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softness -> RE: health and Ds (5/6/2007 10:43:20 AM)
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thankyou for your reply, i agree totally that a happy secure mind and body make a difficult host for illness the stress i was discussing was not stress caused by an unhealthy dynamic or lifestyle per se.
stress occurs in every relationship where there is an element of BDSM ... binding somebody, causing them physical pain/mental distress/emotional high or low even to an extent something as simple as anal sex causes the body a degree of stress - it is those moments of stress that could act as a trigger for mebut then again ... also they could continue to be totally harmless.
the stress i saw as being caused by a previous relationship came from His inability to trust my judgement or to hand back control to me during times of illness , the relationship itself was sound and happy, it was just in these circumstances (what would amount to probably less that 1% of our time together) that he could not accept my "leadership" so to speak.
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