at times. I also found it quite useful because I more readily gave creedence to their honest feedback regarding their desires on training. The funniest and funnest part of these interactions is how "brat that holds thy tongue" they get.
As far as vanilla hook ups go, I find it a nice (albiet sparse) vacation and see it as a perfect time to enjoy the sensation of two bodies writhing against each other.

...In other words, I occasionally enjoy a respite into light pops to her little butt and winding her hair around my fist over smacking her in the face and cutting off her airway.

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RE: Casual BDSM? - 5/2/2007 8:14:21 PM

denika

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
(think worms and fire)

You are going to set worms on fire......ewwww *s*

thank you.......not about the creepies and flambe, but you already know that :)

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     Rob would definatly enjoy friends with benefits,

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