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Phoenixandnika -> day to day in the lifestyle (5/5/2005 3:49:34 PM)

I saw in an earlier post about staying in "slave mode". this post is a contination of it

I am curious as to the nature of everyday activities not just for slaves, but submissives as well. from early in the morn to late at night, whatever those in the lifestyle would feel comfortable sharing would be appreciated. I have recently begun a 24/7 M/s relationship, and like any oher relationship, there are it's learning curves and lessons.

I found the idea of a steady routine to keep the bottom in a consistant frame of mind interesting. it is something I will take from and begin to implement moreso where I am.

My thanks in advance that choose to share their daily activities.

Poenice.



BobcatsLilMinx -> RE: day to day in the lifestyle (5/5/2005 4:41:16 PM)

Nothing complicated... for me, day to day activities include being up and awake when he wants me to be, eating 3 meals a day at his command (small eating disorder here, so that is a bigger deal than it sounds), kneeling at his feet, wearing his collar constantly and being chained by it to the bed each night. Little things, like trying to remember to leave the toilet seat up for him, singing in the shower cuz I know he likes to hear it, serving him before myself when I make tea/ coffee in the mornings, and then at the breakfast table, lunch table, dinner table...

I find that keeping these little things consistent throughout the day really does keep me in "slave mode", reminding me throughout the day of my place and position. reminding me that he comes first, his pleasure comes first, his will is my law. But I already taked about this on another thread earlier.... So keeping this one short and sweet.. just like me [;)]

Minx



proudsub -> RE: day to day in the lifestyle (5/5/2005 5:29:27 PM)

Here are a few earlier threads that might interest you:

routine

rituals

special rituals please




EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: day to day in the lifestyle (5/6/2005 6:38:36 AM)

Day to day is pretty normal, 80% of the time you couldn't tell I was anything but vanilla. I wake up, get to work, do stuff after work, go to bed.

Stuff can be anything from watch TV, go see the boyfriend, go to a munch, go to a party, go out to dinner, go see family, etc.

If I am with the Owner and spending the night I'm expected to keep things clean and clean out the cat boxes, but otherwise we just "do stuff" which again could be tv, dinner, movies, party, or whatever we want.

We're not into rituals, life doesn't like rituals and will break them as quickly as possible. We just are who we are, no matter what we do.



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