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perverseangelic -> RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles you to repeatedly ask questions that are nonya (5/9/2005 2:10:36 PM)
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ORIGINAL: BDGuy37
I just hate to jump in the middle of a perfectly good male-bashing party, but I can't help myself. While you are busily comparing notes on how to deal with ignorant males, maybe you can come up with some ideas on dealing with rude females. I can't count the amount of purely obnoxious profiles I've read here. Rather than simply setting their email filters, or a polite notice of their desires, they insist on using large font and going into great detail about how unwanted men are in their world. I have seen some of the rudest profiles I have encountered on the net on this site, including obscene gestures. While the majority don't act like this, there are far too many on this site compared to other BD/SM sites. I am wondering what is causing this lack of civility?
Well, maybe the people on here aren't approached by obnoxious females (of whom we -all- have met many) We complain about the things we deal with, that bother us. It happens that these people have been bothered most by male-identified people. Please, if you're harassed by female-identifying people, jumpt on the bandwagon! I get the feeling we're equal-opportunity sucky-people bashers.
Profiles don't bother me. They don't come into my inbox unsolicited. They pop up when I do a -search-. That is, when I seek them out. If I don't want to deal with them, I skip the profile. It isn't as if someone sent their profile to your inbox. As I see it, my problem is people who seek me out, and -then- are offensive, not people who are passivly offensive or who (whom?) I find.
E-mail isn't solicited, nor are random people adding your name to instant messangers (I get this one off alt.) Heck, even e-mail I can mostly ignore. It's the people who IM me and can't take no for an answer. And who go on to create other handles on which to bother me when I block the first. Urg.
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