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RE: Legal issues was RE: Pro Domme - 11/1/2005 10:16:00 AM

Foibey

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Yeah, I'm in contact with a prodomme who works in the same vague region, who's offered me a lot of advice on what to tell clients and clear up ahead of working with them, and stuff like that.

I was just curious if there're any prodomme advisory services like there are for escorts/prostitutes (a la www.sw5.info and other similar sites). Having done a bit more looking I'm coming to the conclusion that there probably aren't enough prodommes around to warrant it apparently. For anyone reading this later, from what I can tell it appears that the legal concerns in Britain are exactly the same as the laws around BDSM (no causing injuries which exceed the limits of "trifling and transitory"), with the addition of having to pay tax on money earnt, and various things like scat and watersports making it count (for tax and other purposes) as prostitution which is legal as long as there's only the one person working in any given building (be that a hotel, massage parlour or anything else).

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RE: Pro Domme - 11/1/2005 10:47:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: lonewolf05

Kasia--
yes i answered it several times for several folks..
and naw--ya can't miss something you ain't had since 2001.

but thanks for asking.

woofie

I can go without enough food, without enough sleep (ok, that one not so easy), but without sex I start to look and act like raving lunatic.
2001? Huh. I would rather get shot.

I admire you wolf. You are really one great man.

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RE: Pro Domme - 11/1/2005 1:34:38 PM

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>>>>>>>>>KASIA<<<<<<<<<<

i have merely reached the plateau in life, where my personal hormones do NOT tell me what to do. i am above my hormones. and if i understand them correctly? i looked it up on the internet.....the original deadly 7 sins?

i am WITHOUT sin according to the definitions.

but hey-------it's just MY personal issues with life. it's all part of my o.c.d. and being anal from child abuse.......PLUS i never found 1 single female that could satisfy me sexually. what the hell? why keep making myself miserable? so i gave it up. just like cigarettes. just quit buying em and walked away from em...lost interest. just like sex..just like i quit drinking in 1977.
i lost interest.
i dont do s/m...
OR have ANY romance with anyone on this planet. i AM an island unto myself.
i have no arms to go running to...i stand by myself.
people TALK in this lifestyle about SUPPORT. just like vanilla do.
now WHAT in holy hec IS it? i have taken care of myself since i was 14. no one has EVER been-there--------for me. only child and no kids. no pets. no waterbeds. just me and my van in this life. and yes.......Mistress has Her hubby.

it's another reason i divorced 3 times. they were out for themselves.
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ahhhhhhhh i digress.

sorry.

but yes.........it IS just MY way in life. no better than or worse than anyone else.......just my 60's way of doing-my-own-thing.
and uh..........(blush)..........thanks for the kind words.

woofie

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RE: Pro Domme - 11/6/2005 5:29:46 AM

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Unfortunately, sexual and obscenity laws can vary from township to city to state, and all will have nuances that may or may not apply to the business a professional Dominant conducts. For example, one area may deem causing an erection with any part of the body for financial compensation an act of prostitution, while another may deem any type of sadomasochistic interaction (whether paid or free) illegal.

As John said, take legal advice and even the old "You can't do that, it's illegal!" mantra with a grain of salt. There are so many laws dictating the behavior of individuals that you are often in violation of a couple at all times. But, as one of my attorneys has a fondness for saying, "Sure.. it's against the law, but the real question is, can you get a conviction on it?" (laughs)

And to answer kisshou's second question-- not all individuals come to a ProDom with a desire for a long-term relationship (although many do), so the unfulfilled-ness you're asking about may or may not occur. Now, I offer long-term training programs, which differ from hourly sessions, which helps bridge the gap between professional and lifestyle, of which I am both. It can be a truly difficult thing for a single, unowned submissive looking for the right Dominant.

As far as the picking scenes, I won't abide by that. I take into account particular interests, fetishes, and dislikes... but ultimately it's about what pleases me. I'm not about to let the power exchange slide over to the submissive just because he's paying for it. This isn't a "service" rendered. It's an opportunity to serve an ideal.

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RE: Pro Domme - 11/6/2005 6:29:22 AM

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now WHAT in holy hec IS it? i have taken care of myself since i was 14. no one has EVER been-there--------for me.

Woolfie, you're so full of crap (and I mean that in the nicest way possible, lol). You go around speaking proudly about how you don't need love, sex, or affection, and when you find exactly that, than you also complain about never having had it. I would be a lil annoyed if I were your domina and you were talking about not getting any support like this.

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Kassia
I can go without enough food, without enough sleep (ok, that one not so easy), but without sex I start to look and act like raving lunatic.
2001? Huh. I would rather get shot.

I agree! I can go a long time without sex while hoping for a higher level connection, but would never consider giving up sex as somehow a virtuous thing. As for living without sin, what the hell is the point in that? **as she mumbles to God asking him to forgive my words here**

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